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Is there something wrong with me?
Ok I am not a geek and I am not popular. I am in the middle and I am sure of it. I am in 8th grade and I have never had a boyfriend before. In all I have asked 4 guys out and they all turned me down. I am pretty...but not like WOW GOREGOUS pretty but resonably cute. I have to ask is there something wrong with me?
-single and hatin it
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You may be trying to be hard. If you just act yourself and become friends with a bunch of guys im sure ones bound to become attracted to you. Just get out there and explaore ur options but never look obvious that ur dieing for a realtionship just let everything come natural...hope i helped!
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no.. there's not something wrong with you. maybe your coming off as desperate to them? you should wait until someone comes to you. just flirt around a bit..
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Nothing is wrong with you.Just wait until for the right moment.Trust me.hope i helped~
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Not at all. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 21, and by that time I was smater and knew what I wanted in a relationship, it wasn't something superficial. Don't go looking for a boy, just to have a boyfriend, wait till the right boy comes around. You are less likely to get hurt that way.
P.S. I am now 24 and happily married.
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There is nothing wrong with you. It's totally normal to want to have a boyfriend at your age, but you just haven't found the right guy yet. Just because you've been turned down a few times doesn't mean there's something intrinsically undesirable about you, it just means you've been unlucky in who've you been interested in - maybe they were too immature for a relationship, or were interested in somebody else at the time.
My advice would to be to stop concentrating on having a boyfriend, and get to enjoy other parts of your life. Not only will you feel happier in yourself, your more laid back attitude will probably be really attractive to guys. Most guys are a little intimidated by girls they percieve just want to have a boyfriend, so hopefully if you chill out a bit you'll find it easier to find a boyfriend. All the best.
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I know exactly how you feel. I was a senior in High school before I ever had a boyfriend and he was younger! And there is nothing wrong with me. So my advice for you is to just get good friends, ya know? That way when the boys come rolling in (which they will!) you'll have a boy and awesome friends to rely on. Plus- friends can set you up! Good luck!
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Rite now having a boyfriend is a huge thing, but dont worry Im in 8th to and dont have a boyfriend. Rite now you really dont have to have a boyfriend, there isnt anything wrong if you dont. Dont worry what people think of you only think about how you think of yourself. I know its going to take a while for this to sink in, but take time your not going to marry any of this guys, and everything like this wil happen for a reason, you just havent found your true love yet but dont worry i promise you you will.
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I dont know how to answer this question. All we have is your cute. What about your personality? Are you an awesome person or what? Looks shouldnt be the biggest deciding factor here. However. Maybe the guys you like liked someone else. Ill bet there is someone out there who likes you....Give it time....Dont look for it...itll find you.
Hope I helped!
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