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There is a girl at school at she is really comfortable around the guy I like. They are like best friends and I'm friends with him too but not like she is. Sometimes I get sort of insecure around him and act weird. If I didn't like him, obviously, it would be so much easier for me to talk to him and be myself. The only place I'm really okay talking to him is online. Do you have any advice for me to "open up" more? He even said, since I told my two best friends they were being mean to me, that I could hang out with him and his friends.

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you just gotta talk to him a lot more.. hang out a lot more.. that sort of thing. invite him over.. go to the movies.. go to the mall.. do whatever. the more ya'll get to know eachother.. the better you can talk to him like this other girl does.. it might be hard to make the first move and all but you gotta take a risk! hope this helps :o)


i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?


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getting back at him is an immature thing to do. i know it sucks to be broken up with.. i've been in a few long-term relationships and i've gotten my heart broken in every one. you should move on.. because crawling back to him isn't gonna do ya any good! just at least act like ur happy for them... still keep in touch with him, but find someone else.. maybe that will make him realize what he missed? good luck! :o)


me and this guy (that i like) always talk online (he goes to my school) but we never talk at school...actually i think he avoids me at school...he doesnt have a girlfriend and we seem to get along...whats up with him? (link)
you need to talk to him. and maybe u should hang out outside of school (movies, someones house) whatever! but yeah.. get to know him more.. let him get to know you and maybe he'll start to open up?


okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful.. (link)
tell him nicely that you don't want a boyfriend, and you don't want to ruin the friendship you already have. your just not ready. hope that helps :o)


Ok, so I like this guy and hes my best friends other best friend. And so we havnt MET in person yet, but we talk to eachother a lot and its not dangerous or anything because you know, its my best friends other best friend. Anyways he had sex with this girl the past weekend....and hes 13. It hurt me, but now he says that he doesnt really like her anymore and that if he met me that he would probably like me. But I dont know if I would be able to deal with the fact that he had sex with another girl so recently. SO I guess what Im asking is what would any of you out there do?! Because I really need some help....thanks. (link)
i dont think u can get over someone that fast. and he had sex for crying out loud! i'd let him be for a bit.. if it hurt you, then i'd let him for a while.. i hope i helped :o)


okay... im a girl and 14 and i really like this guy & he liked me too and we went to homecoming and everything was going great... after homecoming, he said that he likes me too and that he wants to go out with me ((but he didnt technically ask me out yet)) so then a few days later we went to this party & he wasnt there... & the whole time i was thinkn about this other guy and kissing him and what not... but then we went to a school nearby at around 10 ish & lit off fireworks... that was a long story but the cops came & "gatherd" all of us "kids" to go back to the house the party was at. and the guy was just walking around looking for his cat & the cops told him to go back to the party too. okay so then we were all watching a movie & the OTHER guy that i was thinkn i wann'd to kiss and i were sitting on the chair and we started making out and what not... right in front of the other guy that i hella like that liked me too. & well.. needless to say.. he doesnt think things will work out with us.. he said he still likes me a lot.. but after that he couldnt EVER go out with me cause i hurt him so much. i kno i made a huge mistake expecially cause he means soooo much to me.. but what should i do cause i really want things to b right with us again.. a lot of time has passed and we r just now starting to BaReLy talk again... please help me out & dont call me a slut or w/e cause i've gotten plenty of that around school..
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wow.. i've had this happen to me. except mine was a tad bit worse. be liek "well, i know i hurt you and i regret that with all of my life.. and i also know you can't trust me.. but will you consider giving me another chance? if you will, i will do everything to try to gain your trust back".. something like that. just let him know how u feel and the other guy meant nothing. i hope i've helped. if u need to talk about this sh!t or anything.. im me on aim.. shad 0 w x5.. hope ive helped :o)


Ok. My boyfriends dads, halfbrothers, half son seems to always hit on me whenever i see him and my boyfriend always gets mad at me. when we went to the movies and him and his bestfriends, sisters friend was there.. he was like all over me and then me and my boyfriend left the bowling ally with his step-brothers dad.when we got in the car my boyfriend was extremly upset with me... how do i make this stop? (link)
tell the mo' *f* er that you are taken.. and you aren't interested.. but just make sure that he knows that ur serious!


Ok I am not a geek and I am not popular. I am in the middle and I am sure of it. I am in 8th grade and I have never had a boyfriend before. In all I have asked 4 guys out and they all turned me down. I am pretty...but not like WOW GOREGOUS pretty but resonably cute. I have to ask is there something wrong with me?
-single and hatin it (link)
no.. there's not something wrong with you. maybe your coming off as desperate to them? you should wait until someone comes to you. just flirt around a bit..


my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
dump him! he's an *a* hole.. he doesn't really love you! my boyfriend was like that.. actually he still is! he alwayzz tells me he's tired of my shit.. but yeah.. u didn't start him. dump him.. he's a prick! i hope i helped :o)


ok, well my friend recently lost her brother and i was wonndering if there are any icon sites where you can actually MAKE and icon.. like blink and words and sruff. also free. i wanna make her an icon to show that i luv her like a sister. please helpp thxx (link)
www.iconfun.com


i REALLLLLLLLLLYYYYYY wanna go to Oklahoma University!

Does anyone know like what kind of grades, activities, SAT scores, or anything i need to work on to get in??

Plus whats the best dorm to stay in, and what is the campus like?


..and only respond if you know about this

Thank you!! (link)
i'd say to look at their website.. i'm not sure what it is.. but it'll pry say all the things you need!


What should I do to remove my leg hair? (link)
uhh.. shave it?


i am a 16 yr old male ..and i am not exactally what one would call a "smooth man" i am sort of attractive (at least i think) but to the question... i am never confident around girls that i think are pretty...and i think it is due to a lack of self-confidence that have come with bein made fun of by my friends over the years... and i was just wondering what sort of advice you could give me to help me in gaining some self-confidence around women especially new ones that i think are pretty
thanx (link)
just go up and talk to a girl! be nice, but don't suck up too much. if they reject you, it's not the end of the world.. you just gotta get back out there! don't listen to your friends if they rip on you.. i'm sure they aren't that great either! hope i helped :o)


Hi, I'm doing a speech on voting. I need a graph of how many people voted during previous election. Could anyone help me??! :/ (link)
go online n look for the results or something! sorry i don't really know, but i hope i helped :o)


I'm a 13/M and I am having this problem with a girl that i just can't solve by myself. She's a 13/F and i cant stop thinking about her. You see the thing is that I've liked her for over a year and i've been tryin to wait and let her and her bf break up but they've been goin out for a long time and i just cant wait anymore. I love her to death and we talk everyday and we are great friends but i cant stop thinkin about her. The more we talk the more and more i like her. Please give me some advice on what i should do. I can't live without her. (link)
i know it sucks, but i think you need to let her go. i mean.. if shes had a boyfriend the whole time, then it seems that they're doing pretty good. i'd try n find somebody else. if they break up, then go for it! good luck :o)


I recently started dating this guy and he seems really nice. He's in his mid 20's, he don't have any kids, and he's a gentlemen. But there's a downside. I don't know what to think about him. Something's just not right and I need yall for some support about what I feel. First of all, he has more than 1 tounge ring. Now that's weird, but I really don't see them much so I just gotten use to that. Second, he has long fingernails. I dislike when someone I date has longer nails than me. There's more! Third, he has the most unattractive walk. I like my men to have some kind of stroll and he DO NOT have that. Finally, he don't wear underwear! Now, I don't know what to think of that. People keep telling me that he's a freak or bisexual or something and that really don't sit well with me. He's a nice guy and all but I don't want to get all serious with someone who could fall for my brother. So please, tell me what yall think! (link)
he does seem a bit weird. lol .. but if you really liked him, you would put those things aside and go ahead and date him or whatever. you shouldn't really like someone for the things they do.. you should like them for what they really are.. that sounds so .. ehh idk. but yea take into consideration what u really liek about him! i hope i helped! :o)


ok so here it goes tomarrow, friday people were planning a birthday party for this girl catherine and everyone was talking about it since monday well everyone but like 4 people in our grade was invited i was one of the four. Well today at brunch carla a senior, asked me and another girl to go on friday . well i wanted to go until i thought about it and since its a new school for me i wasnt sure if other people wanted me to go since they didnt ask me to go until the a day before(today). so should i go or not i dont want people to be like who invited HER and i have no other people to go/hangout with but i want to go casue carla asked me and she is really nice for asking me
what do i do ? (link)
hang out with this carla creature. if ppl give u crap, don't listen to them. be the bigger person.. and ignore them. hope i helped :)


Ok heres the deal....I like this boy and I thought he liked me. It turns out he likes my best friend and is going out with her. Well today me,my best friend,her boyfriend(the one I like),and my other friend were at my friends house. We were in the dark in her room for some reason and her bf got up and so did all of us and he started saying "hugs" and started hugging all of us with his eyes closed. One time when he hugged me his hands went a little lower (not my butt but my hips.)He hugged me like 50 times more then he hugged his own girlfriend.He hugged me all the time and I know he could see who he was hugging. Then I said sumthin to him while I was sitting on my friends bed and he came over and like tackled me so I was laying down on her bed. He also tackled me alot through the rest of the night.I used to think he likes me and now I dont kno wat to think. Everything is so confusing.It seems like he likes me but if he did why does he go out with my best friend and tell her he loves her and stuff?It drives me crazy because I REALLY REALLY like him but I guess im happy for them because she is my best friend. Does he like me or not?¿ If he doesnt then how come he always flirts with me and if you just met him and his gf(my best friend) you wouldnt even be able to tell they were boyfriend+girlfriend. You have to like make him just put his arm around her.
-lost and confused
*I RATE HIGH* (link)
well. even if he did like you, i'd lay off. because he's ur best friends boyfriend, and that's really wrong to steal that from her. it ends in bad ways.. believe me, it's happeend to be before.. it seems like hes a big flirt or like you, but don't think about it too much, you might lose a friend in the end.


Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any.... (link)
ahh it doesn't hurt.. don't think about it when it happens, you won't feel anything. and when u get it done, don't sleep on it.. because it hurts for the first day or two. and put the stuff that they give you on it so it doesn't get infected! good luck w/ it!


ok so i like this guy at school soooo much and my friend says im in love and i like him soo much id do ANYTHING for this guy!! both of my friends say that he likes me by the way he looks at me sometimes and just because but i know he doesnt. i didnt ask him, but i can tell i dont know why he would like me anyways i want my friend to ask him who he likes and see if its actually me, but i KNOW he wont tell her bc he knows that shell tell me! and im not the type of person to ask him "ok whats the deal do you like me or not" or w/e and so i dont know how to get him to say if he likes me to my friend... i dont think he does but sometimes i have a hope that he does and i just love him!! he knows i like his best friend and my other friend says that hes supicious about me liking me... and that he knows theres something goin on.. so i just need to know how to find out if he likes me! and not lie to my friend! please help! (link)
if you can't talk to him in person, write him a note, or ask him online. and no offense, but i doubt ur in love. lol.. but ask him online whats up. it's pry the best thing. hope all goes well!




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