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should i keep him?
if the boy i like doesnt want to do anything when he is older for a job except sit on a computer and do his job there should i keep liking him or move on? i mean he is great around little kids and comes over everyday to see my baby sister and i think he will be a great dad and i want to be with him for eternity but i mean if he is going to be lazy and never do anything with me should i find a better man? iv liked him for 2 years and i think he likes me but im just worried he is going to sit and watch football allday... we are only 13 and 14 but im in love and dont know what to do please help me
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It is absolutely ridiculous to be thinking about being with someone for the rest of your life if you're 13 years old. Or if you're 18 years old, for that matter. You have your whole life to figure that out. Don't assume you're going to marry this guy...because the odds are that you won't. You're young, stop worrying about who's marriagable material, and just have fun for now.
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Hey, there are perfectly good jobs that stick you in front of a computer and require you to think/edit/create.
He doesn't sound lazy now, do you suppose he'll degrade that much?
But if it bugs you, then it bugs you, and you'd better bring it up with him rather than let it fester.
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It's WAY too early to know if you're going to be with him forever... if you think he likes you, however, there's nothing wrong with dating him. Just know that it may not last your whole life - the future shouldn't concern you much, you're young. Your dreams and his will definitely change over time.
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You should talk to him about it if it bugs you so much. My uncle works on the computer and he lives in a motorhome. Bring up other jibs to him like lawyer. He'll eventually come around.
-shay :-)
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