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Q: my computer that i have saves everything that i look up on any search engine and i don;t know how 2 delete it. even if i delete the web history it doesn't go away and i tried right clicking sum of the stuff i looked up and it wouldnt delete. i really want to know how to do this because 1. i don't trust my brother and i think he goes onto my account and i look up girl stuff and weightloss and stuff and i dont' want him blabbing 2 my parents. and 2. my friends wanted me 2 find out for them. so thanks in advance.
Go to the search engine you want to delete the content from. Click your mouse in the empty box where you write what you want to search for and a list will pop up containing everything you've searched for in the past. Put your mouse over the first item in the list but DON'T CLICK ON IT. With your mouse over the list the letters will turn blue and you can use the delete key on your keyboard to delete the items in the list.

Hope this helps.

Q: i am 20 and preganat with my second child judt told my boyfriend i am pregnant last night and he told me to get a abortion what do you think about that? when i was fertile i told him i was and not to cum in me but as you can tell he did it anyway and i asked him are you sure about what you doing he said yeah. do you think i should break up with him cause he doesn't want to face up to his responsibilty? then on top of that right after my son turned two his mom had a bad stroke and now she is in the nursing home and he doesn't go see her and he said he doesn't because he doesnt like seeing her like that dont you believe that is wrong? i just started going to see her just me and my son and i told her i am pregnant and everything is okay she is going to do fine and i will visit her more often. the real problem is i think my boyfriend is cheatin i ask him and he says no and ask ,me to put hickies on his necks but i foumd his boxers and it looked like he had sex with someone on thet period i am gon ask him about it do you tthink i am wrong for qestiong him about his where abouts and other things? or does that sound like ii am insecure because he has cheated on me in the past and i aint trynna catch nothin.do you think havin a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is cheatin? if you can please answer these questions and have a nice day thanks once again
I'm sorry if I sound rude, I'm not trying to be, but if you didn't want to get pregnant why didn't you use protection? And why aren't you using it now when you think he may be cheating on you?

No, having a conversation with the opposite sex is not cheating. And it is entirely possible that he doesn't like seeing his mother because he feels bad.

Whether or not he is cheating on you now, there are some problems within your relationship that need to be addressed. You need to talk to him, if not for yourself, then for the child you now carry.

Ilsewin

Q: Im just wondering, this is a quick question. I slept over my new friends house. Shes extremely pretty, rich, but shes diabetic and she smells like fish. Badly. I know she sprays perfume down there, she's told me. But she cannot find a way to get rid of the smell. What should I tell her as advice?
First, advise your friend to stop spraying perfume down there. It messes up the normal balance of things and could be the cause of the 'fish smell'.
Second, get her to go see someone about it. Most infections can be treated simply with a course of antibiotics, and, although it is embarassing, it's better in the long run.

Q: Hey ! I'm taking Christian Counseling in college and i need to write a paper on alcoholism how it affects the family from the smallest child to the middle child to the oldest and the mom and dad and neighbors and everything like what happens and what are words to describe it i have searched the internet but can't find anything ! Does anyone know of any sites or could tell me about because you have been through it ! I rate high ! THANKS!
few links for you


http://www.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/booklet.htm

http://alcoholism.about.com/

Also, search google for alcoholism it'll give you more results.

Hope this helps you :)

Q: ok im 15/f and usually i can fake being happy and it all ends up ok but now im having mood swings like crayz and very f-ed up thots bout suicide and i feel like im battling myself and evryone else just to stay alive and i started kutting a while ago but i stopped kuz my boyfrind at the time made me promice so i did eveything i could and i did then we broke up and i have been going steadily downhill and started cutting again and not just kuz of him but alot of things first it was on my lower abdoment then lil ones on my wrist im scared of what may be coming next and if i can stop it again and keep hiding my red eyes from tears and the blood stains its getting to hard, and im scared to ask suum1 bout help kuz i think theyll kall me crazy and just another fukd up thing on my mind so dohave any advice or anything for me? anything ?
There really is no easy answer for what you're going through right now. And, although you are scared, I would advise you to go and see someone about your self-harm and depression. They won't think you're crazy, I know this because last year I went through the same thing myself. Please, talk to someone about how you are feeling, it will help you.

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