...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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Location: CA
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i like this boy but im not sure if he likes me back should i ask him? but im like really shy he comes over everyday to see my baby sister which is 9 months old but i think his excuse is to see me i mean he is kind of skinny and plays football and im really in love with him but im bot to skinny im 130lbs but im losing weight and he is like 110lb i think im too fat for him cuz he likes girls like paris hilton and i want to be skinny like her andi have a few months to go to be like her so he is always looking and talking to me does this mean he likes me?please help (link)
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This guy just seems to be lowering you self esteem level. You dont want someone like that, but if you really want him faten him up!
-shay :-)
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if the boy i like doesnt want to do anything when he is older for a job except sit on a computer and do his job there should i keep liking him or move on? i mean he is great around little kids and comes over everyday to see my baby sister and i think he will be a great dad and i want to be with him for eternity but i mean if he is going to be lazy and never do anything with me should i find a better man? iv liked him for 2 years and i think he likes me but im just worried he is going to sit and watch football allday... we are only 13 and 14 but im in love and dont know what to do please help me (link)
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You should talk to him about it if it bugs you so much. My uncle works on the computer and he lives in a motorhome. Bring up other jibs to him like lawyer. He'll eventually come around.
-shay :-)
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My boyfriend, David has diabetes. He has had it for almost 4 years. He has asked several doctors on the proper nutrition, but they all give different responses. So my question is does anyone have Diabetes that knows the proper nutrition facts in what he should eat.
Sincerely,
worried (link)
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I dont have diabetes, but you could try things. Go to a whole bunch of different doctors and try things and see if they work. Im sure I cant tell you anything a doctor can.
-shay :-)
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I have some lentils and I want to make a casserole or somthing like that. I can get other veggies and have a good collection of spices... any suggestions? Tips for making them soft but not mushy, and what type of sauces to use would be appreciated. (link)
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Sauces is probably the only one I can help you with. Hot sauces always get the mouth going like salsa! Go to Wal-Mart and maybe someone can help you.
-shay :-)
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See grandma and me and mother got into a fight and they told me they decided to ship me off to school as they put it. I talked to mother about it and she also wants to send me to school but i dont wanna go I like homeschool even if it is loney having no friends and im scared if i got to school Ill get talked back beind my back and have no friends. what do i do? (link)
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You got to shape up. Act better around the house and seem more helpfull. Try to lower your voice tone and be as nice as you can be.
-shay :-)
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I have a friend that moved to Richmond. He says it's a waste of my money to visit her because there is absolutely nothin to do there. Does anyone live in Richmond, Virginia that knows this is true? (link)
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Ive never been to Virginia, but maybe you could surf the web to see. Try having her visit you. Maybe you'll have more fun.
-shay :-)
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Ok see here is the problem,I really want a boyfriend but I am afraid I will not get one because i am what some people call gothic and what other people call punk or a skater.I dont know what to do!I really want a boyfriend i feel so lonely without one what can i do to get one without changing who i am or what i belive in? Also i dont like getting rejected i think it is akward. (link)
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Find a guy that is also refered to "gothic" or "punker". He'll know what you go through, but sometimes these things come when you least expest thm to.
-shay :-)
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my friend mari just got dumped by this kid zack and he likes my friend nicole.. and nicole liked him. well, mari found out about nicole and zack and she told nicole that she doesnt want them going out because she still likes zack. i tried to tell nicole not to do it because her and mari are friends. well, nicole did it to mari. and they are both my friends and i dont want to get stuck in the middle of everything. then they went to a basketball game. and nicole told me that mari went up to her and said that she is going to get zack back. and i asked mari if thats true and she said no. then she went and told nicole that i told mari nicole punched her in the face. and i didnt. and i dont know what to do! (link)
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I dont think this is your problem. I know they're your friends and you want the best for them, but right now its best to stay out of the situation.
-shay :-)
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whats the best way to tell someone you don't like them anymore?
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You dont have to tell them unless you're going out. If your not dating just dont pay as much attention to that person as you used to. If you are going out sit that person down and explain that you two shouldnt go out anymore.
-shay :-)
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I have two beautiful Shih Tzu dogs who had puppies together. I adore my dogs and their puppies. I gave one of the little darling puppies to my friend and her daughter. Her daughter has health problems. I made it very clear if she was unable to keep the puppy, I prefer her to return the puppy to me. Less than a week after I gave her the puppy, she has given the puppy to her friend Heather, a woman I do not even know. She says that she gave her the puppy until it is housebroken because she does not want the puppy around her daughter. I gave her this puppy that I could have easily sold for over $500 and now she has given it away. How can I make myself clear that I want the puppy back? I made it a point to place these puppies with people I know because they are such important little animals to me. The parent dogs are like my children and the babies are like my grandchildren. I feel insulted, angry, and hurt that my friend went against the direct conditions of me giving her the dog and I want the puppy back so I can place him with someone I know. (link)
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Tell your friend that those dogs are like your grandchildren and they're very special to you. Ask her imediatletly for the puppy. If she refuses tell her that she must pay the fee.
-shay :-)
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okay im like with this guy on the net and stuff and we've like been 2geter for two months rite and i like really like him and like he's all like saying about how much he luvs me and junk and want to like sped eterinity with eachother and im like i don know and like what do i like do. (link)
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You met him on the net? If he askes you to see him dont see him. He could be telling you all of that i love you stuff because hes an old man and he want to rape you. Those relationships are just no good.
-shay :-)
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Alright, my friend liked this guy and so did i. It all looked as if he liked my friend, but when she asked him out she found out he liked me... then he was being all a jerk to my friend... but she still likes him and can't stop liking him... ummm... then he asked her out cause i guess he realized he was being a jerk... she said i don't know... he said all suprised "You don't know!?!?"... then she talked it over with her other friend and she said no... she still likes him and now knows i like him... should I go out with him... my friend said to me the other day "Why would u want to go out with him if you saw him be such a jerk to me?" and i though about that and can't decide, and i'm afraid my friend will hate me if i do but i like him. (link)
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I think you should talk this over with your friend. Ask her if she'd get mad at you if you made the decision to go out with him. If she says she doesnt want you to go out with him you;re going to have to make a choice. Him or her.
-shay :-)
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I'm sure everyone's sick of hearing about these type of problems, but...there's someone at school who I'm really interested in. He has a girlfriend, and I'm fine with that, but I'd like to be closer with him friend-wise. He comes up to me sometimes and occasionally sits with me for long periods of time. The only problem is, I'm extremely shy and have a lot of trouble conversing with him. I usually end up staring into space, wishing I knew what to say, while he talks a little bit. Of course I don't stay completely silent the entire time, but I feel like my lack of interesting things to say is keeping us from becoming real friends. What should I do? (link)
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When he says something lead say something that relates to that. Like he says I liked the movie Elf! You say "ya I want to see that" or "that was a great movie" or "what did you get for Christmas?". Hope it works.
-shay :-)
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I guess, any answer to this is just a matter of opinion, but here goes....Um...Ok, my ex b/f has a new g/f, and they seem to being going strong. But, in school he seems so unhappy. I don't know. I still really like him. And I'm not saying that I won't date other people for him, or not hang out with my friends to just sit around and wait for him. But, I don't know. What do you guys think? (link)
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Does he always seem unhappy? Some people are just like that. I dont think you sit around and just wait for him though. Stay a friend of his and maybe you two will go out again.
-shay :-)
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Ok, I don't wanna sound brutal or anything, but my BFF (let's call her Emma) is so freakin' boring. I'm getting into going to parties, dances, and other fun stuff. Emma is the total opposite. She'll sit at home, watching TV, or sitting on her computer for 5 hours. I really feel like she's holding me back. What should I do? (link)
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Did you ever consider that maybe she is not aloud to go to dances yet? Ask her about her rules at home. If she is aloud to go then try to push her into doing some fun things.
-shay :-)
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What should i do ? My bestfriend is showing him a picture of me when he dosen't even know me ,
I'm 14 and he is 12 what should i do?!
jenipher (link)
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Well Jenipher do you want ur friend to show him? If not tell your friend that you are not ready for him to see your picture. If so then good luck! Hope he likes you!
-shay :-)
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I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.
The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.
How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.
Ugh. (link)
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Well I see that the grass is always greener on the other side and its so true in this situation. Go up to them and tell them that you would rather just be friends and that right now you dont feel like having a relationship. Its better to turn a guy down rather than lead him on.
-shay :-)
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ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do? (link)
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You probably shouldnt have told her that she had permission in the first place. If you go up to her and tell her she no longer has permission you could lose a big friendship. I suggest that you wait until the relationship is over and then try to date him again.
-shay :-)
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ok i would like to know if any one knows some really good chat rooms i could go yo with out any type of messanger like msn,aim,aol,or yahoo cause i dont have those and i cant get them so some one help a gurl out
PLZ
*~!~!~*EMM*~!~!~* (link)
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It sort of depends on what type of internet service you have. Well try www.hotmail.com. It rocks!
-shay :-)
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Ok, so ill make this as short as possible, theres this guy at school that i see in the halls everyday and when i walk by him he stares at me a lot and i stare at him a lot, (im a guy). i think he might be gay too but im scared to find out cus he hangs out with all these majoryly homophobic ppl and i dont know if he might be str8 or not. what should i do? (link)
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Say hi to him. Maybe be his friend and try to find out if he is homophobic.
-shay :-)
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