Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.
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Age: 39
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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!
xoxo
P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not! (link)
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oh, yes you are a slut. You said it first - you had a 5 person orgy. If you don't accept that fact and want to change, you're not gonna make it to 18.
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What is a good brand of makeup remover that is under $3?? and not NYC (link)
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Almay makeup remover pads... but get the non-oily kind.
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Does anybody know about any good websites to go to for good deals on buying cars? Anything that will let me search different kinds will help. Thanks! (link)
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autotrader.com - you can search nationwide new/used.
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ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do? (link)
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ok.. first you need to get some manners and act like a lady. No one has a "habit" of spraying their drink... and if you did it all over her face, you did it on purpose. Then the physical fighting thing is pathetic. Like I said, learn some appropriate manners and find a better crowd to hang out with!
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Nearly two weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. He said that he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that he didn't want to be with someone who he didn't feel for. He did it by text message and I was really upset and angry with him. Now, I keep thinking I'm over him but yesterday I found he has a crush on one of my friends who is a year older than us. I thought I was over him but yesterday when he told me how he felt about my friend I was really upset. I keep trying to ignore it and hoping I'll get over him but it isn't working. How do I get over him? (link)
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Glad you added that your friend won't go out with him. Most girlfriends have that rule... especially if he was someone important to you and you still have feelings for. So, at least you have the small satisfaction that he'll like her and she won't like him back. See pal? how's that make ya feel?
Just kidding with the sarcasm, but we can all understand how hard it is to deal with a rejection, and him doing it via txt message is just inexcusable! And men wonder what drives us to be psychos. A straight up.. "i don't want to go out with you anymore" would be good, then we can just cry and get it over with!
But how to get over him? Take care of YOU, do what you want to do, get extra sleep, be cozy cause it takes time. Then freshen up and look for someone who shares the same values that you do... for instance NOT txt messaging a break-up. You seem like you communicate very honestly, so you'll be ready when you meet the great guy that's coming into your life. He is! it's just a matter of time, and you'll think ole' whathisname was an even bigger jerk. Patience is the name of the game. Good luck!
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for about the last couple of months, i have headaches everyday and they last almost all day. i feel like fainting and i get dizzy alot. i don't have much energy and i've been loosing weight recently. when i really don't need to. i'm tired all the time. butb it's not because i'm not getting enought sleep because i sleep alot. im really scared and i told my mom and she's getting me and appointment. even my boyfriend is worried. he's the one who told me to tell someone. i was just wondering if it sounded cancerous. and if it does please tell me what kind off cancer it sounds like. im really worried. please respond fast. (link)
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It almost sounds like you have mono. See your doctor and be totally honest about all your symptoms. I hope it's a dr you're comfortable with. Take good care of yourself and do whatever they tell you to! Best wishes
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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing. (link)
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First, every time you see her make sure you smile and say Hey how's it going? and then keep right on moving. It won't take long before she'll want to get to know you more and she'll stop and answer.
Good luck :)
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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily. (link)
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Funerals are for the living and it gives us all the chance to grieve. When I was 29 my husband passed away unexpectedly. Just a few weeks before, we had been home on vacation and it turns out when he was visiting our friends (who happened to own a flower shop) he turned to them and said "that's what I want when I die" and he was pointing out these giant sunflowers. She told me this when I came home for his funeral and she provided just the flowers that he wanted. It was a comfort to me... although in hindsight he must have been feeling something was wrong because he made a point of visiting every single one of our family members during that vacation. Please tell your husband that if something happens to him you need this comfort of friends and family and the closure of at least having a small private memorial service.
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well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible. (link)
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Let him know real quick so that he's not hitting on your gf and making himself look foolish.
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hey um i really need help. im going to a bar mitzah at the end of february and i don't know what to wear. i need a hot dress that will make me look good, but it needs to be under like, 40 dollars. its for my ex-boyfriend, and my mom hated him, so she wont pay more than that and i'm broke. if you know any good websites or stores that could help me, please tell me! thanx! (link)
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For on-line shopping check this one out!
www.the15dollarstore.com
everything is $15 and they have lots of the name brands you'll like.
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hey um i was looking at exploretalent.com cuz i want to be an actress and i've had training and stuff. but i dont know if i should have signed up. does anyone know like how often do they call?(if they call at all)thanx! (link)
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Most of those so-called talent agencies are actually just catching people and selling them portfolio packages. They'll tell you you have to have a portfolio, etc. Somewhere down the line when you've spent a lot of money it may lead to a real referral, but I wouldn't count on it.
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hey guys! um me and my twin sister got a postcard in the mail for barbazion modeling. it said that there were open call auditions. i was just wondering if anyone knew anything about it. like how much does it cost? do you need any experience? so, if you know anything ,please help me! thanx! (p.s. i went on their website, but i couldnt find anything!) thanx! (link)
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The open call is run like one would think, then they get to the sales pitch. Bascially, they want you to spend a lot of money on a portfolio and then they say they'll represent you. Basically, they are selling photo packages. But if you have alot of money to spend, eventually it will get you into the real modeling.
You can still go and check it out... just remember they want to sell, so keep saying no, no, no!
Good lluck
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well im goin out with this guy my mom hates and i mean she really hates him.... and she wants me to stop seeing him but i told her no and i got into this big fight with my mom but i really like this guy but my mom thinks hes not right for me.......what should i do??? ive already tired telling her how i feel about this guy but she wont listen (link)
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You should do a dinner thing and let them get to know eachother a little better. Even though you may think he's the world, mom is a step back and may see something you don't. A mom's experience is invaluable and you'll probably see whatever it is that she doesn't like about him, about 5 years from now.
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I was on Weight Watchers and I am now down to my goal weight (125 pounds). I want to stay at this weight. I was having 20 points a day (about 1,200 calories). I am a 5'4 female...by how much should I increase my point intake to stay at 125 pounds without gaining or losing? (link)
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I don't know about Weight watcher points, etc., but Congratulations! for reaching your goal and wanting to maintain it.
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina (link)
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She probably is jealous, but that's no excuse! I think that taking a break from your "best friend" is in order. Best friends never put eachother down! Maybe she will learn some manners if you have a little distance from her. Good luck shiina
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Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP! (link)
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You should plan a whole Saturday to go through your closet. Stand there in your underwear and try everything on. If you haven't worn it in a year or more, or it was too fad-ish, or it doesn't fit well - get rid of it!
Keeping your closet organized will really help... then when you're out shopping and think you need a black t-shirt, you'll know that you have 3 at home already. If you can't see the stuff in your closet, you forget it's there. Sometimes cleaning it out, you'll find some favorites you forgot about and it's like getting new stuff again.
When you do shop, look for good quality, good fit and styles that aren't going to be out next week. Places like the Gap and Old Navy usually have good basics. Good luck :)
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My boyfriend went to my window yesterday but my mom was in the next room awake. Its now 2:15 and he left because it was really cold but is there anyway that i can get him inside without my mom or dad noticing i need to get him in my room! He is really nervous that he will get caught because if we do then most likley i wont ever be able to see him again and were next door neighbors! Help please!!! (link)
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Find another way to spend time with him. One screw up and you're gonna have to live with your parents mistrust about absolutely everything! Meanwhile, boytoy there had his fun with you and can be done with it.
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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
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No, definitely don't go back out with him. He knows you're there and he can come back every time he's done messing around with the other chicks. When you become un-obtainable he's gonna want you so much more and then the ball is in your court. You can say no, you've met someone that respects you, or you can say yes, but no more of the bs games! Good luck :)
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hey ok..please help me on this...ok..there is this guy right?? yeah he is my neighbor and he is 2 years older than me. But i dont see why?? i mean he said that it would be weird if we went out or did anything because we are neighbors...i dont get it. what should i do?? i mean i hang out with him when my friend is over but he flirts with her. (kind of) i might be imagining it. but i think about him ALL THE TIME. i cry alot too i just need help BIG TIME...WHAT DO I DO>?!?!?!?
thanks
confused girl
I NEED HELP! (link)
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Well, he did kinda pull an excuse... but if that's the case it's better than saying, Nope, just don't like you.
He could be for real too. I'd never date any of my neighbors, ya never know if it'll last and if it doesn't it will suck to keep running into him.
Cry enough to get it out and move on... I promise there will be someone better, and you want your eyes open when they come around.
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My friend wasn't feeling good today so i asked him how he was and told him to go to the nurse he seemed very upset with me for some reason. well tommorrow we are taking the bus together and i was wondering should i do anything? i like this guy and he said he likes me to! (link)
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Don't take it personally. I bet he was feeling sick (probably embarrassingly sick, like diahrea or something icky) and he didn't want you to know all the details. Tomorrow when you see him just say... "hey, glad you're feeling better" and leave it at that. Good luck!
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