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pregnancy and nees advice
i am 20 and preganat with my second child judt told my boyfriend i am pregnant last night and he told me to get a abortion what do you think about that? when i was fertile i told him i was and not to cum in me but as you can tell he did it anyway and i asked him are you sure about what you doing he said yeah. do you think i should break up with him cause he doesn't want to face up to his responsibilty? then on top of that right after my son turned two his mom had a bad stroke and now she is in the nursing home and he doesn't go see her and he said he doesn't because he doesnt like seeing her like that dont you believe that is wrong? i just started going to see her just me and my son and i told her i am pregnant and everything is okay she is going to do fine and i will visit her more often. the real problem is i think my boyfriend is cheatin i ask him and he says no and ask ,me to put hickies on his necks but i foumd his boxers and it looked like he had sex with someone on thet period i am gon ask him about it do you tthink i am wrong for qestiong him about his where abouts and other things? or does that sound like ii am insecure because he has cheated on me in the past and i aint trynna catch nothin.do you think havin a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is cheatin? if you can please answer these questions and have a nice day thanks once again
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No its not wrong. You have a right to know. If he doesnt answer right away it probably mean yes gurl.
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Break up with that jerk! He does not respect you enough.
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YOu sound like a really nice girl. Going to see his mom and all. Get a good guy to take care of you. This guy is a jerk, and not worthy of you.
If you have this second baby, things will be harder for you, but I raised two boys by myself, and we all did OK. Yes it was hard, but I made the mistake, so I made the sacrifice. They kids ALWAYS come first.
GOod luck to you.
DUmp that guy.
Michele
I got your feedback thank you. Let me give you some encouragement.
You have chosen the most perfect career. Pharmacists are in short supply. You won't have any problem finding a good paying position when you are through with college and because you are in such demand, they will work around your schedule with the kids. What a great position to be in. Like it said it will be hard, but I know that you can do it. Since you are so young, you will have a quick recovery from the birth. I think you should get back to class right away. and finish the semester. I wish you a lot of luck, please keep in touch with me if you ever have questions or need some encouragement. God bless you for your decisions and stay strong.
Michele
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Yeah. Break up.
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I'm sorry if I sound rude, I'm not trying to be, but if you didn't want to get pregnant why didn't you use protection? And why aren't you using it now when you think he may be cheating on you?
No, having a conversation with the opposite sex is not cheating. And it is entirely possible that he doesn't like seeing his mother because he feels bad.
Whether or not he is cheating on you now, there are some problems within your relationship that need to be addressed. You need to talk to him, if not for yourself, then for the child you now carry.
Ilsewin
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No having a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is not cheating so dont worry about that and if he was a good boyfriend then he would have taken responsibility for this second child. You have got the right to be asking him about his where about's if you think that he has been having sex with someone else and u found his boxers and if it looks like he has been having sex.
Well hope that I helped.
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he just gets me mad. I really don't think that his oppion should go into the birth or abortion of your second child. I do beleave that he is cheating on you, has done it in the past and from what I hear he's not treating you like a father of your child and boyfriend should treat you. I do not think he is goood for you and your baby.
And not once did you mention that you had feelings for him. As far as I think, I think you shoudl break it off with this guy. Do it before it affects your baby.
I really think that you have every right to question where he is and why he has blood on his boxers. You need to question him and what his doing. What if you do get an STD from him?! Hes not worth that risk.
And no I do not think that a friendly converation with the opposite sex is is cheating. We do it every day we talk to our boos or co-workers (or in my case fellow students).
And for one last thought I do think that it is meen that he doesn't want to see his mother like that. But it does make sence, I do think it is nice that you are visting her and I think it would be nice to keep on doing so. But really this is not your problem.
Hope this cleared youe mind
~kooka
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