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i just broke up with my bf
Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today (7-12-04) and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this email... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do?
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Well admiting you were wrong would only help you out but i would talk to him and say that the break you to are taking isn't going over so well because you miss him SoOo much but maybe first befor you say how you feel you should ask him how he feels-trix
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Still talk to him about it. You did say BREAK its not like it was a breakup its just a break. You guys should still talk and be friends atleast. Just call him up and tell him exactly what you just told us! Thats all you really can do. I know how hard it may be, but you have to try. I don't want you to be unhappy, maybe you're boyfriend (even though your on a break, IDK what to call the kid lol) can help you out and make you happy again. Just try talking to him and tellin him why you need a break. Maybe you just need a break from a lot of things until you can be happy again. If you need to talk about this, just post back or something. I'll be glad to help you =D
**Hope you start to feel better**
xoxo Kourtney
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Tell him the reason you wanted to take a break... If he really loves you or whatever he won't let you out of his life...
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