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Q: My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.

I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)

THANKS!

I would drop hints and then a few days before ask to go on a DATE with him. If he says no ask if he will go just as friends then. I would wear my bathing suit under a t-shirt and shorts. With sun glass and a hat. hope this helps rate well and add comments bye

Q: Im am 16 year old female and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. A week ago i said i didnt trust him because i heard he was flirting with his friend.I was hurt up until i heard it was part of there relationship. I really do trust my boyfriend and didnt mean to say that i didnt. I have told him a million times i didnt mean it but things havent gone back to normal. He says he still hurt by what i said. What should i do??

You can either get over him or ask him what he would of thought if you were the one flirting with someone else. Ask him what he would do. RATE ME WELL AND PUT COMMENTS!!!

Q: Hey I am a 13/f and I want to know if 5'7" and about 105lbs os overweight??
thanks

no way, your fine!!!!

Q: umm well my grandma is so annoying! she wont leave me alone! she follows me everywhere and says bad stuff about my sister and others. i hate her so much. shes visiting until tuesday(from N.C.) how do i get away from her!!!
thanx a bunch!

Try and plan with your friends, act like you have had that plan forever. Then if that doesn't work try and play sick or like you have to go to the library because of summer homework. It's always worked for me. RATE HIGH PLEASE!!

Q: hey i want to pierce my belly button by myself and i want to no where u could by a clamp and how to do it i cant go to a professional because my mom doesnt want it done thanx

You should wait until you can go to a pro. Piercing that part of your body can be very dangerous. It's not like piercing your ears.

Q: i am 20 and preganat with my second child judt told my boyfriend i am pregnant last night and he told me to get a abortion what do you think about that? when i was fertile i told him i was and not to cum in me but as you can tell he did it anyway and i asked him are you sure about what you doing he said yeah. do you think i should break up with him cause he doesn't want to face up to his responsibilty? then on top of that right after my son turned two his mom had a bad stroke and now she is in the nursing home and he doesn't go see her and he said he doesn't because he doesnt like seeing her like that dont you believe that is wrong? i just started going to see her just me and my son and i told her i am pregnant and everything is okay she is going to do fine and i will visit her more often. the real problem is i think my boyfriend is cheatin i ask him and he says no and ask ,me to put hickies on his necks but i foumd his boxers and it looked like he had sex with someone on thet period i am gon ask him about it do you tthink i am wrong for qestiong him about his where abouts and other things? or does that sound like ii am insecure because he has cheated on me in the past and i aint trynna catch nothin.do you think havin a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is cheatin? if you can please answer these questions and have a nice day thanks once again

Break up with that jerk! He does not respect you enough.

Q: hey okay i had this real good friend until she meet olivia me and olivia were good friends but now she is just a bitch she always turns people against me and now she has turnd my best friend against me like one night she IMs me saying i hate your guts but she does this when she is only around olivia ........i have to be nice and i cant say nething to her because she is hooking me and her cousin up.....but like she usualy talks to me on the internet but last night she was curseing me out and stuff but hey olivia was at her house right next her ........i dont kno what to do like should i talk to her about this or just leave it alone and let time take its tol?

Did you think that maybe Olvia was the one writting the im things. Explain to your friend that what Olvia said was not true. Bye

Q: I got really mad and wrote this e-mail to my study skills teacher. In the e-mail I wrote stuff like how much I hate her, and how I'm so glad i'm not taking her class next year! But by accident I pressed the forward key and it was in my mom's name so like she already had the address up. At first I didnt know what happend. But then I checked the Out Box and it was in there! Which means that it got sent!!!!! And now i'm freaking out!!! WHAT DO I DO! IS THERE ANYWAY TO GET THE LETTER BACK!???

Try and crack into your moms e-mail address and delete her e-mail. Or tell her that one of your friends wrote that but you accidently sent it to her. RATE ME WELL BYE BYE GOOD LUCK!!

Q: I want to take up a babysitting job for extra cash but, i dont know the neighbors that just moved in and thats the ones whos baby i want to sit, and my dad doesnt get home from work till 5:00 and i want to babysit!
should i meet the neighbors and babysit till my dad comes home or should i ask my dad and risk not being able to do it?
please hurry
ill rate high

Call your dad and check with him. If he says it's ok go. You don't want to put yourself in harms way. BE SAFE!!

Q: im thirteen and not fat but bigger than i want to be im not over wieght and im not under its just that i would like to lose a few pound do you know any diets or exercises that have fast results

thanx so much

not so slim

Eat right and exercise everyday! RATE ME WELL! THANKS!

Q: Does anyone know any good hair styles for the summer besides a pony tail because im really getting sick of them!PlZ answer this....i rate high!!

If you like to have your hair pulled out of your face you could do a half pony tail and add little clips to the top or your head.

Q: i have this friend,we'll call her sandy. Sandy always copys me..she likes my bf..she is wicked mean to me..she brags and brags..she says that shes ugly ONLY so me and my friends tell her that she is not ugly. Im slowly breaking away..i dont want to be her enimy i just dont want her to be my friend...

I would give her an unsigned note saying that she is always copping you and your friends. Tell her she should try and be herself more often. She just wants to her that she is not ugly from your friends tell them to ignore her when she says that. If she starts copping you then tell her to stop.

Q: I have been talking to this guy (we'll call him chris) and his friend (lets call him anthony) has been calling me and stuff. They are like brothers. Chris had asked me to go to the movies but i said i couldnt. and Anthony asked me to the movies too and i told him i couldnt either but i invited anthony to a softball game...and chris got mad at me and anthony. i dont know if chris likes me or something. and if he does i dont wanna mess up their friendship but i really like Anthony...what should i do?
*ill give u a 5 ranking* thanks

Explain it to Chris and tell him that you think you like Anthony. Let it settle in for a few days. Then you should tell Anthony and see what happends from there.

Q: I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship?

No don't trust the dream. Usually it is what you think about last right before you go to sleep.

Q: This year, i got put into the earliest lunch period at school- i eat lunch at 10:30 am. because of this, i stopped eating breakfast, so that i'm hungry at lunch. but then, since i eat so early, i am starving my the time school is out. by dinner, i'm not very hungry, and i get hungry around 930ish. i hate my eating schedule- its so screwed up and i know it can't be good for my body. any ideas?

You should tell your parents and see if they will contact the school. Or you can talk to the princlpal and see what happens. Your right that can't be good for anyone!

Q: well i went to a concer like 2 days ago and i was in the mosh pit and i got thrown on stage...
i stood up and the band had stopped playing and everyone was staring at me...i feld so embarassed. but then i saw my bf in the front row and i started singing the song that they were playing... so they started playing the song again and i was up their the whole show..
the band called me the next day and asked me and my band to come with them on tour... my band is called the audio switch.
should i go on tour with them and miss the whole summer hangin wid my friends or play punk rock music with mental riot on tour?!?!?!
help!!!!
they both sound so awesome but bieng on tour with metal riot is a chance of a lifetime..

You should go to with mental riot on tour. Your right there are many summers but not alot of chances like this. Make sure your parents know what you are doing and be safe.

Q: My boyfriend keeps coming back to me, claiming to love me but he always ends up cheating on me with his ex. What do i do? I'm a female age 15.

Don't do it. There are much better guys out there. He is a jerk.

Q: i know that guys dont like clingy girls, and i know that guys dont like girls that are to "separated" if you know what i mean...so my question is...what is in between clingy and separated to where it is just right and the relationship will not fail due to this type of problem....and also in that "just right state," how does the person act?

Hey,

Just be yourself. If a guy doesn't like you who cares he is the one missing out.

Q: well this might be long so sorry in advance.. well me and my bf have been together since feb. of 2004 and things seem to have been goin perfect until.. this summer.. see hes involved in so many things with basketball camps and helping out.. and im involved in cheerleading.. and then there are vacations and stuff like that so what im gettin to is there is a long gap of bein able to see each other. this is wierd bc we r used to seeing each other everyday [durin school] and doin things on the weekends. last summer wasnt the best for us either.. and i dont want this summer to end like that did.. so wut im tryin to say is there any advice anyone could give me on ways to see him more. what to do when i see him to make it u know "special" since there is that long gap between seein each other. i just dont want this relationship to be over bc the lack of seeing each other. I love him so much and i will do anything to be able to see him more... someone please help

[[ this weekend im busy all weekend and he is leavin for vacation for 12 days on the 19th ]]

Hello,

Try and make plans ahead of time. Or try and go to camps that he is going to. Call him every now and then. Soon he will see what he is missing. Also try and tell him how you feel. E-mail me if you have any more questions! ccruwithme@homtail.com bye

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