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Q: Hey, I've liked a guy for about 2 years now. He's taken, he used to like me, I think he's over me now. But I fucking love him. To death. Omg, help me.

Well try to move on-trix

Q: i dont think im grl friend material. i dont know why i guess i just think that. does anyone have any ways that i could become more grl friend material. im 14.

You shouldnt change for anyone just be yourself and the right guy will come around and like you for you and noone should tell you to change or be more gurlie just be yourself trust me dont change for what others want you to be be what you want to be-trix

Q: if u like ur friend but dont want to and everyone thinks u do but u keep denying it what should u do?

Tell people because why hold it in? Make the best of it-trix

Q: sisters mad becasue i went out witt her x boyfriend which is now again her boyfriend what do i do?

Tell her you had no hard feelings and there back together so it shouldnt matter-trix

Q: i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy?

Uhh depends on what he likes just direct the questions towards him more then yourself... people love talking about themselves-trix

Q: ok well i reli like this great guy n my friend likes him 2 but hers the thing : she never stopped lykin him. so now i think he likes her more then he likes me and she dosnt even care that i like him a lot too. me n this guy still tlak n stuf but im s0o0o0o confused n idk what to do

I'd talk it out with both of them-trix

Q: I LOVE SOCKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so addicted to sock sometimes i wear 4 pairs at a time . also i like the smell of them especially right after my mom washes them they smell so fresh. i even put a pair under my pillow i always bring an extra pair of socks when i leave the house even just to got 2 the grocery store i put them in my purse every one thinks this habb it is weird but i cant help it

SOCK LUVER

We all have our loves and hates-trix

Q: I met this guy on a cruiz..hes so amazing..im in love with him. Should i tell him that i like him or keep it to myself?? thankz..

Tell him-trix

Q: i luv my bf ALOT and hes really sweet...we havent been dateing that long but do ne 1 hav any ideas that i could d0 f0r him that would b sweet?? like idk we kant drive yet so we cant go no where real far but kan u gimmie sum ideas that will turn him on n make him happy?

Get a limo.. thats what i am doing for me and Nathan-trix

Q: i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to.

Talk to them and put them in your shoes and say i understand you wouldnt like it if i blabbed off what you told me-trix

Q: I have these two guy friends (no I don't like them or anything), and they are one year older than me. When they went into high school, everything changed. We used to be really close, but lately they've been distant and rude. I know they don't know what their doing to their friendships, but I want to make an impression on them that sends the right message. I'm not mad, I just want my two best buds back!

Talk to them about it and tell them what you told me it should be understandable-trix

Q:
How do you get music on you're column page?

Idk how but it sounds kinda of bad-trix

Q: i started to like one of my guy friends...we flirt alot and he has said that i was hott but i guess i just dont wanna break our friendship. that and alot of my friends already think i like him which i always deny,just cuz we r close. but wut should i do. i dont wanna like him but its hard to tell urslef that?

Well maybe you should give it a shot and im sure if you to have a strong bond then i dont think that it would ruin the friendship so you should give it a shot-trix

Q: Hey again this is confused!!! well i no i need to talk to this guy but i cant i mean he might not take it seriouly i mean he's ALWAYS joking around and idk what to think n e more i mean i cry all the time bout him and idk!! and he treats my frnds lke n e other person and thats so nice to them...so plez tell me wwhat i should do from here!! thanx xo much
~Confused~

Well okay my bf is the haha kind of guy the humorous kind of guy that you think wouldnt care for a serious moment... but just sit down and say hey listen we need to talk i know serious talks arent fun but we need to have one.... i dont know 1 time when i really needed to get to one of my friends i cried... and that really got his attention (it was my good friend though) and so maybe crying would help you get to it but just tell him that you need to talk about whats going on because you dont know what to do anymore you dont like off and on relationships-trix

Q: Hey! ok i like this guy but idk if he likes me cuz hes always joking about things so im like does he like me or what? and then he asks me out and then dumps em right away and then i feel bad cuz of it and i do stuff i shoudldnt b doing so how do u think i can stop doing this stuf and getting him to go out with me and all my frnds say just to give up on him but i luv him way to much to give up so plez give me an anwser telling me!!! thanx
~Confused~

Well i would talk to him about it... i mean if you honestly love this guy you have to put your foot down and say you and blah... but i would sit down and talk to him and maybe if he hurts you 1 more time you should give up on him .. i mean look past the whole you loving him part... how does he treat your friends? Is a jerk to you? You gotta stay away from the guys that hurt you there is this quote and it goes... Guys are like roses.. watch out for the pricks-trix

Q: |Gurl| 13 | Hey ive liked this kid for like 3months now, he knows i like/liked him but things never worked out between us, we never actually went out though. We started out as friends, then one day i told his friend i liked him n he was still in tha room n saw it. His friend told me he said tha other day he felt tha same way bout me. So then the nxt day wen he was home i told him i liked him, then he told me his friend told him already. But I kinda ruined things wen i madeout with sum kid wen i wasnt going out with dat kind n still liked him(as in tha kid i liked for a while). I dont think i like him to much anymore, cuz he barley shows any intrest in me anymore n we barley talk. N 1 of my friends i think likes him now, which was really rong of her to do to me, even tho i tell everyone im over him and i pretty much am. Im just kind of jealous and mad cuz we're not even really friends anymore! Wat should i do?!

Thanksz!

Well you cant really help how you feel now can you? And neither can your friend at least you know that your friend likes him though otherwize it could be a mess so... i would try to figure out your mixed feelings like weather you like him or not-trix

Q: Im female and 14...Okay i like this boy Matt. I met him in a transition to highschool summer program..so i have knwon him for a few weeks but it feels like I've known him..for forever! Hes so awesome! Hes outgoing,easy to talk to,has goals in life and cute! Its soo nice to have a best guy friend..but...I have totally fallen for him. I like him..sooo much, and I know he thinks im hot/cute/pretty w/e n i know he likes me kinda but he doesnt wwant to go out. Which i kind of understand because we only have a month n 1/2 left of summer n then school will start. So yeah..but I like him so much! Im not sure what to do. All of tha girls in tha program keep telling him we should go out bc we flirt alot n we would make a cute couple. But I'm still not sure what to do. Should i say something or...what?! Please Help!

Well yes you should say something but i would advise you to to maybe just wait until highschool starts that way you can explore the highschool life and if you to still really like eachother like how everybody says then you to will end up going out just keep it a open book for now but dont put a close on the whole going out thing maybe you to could go out to the movies or something together just as date but not a official couple or anything-trix

Q: hey! well i`m 13 and i went campin a few weeks ago with my brother and a bunch of other peopl i usually go camping with there all close friends and alot of times we meet alot of kids well this one time we were playin manhunt and we met a kid who just turn 15 and i thought he was cute from the start sorta like love at first site ! well afta that night all i could think about was him we would look at each other alot and talk !! the next night we were suppose to play that game again but we couldn't so we all just went ova to his fire and hung!there were no more chairs for me by the fire so he pulled up a chair for me right next to him and i helped him make a a s`more and then we left and he gave me his s/n the next day we left the campground and i have been talkin to him on line and on the phone alot he said i was hot and we flirt alot but the probablem is age he 15 and i`m 13 and he lives a hour and 15 mins. away what should i do ? can u help ? x0ox

Well i am sure you have heard many people before say age is nothing but a number and age doesnt matter... you to are probably just a year and some months apart me and my bf are a year and 7 months apart im 14 and he is 13 in sept. ill be 15 and next yr. he'll be 14 in april... so age doesnt really get to us and we have talked about it and we know that age is nothing but a number. And if you and that guy like eachother enough then go out with eachother and i know the whole long distance thing is a real hassle because i had a bf that lived 4 and a half hours away and we lasted along while but it was a real tie down maybe you guys could wait until one of you have a license but you could give it a shot and it would be understandable if you did break up because you live so far away hope all goes well-trix

Q: Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today (7-12-04) and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this email... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do?

Well admiting you were wrong would only help you out but i would talk to him and say that the break you to are taking isn't going over so well because you miss him SoOo much but maybe first befor you say how you feel you should ask him how he feels-trix

Q: i dont kno anyone in my new skool *highskool*im not a mean person and i have alot of friends in my old skool do you think ill make friends cuz im really scared about it please help!thanks in advance

just be friendly and say hey be open-minded not close-minded dont be judgemental-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"