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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

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Its the half term at the moment and i have tons of homework to do, i know i really should start doing it and i try to do it, but i just cant get myself motivated, and i dont seem to be able to concentrate very well, even though usually can. Any ways that'll help me concentrate and be motivated to do it?

Just try to do it as soon as you get home. Before the computer, phone, tv, ect. All that stuff gets you unfocused, and makes you loose your concentration. After all your homework is finished or the majority of it treat yourself to the computer or something. I hope this helped. ♥

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Hiya, does anyone know any good websites with beauty tips for teens?

http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/beautyadvice/index.htm
http://www.tellmehowto.net/beauty/

i hope those are okay. ♥

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i like this guy in my english class and were working on this project together. its so much fun i love being around him and we have good conversation. im worried though becuase friday is the presentation for our project and when its over i dont want things to be like they used to when we didnt talk much. i think he may like me but im not bold enough to ask him out. i dont know what to do about it! please help!

Try being honest with him. Tell him how much you enjoyed working with him, and getting to know him. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you besides doing the project. I'm sure he would want too. If you do hang out, and things go well ask him out! I hope I helped.♥

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Hi. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but we really have no where to go to have sex. No car no nothing. We're both 16 and my question is, is it wrong to have sex in a movie theater when no one is there? And what happens if someone walks in? And how long does it take your first time?

whooooooa!! a movie theater = a wrong place to have sex .. trust me my friend gave someone head in the theater before and then she got caught and got into a lotttt of trouble! and also you're too young to be having sex wait until you're older at a romantic place hope i helped ♥britney

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what exactly is eating a girl out?

its when a guy licks ur gentails.. lol

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ok over the summer i was raped by this kidthat i was kinda friends with but not like best friends but i didn trust him and we were at a block party and he was like "do u want to go see my new computer?" and i was like "okay?"
and so when we got there he like locked the door and pulled out a condom and pushed me down and wouldnt let me go. i said no over and over again but he wouldnt stop. then i started cutting myself and crap bc my parents like beat me and cps is even involved with my family...so i cant tell them bc they wont believe me. i still cut and i dont know how to deal with the rape bc thats all i ever think about and i dont know what i can do. (i dont know where he is now and i dont know his last name and there is no proof so i cant press charges) what else can i do to deal with this?

well you could still go to a doctor and get checked because if somehow the condom broke is DNA would be in you and then you could easly press charges! and im extremly sorry for you =o'( and about ur parents and stuff .. i'd go to ur guidence counsler at school to find you some regular help such as a (therapist or such) i hope you honestly get better im really sorry if you ever need anyone to talk to you can IM me and candii advicex0 or xox0britney ♥britney

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What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused

a padded bra is like extra stuffing for your boobs like it makes it kinda look a cup up and a cup bra shapes them like makes it look more circular yet doesn't really change the shape ♥ britney

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I havent been eating lately, not because im anorexic, im just depressed. My parents think i am anorexic and their really worried. i try to tell them im not but, they dont believe me. What should i do?

well what i would do is try your hardest to eat in front of ur parents .. and if thats not it tell ur mom like sit her down one day and explain to her what's been going on ! im sure she'll find a good way to make everything better .. i hope you feel better soon

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Hey all! Okay, well there is this boy who I work with. I went out with him for a long time..9 months..and then we broke up. I had felt too tied down and he had really been starting to annoy me. Well I was talking to him a few days ago and he wants to get back together. I really don't want to, but when I tried to tell him that, he didn't take no for an answer. He still thinks I wanna go out again regardless of what I say. What should I do??

well what you need to do is just ignore him or something or just tell him the truth tell him that you dont want a boyfriend rite now and maybe in the future it would work out .. make sure he doesn't keep thinking you like him tho! hope i helped..

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There is this kid at my school who has been following me around eveywhere since 4th grade, hes really sweet and all... but he thinks i love him. What is up with him, should i tell an adult or just let him go do his thing and yell at him if he gets out of hand? *im in 8th grade by the way*

yeah. i've been through that. it's not exactly like a sicko stalker, yet it's pretty weird. im guessing if he's like seriously obsessed like follows you absoultly everywhere deffinitly tell an adult,but like if it's just too class or something just tell him uhm can you please leave me alone or something pretty polite? and uhm maybe he just likes you a lot? haha i dont know .. but i hope i helped?

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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant?

uhm yeah that's a little odd? why would he put a condom on juss for a handjob? and uhm no, you deff. can't be pregnant unless he had sperm on his finger, and stuck it up you, which I doubt? so no.

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My best friend and I are going to experiment again. We were wondering is there any other thing we can do while experimenting(. We've already tried French kissing and nibbling on each other. What else can we do like a different way to kiss or something (nothing vaginal!!).

uhm gross. haha j/k but i'd prolly try touching more? take both tops of and like sentually rub? but haha i dont know .. hope i helped?

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Ok, well my friends turned on me at the beginging of this year (7th grade)I have been hanging out with other peeps thati really like. Then all of a sudden this girl marissa imed me on aim and said that since i left they are now the most popular girls in school and i have no style! i to have style. maybe i have to have the RIGHT style. Should i go by what i think or be one of the crowd. and if it do need some "style tips" can any popular/cool 7th grade girls tell me wat would look good. i have brown hair with blonde highlights. i have blue eyes.i a kinda short. i mean, wat kind of clothes r in? am i doing my makeup right?

PLEASE HELP ME
JENNA

heey im in 7th grade, and i guess im pretty popular? well first of all i wouldn't have listened to them but .. i'd say abercrobie kids/abercrombie and fitch,hollister,wetseal.. anything like that is

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this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored?

I think you deff. shouldn't just be sitting their! I'd deff. invite someone! I'd ask her first tho? But I hope I helped =o)

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

haha nothing's wrong wiff you! ur just exploring lol tehehe =] well i hope i helped♥

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Okay heres the deal, I have this huge crush on this guy and he already knows and since hes known hes been extra nice to me (i guess hes trying to make me feel special or something which is nice but whatever)anyway he got mad at me because my friend called him like a millon times when I wasnt looking on my house phone and he knows my last name but thats all cleared up now because i talked to him and now were friends again. I have his cell # and home phone # so Im asking....Is it okay if I call him? ~Jacki

i think you should most deff call him!! i mean don't over call because guys are sometimes weird? lol.. wellah i hope i helped ♥britney♥

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i going skating with my boy friend tonight and i am going to wear some cute blue jeans with some top thats where i ned yalls help here is your chocies a jaket thats like a burgedy that says Abercombiewith the zipper pulled haft way down and you see a whit shirt or a orange that says Hollister zipper pulled haft way down with white shirt?????? any other ideas
Tanks
~~~SCM~~~

i think they both sound adorable hollister & abercrombie are my two fav stores«3 umm i'd do whatever looks best or makes me feel better? they both sound cute tho ! have fun wiff ur boyfriend lol ♥britney♥

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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!*

Awe. Well this boy obvisioly atleast seems caring =] Well what I would do is whenever the silence is happening just start up another convo because you wouldn't wanna loose someone this awesome lol

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Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?


thnx for the help>> roxy

Yeah you can't get any STDS or diseases or anything. I guess I mean it's sorta weird in my opinion that you fingered urself, but oh well? Well that sorta happend to me wiff the 7th grade fingering thing, but I actually got fingered and nothing happend? I just regret it like crazy! Make sure you take some actuall time and think about it! I know fingering isn't far, yet it's sorta idk odd and strange for a 7th grader. And if you go along wiff it, make sure he's "clean"

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ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren

I'm pretty sure it's completly normal. I think since it's probably your first time (So I am guessing) that you just feel ashamed, or odd. I mean if you didn't wanna do it obvisioly you're going to have a bit of regret. I hope everything is better

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