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I am in love with a guy
He used to hate me becuase of the rumors that were spread about me and him.
He got over it, and He talked to me for the first time in a longgggg time the other night.
A long time ago he said he regreted doing things that we did [if ya know what i mean]
Just the other night he said he didnt regret it and he was just angry with things.
He even said he would do it again.
He has a girlfriend , even while he was saying this stuff to me but said they were going to break up.
Since that night which was maybe 6 days ago, he hasnt talked to me.I figured he would talk to me like he used to but i dont understand
Im not going to talk to him, I dont want to annoy him.
What is the deal here?

15/f/ohio

give him time, he might me confuse about him braking up with his girlfriend and start hangin out with you, let his mind made up good luck

diane

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well a few days after my perios me and my boyfriend almost had sex. he didnt go all the way in, only the tip, but he said that he might have bust and i could feel the cum over my legs after. im starting to feel realli paranoid cuz i relli dont wanna be pregnant at this age (17)and my lower area looks like its swelling and my stomach always feel full up, does this mean im pregnant or is this jus happening because im realli realli scared

get a test but calm down!! anyway if your pregnant why start paranoing if you don't know if you are you'll have a lot time to panic, calm down cause paranoia might cause the swelling on your stomach like other advisor said it can cause like a psychological pregnancy its called or delayed of period , get a test and hope everything works out good luck!!

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what is a minx? what does it mean?

a girl that flirts alot!

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My guy friend who I have a crush on was hit by a car yesterday. I found out about it this morning in band. I slipped and was really glad he wasn't there to see it until I found out why he wasn't there to see it. I couldn't concentrate on anything else all day. I was literally worried sick; by the end of the day I had the mother of all headaches and I wanted to throw up. I'm really loyal to my friends, but is it wierd that I couldn't think of anything but him all day, even if he is my friend and crush?

it's totally normal, even if it was a girl friend who's in the hospital you'll be the same way its just that you care about him too much and you are worried about his condition. hope he get better go see him =)


diane

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so i have these two best friends. and it just so happened that their boyfriends and my boyfriend are bestfriends also. well my two friends have lost their virginity to their boyfriends, and i didnt, and me and my boyfriend have been together longer than any of them!!! is this normal? i mean i wanna do it with him, but im scared i get hurt by him, i mean he is really sweet and he loves me but i just dont know..

it's normal, if your not sure then don't do it ! you'll regreat it if your not sure, also you need to remember that (if its your 1st time) you'll always remember it and you don't want to remember like a bad boyfriend or anything or that you wheren't sure about it or maybe you shouldn't have done it ,,its normal, i've been with my bf for about 1 year and 6 months and still haven't done it cause im not sure and i don't wanna mess everything by getting pregnant or something , also if he's not putting pressure on you think about it really well so you'll have a memory you'll be happy to remember and not something you'll regret
hope i helped

diane

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Late at night like after 12 I'm like an eating machine. I'm afraid that if i dont stop soon I'll gain 100 pounds and ruin my life.

What can i do to stop my late night binging???

It's making me depressed!!!

:(

the same thing happens to me everyday! it must be cause im on christmas brake so i sleep late etc, anyway my advice its to fill yourself with water lol so you won't be hungy cause your fulled , also forcing yourself to sleep helps .good luck

diane

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So i met this kid in my class and he told me that he would call me and we could hang out sometime....the class is over and he never called me back!

No I'm a dude and i dont want to sound gay but is there a reason why....maybe he forgot??

lol i think he's just doing that do you won't get away thinking he's a stucker or something , that's probably the main reason or ..so you won't think he's like thinking about you all day (even if he does) guys usually are to proud to let other people know even if he's desperate to call you, he won't so you won't think he's too excited about you two lol hope i helped please ratE =)


Diane

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My friend Mimi (size 6, but looks like a 4) went to a flea market and a woman was trying to sell her jeans. The vendor says to Mimi in a sheepish voice “I have jeans I am selling. You are a size 10, my daughter is a size 10.” That night when Mimi went home she told her friends what the vendor said and her friends said to her: “The vendor just wants to sell her jeans, she would say the same thing to a size 2.” My question: Do you agree with Mimis friends?

totally i agree with mimi's friend vendors always do that kind of things to me saying they have what im loking for ( jeans, shirts anything) and they really don't or sell something you won't use


diane

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could the doctors take a blood test and see i smoke pot? i know they can with urian. but with blood? even when they are not even looking for it?
also friday i have to go to the doctors for my pyshical. when they take my urian can they tell i smoke? or do they just not even look at that?

yes they can tell if you smoke or drink, you have to be clean for 30 days so they won't see it in the blood test good luck anyway

diane

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what does "(sp?)" means :S sorry i just don't seem to get it lol

spelling =)

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I LOVE leg warmers like these from Hollister:

http://i10.tinypic.com/2d0gvp2.jpg

But I have no idea what to wear with them, besides Uggs! Are uggs basically the only thing that looks good with them? Every kind of shoe I think of look stupid to me, like heels or flip flops. Any ideas of how people wear leg warmers thats cute and IN STYLE? Id love pictures/stores. Thanks :]

flats look cute with most things =)

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How many people feel that we should be allowed to post our questions without being deleted, once, twice, or a thousand times. There is another website that allows one to post as many times as you want. MODERATORS YOU REALLY SHOULD LIGHTEN UP.

i totally agree you should be allowed to post questions more than once =)

diane

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Okay. So I have been really good friends with this guy for a long time. I'm 17 and hes 21. Hes such a great guy. He's really smart and funny and caring and amazing. I lost my virginity to him in early December and we decided we were just friends before this happened and whatever happened was just for fun. I told him that I wasnt like all the other girls who get attached after hooking up with friends. But when we had sex, I was still fine. We hooked up about twice a week since then. Then all of a sudden when I started going over to his apartment, he started treating me like more than just a hook up. He was doign really sweet things for me. Example... New years eve I stayed the night at his apartment and told my parents I was staying over at a friends. We hung out all night talking about life and watching funny things on tv. We really connected. We were having a lot of fun. We had sex again. He played guitar for me. He kept holding me and holding my hand and kissing me. He scratched my back until I fell asleep and he even gave me the good side of the bed even tho I offered it to him.
When I woke up in the morning, he made me breakfast. Then we watched some more funny videos. But then he was holding me and told me that my friend Monica asked him if we were a thing. He said he told her that I am going away to college in 7 months and he doesnt want to start a relationship when I'm leaving. Like a dummy, I just said "yeah" even though I have totally TOTALLY fallen for him. My college is only 2 hours away and I will still see him just as often. What do I do now? I dont want to ruin everything and lose what we have by risking it! But he's perfect. I'm going crazy.

tell him that you don't want to continue just having sex with him if your nothing but friends! cause it's like see for example okay so your friends and he can have sex with you and do all that king of things that people do when they are on a relationship so why would he ask you to be something more if you're already giving him all that he can get from your relationship. he just can have you whenever he wants and if he wants to date other girls meanwhile it won't matter cause your just "friends" talk to him about this 'cause it would be like using you with no comittment good luck!

Diane

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Hello,i'm a 14 yr old girl.Well, i recently broke uop with my ex boyfriend because his feelings has changed for me, i know this because he spoke to me less, never write back to me or anything. So i knew what to do and i let him go. So anyway as i was saying, i can't seem to get over him. He's my first bf, and i'm in Jr high while he just went to high skewl. So i dont know what to do. It seems that i think about him more and more. I have told him that but as i said he never responds. So i have no clue what he thinks. I asked his brother and his brother doesn't know anyting because the new Zelda game came out and my ex won't talk to no one becuz he's so hooked on the game. So please help me. you can also e~Mail me @
little_zelda05@yahoo.com
Thank you.

as i can see don't ask your bf what he thinks cause if he is so disttracted with the new zelda then he isn't that sad because you broke up ...i suggest you to go out wiht friends more, do somehing that keeps youu distracted from thinking about him convince yourself that it's not going to be the same even if you two go back together


diane

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14/f
im going to a sweet 16 on the 14th and i have no idea what to wear. The hostess told me that the decorations are lavender, and her dress is off white so no dresses in those colors.
I know I should wear a cocktail dress, but what color? strapless, halter, etc? Links would be appreciated, and nothing too pricy. I don't want to spend more than $100.
i have dark brown hair shoulder length hair, blue grey eyes, and light skin tone.
Also, make up&hair ideas?
And would it be ok to give like $50 or something like that instead of a gift?

try strapless magenta! and mm about the gift i think its better a gift buy some perfume or something you'll now she'll use cause clothes you won't be sure if she like it or did it fit her , i'd go to perfume . about the hair i think something like this will work =) http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/MMPH/259071.jpg
and don't wear too much make up! just enough to look pretty and natural =)


Diane

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i been dating this person over a month now and the person is 15 and i am 17 about to turn 18 in a month is that a bad thing because everybody say it is jail bait something like that.

yes that is jail bait but , no one really cares about it lol it's more like if a person over 18 rapes someone underage or do somthing to that underage person not too much into dating only in case you give alcohol to that underage or something serious

Diane

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Where on the internet can i find pictures of cute prom up-do hairstyles?

dont tell me google.com or ask.com i want actual websites thanks

http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/prom/

http://www.hairfinder.com/prom_hairstyles.htm

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ok well i'm catholic but i masturbated and it feels really good even though feel uncomfortable i do it well cause i love the feeling should i stop? my friend doesn't know but we talked about it and she said people encourage it please help me cause i really like doing it

also lust its supossed to be a sin and people still feel it don't worry ! don't get that deep into religion its perfectly normal!


Diane

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15/m

okay i was goin out with this girl and while we were goin out i started tliek her best friend then me and the girl broke up... and i still talk to her bst friend and i really like her, every morning she texts me and we talk every day all day and i really really really really like her... and she called me her lil bro and i called her my big sis and then i just opened myself up to her tonight and we were both crying and she said she doesnt know ho she feels and that she was speechless, and n like after 20 mins of this and telighe r how i felt she said she had to go.. like what does this mean does she like me? and how can i get her to be mine? any fuer questions on this please ask i really need hp, thanks

it sounds like she doesn't like you and she doesn't want to hurt you cause your such good friends, give her time also understand that even if she did like you its almost off limits cause your her best friend ex boyfriend and in some friendships that's really mportant =(

Diane

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fake lip rings? is there such a thing? where can i gt one? besides online? i dont want my mom to know. SHE'D FLIP

yes they exist try hot topic =)


diane

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