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Q: HI! Ok my birthday party is coming up and i am wondering what is some good island music like Jimmy Buffett and who else? anyother good songs?
please help!!!!
I RATE!
kt

Beach Boys...i dunno.

Q: Its my birthday in may, and i dont no what to do. Any ideas? my mum said garden party think that would be a good idea??
rate highxx

What's a garden party?? Well, i think pool parties are the best. Low stress, entertainment's all there, and you can just talk with your friends! If you don't have a pool, you can rent out a hotel's pool.

Q: random question... but im like starving right now!! anybody know any good ideas for some food i could eat?!~ lol

Eat carbs. They fill ya up pretty good. Yuuum carbs. ;-)

Q: Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13?

Yes!!!!!!!! You could be in love when you 11 i guess. I dont know how real it'd be tho. But yes of course you can be in love wen ur 13!!!!

Q: ok... so i have been playing defense (soccer) for awhile... almost a year or even two... but i have been playing soccer since i was in 3rd grade and im a sophmore in highschool now... i have played every position before mostly mid... but i have a game sunday and my friend's friend came to one of our practices and told my friend that i have a nice kick, like shot on net... and my friend told me i should forget D and play mid but the thing is my couch wants me to stay back... i don't know what to do... should ask my couch or should i stay on D... i rate pretty high

Gomesy

I play D too! I think you should practice being a Mid before you start an actual game. Like at the scrimmages. If you are comfortable then ask your coach if you could be a mid.

I;m not sure if that was your question but w/e

Q: A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do?

It could be just a scratch on the surface of your eyes or it could be a little deeper. Don't rub it or anything. You should go to an eye doctor. I mean they are eye doctors so they would be able to help you nad maybe prescribe some eye drops.

Q: Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance.

Sounds a lot like asthma.

Q: I burnt my finger on the cooker around half an hour ago, ran it under the cold water tap until it stopped hurting and forgot about it. But it's just started to hurt really badly again. I put a cold compress on it and put some antiseptic cream on but it doesn't seem to be stopping the stinging. What can I do?

Just a burn?? Everyone gets burns. Just gotta live with em. Put like vaseline on it or something.

Q: My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want

Meli

She does seem like she's got it pretty hard. I don't blame her. Keep trying to make her happy and support her. Having a good, caring friend at your side at hard times always helps. She'll forget about her life for a while while she's with you. Suggest therapy and maybe you could go with her to the sessions if she wanted you to.

*~Ari~*

Q: Hey ya'll!

I am going up to New york to see the Broadway play Wicked in March. I became totally obsessed with the play and I bought the sound track, made a collage of pictures of the cast and the cast in the play. But like a week ago I found out, I am not going to see the original cast. I still want to go see it, But why did they change the cast? Its a brand new broadway play...why?
Just wanted to know & thanks... and I rate!
xo0x

They always change the cast after about a year. It was still really good though cuz i saw it without the original cast. Sorry its April now, and your question is about march. Watever i still wanted to answer.

Q: Hey! Im looking into seeing broadway shows, i love watching them and i was wondering if anyone had some they'd like to recomend!?
THanks a lot!

See Wicked!!!! Thats my personal fav. Other good ones are Hairspray, Brooklyn, Beuty and the Beast, and Lion King. I think you should see see wicked

Wicked is a prequal to the Wizard of OZ (came before it) This whole play explains why the wicked witch wanted the slippers, why the scarecrow didnt have abrain and about the lion etc, why the wicked witch is green, why Glinda's name is Glinda, and much much more that you never knew!!! The songs in it are great and the actors are great too!!!!! The show is really popular so it may take a while to get tix.

I hope i helped you!!!

Q: ok well i got fish along time ago..and everytime my mom cleans out the aquarium one of the fish die! idk if their used to the new water or not but my baby shark that ive had for like a year now just died :( how can i stop this from happening?

--ill rate high if u give good answers --

x0ox

My fish always died too. I've probably killed 20 in my life. Anyway... have you tried using those vitamins that you put in the water? Maybe the ammonia is not normal. When you clean the tank do a 3/4 change so the fish don't have completely new water. It'll be easier for them to get used to it.

Hope i helped.

Q: well i have a mole on my cheek and i told my mom i wanna get it rmoved she said yea, but it depends on when the doctors say i can... does anybody know if theres a certain age you have to wait til to get something like that removed?

Please no one ask how i know this, but im pretty sure there's no age. Doctors recommend that you have stopped growing because if you have a scar on a place (like your face) that moves and stretches a lot, your scar could become red and raised. So if you stopped growing...go for it!

Q: everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height?

Your doctor might have one of those chart things. You could ask to see it. If you're not going to see your doctor in a while then im sure you could find the chart on the internet somewhere.

Q: I just got braces a week ago and after I came home, I noticed these tiny tiny black spots on my teeth...I tried brushing it off, but they won't come off...Now it's a week later and they're still here..It's not really noticeable unless you look closely but I notice them. Can anyone help? I rate. Thanks

I don't really know what it is but i suggest bleaching. It may be rotting i don't know.

Q: Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate!

They're probably stretch marks. Don't worry bout em.

*~Ari~*

Q: Is it true that chewing bubble-gum will help your ears to pop?

Yep. Chew, swallow, chew, swallow. It works. OR you could hold your nose and blow real hard. THat pops ur ears even faster.

Q: i want to be a camp councillor during the summer but dont have alot of ideas about how to keep clildren occupied in a unique way. Any ideas?

(Im not sure if its a sleepaway camp or day camp but whatever) My counselor made up really stupid songs to the tune of our favorite songs. For some reason we liked them. I was little. You could teach your kids hand games you know, or make up ur own. Make up crafts to do during spare time.

Good luck!

Q: can sum1 please tell me when a disposable razor needs to be disposed of? i've 13/f and i've never used a disposable razor before.. whats a way to check if its dull or how do you know when you should throw it out? thanks

Use it like a couple times and throw it out. I never learned to tell if it was dull or not, and i've got along fine. For that i dont know.

*~Ari~*

Q: omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss

Well, take some motrin to dull the pain. Drink soup, eat yogurt, and stuff like that. To floss you have to buy those thread things. They are plastic and they look like an oversized needle. You thread the floss through it like a needle and then put the threader under your wire and take it from there. YOU can buy em at the super market. Even easier...ask your orthodontist for other ways.