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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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Does anybody have any great fruit smoothie recipes that are healthy or will make you lose weight? I love smoothies but I cant find any good recipes so please answer this question!

Thanks

fresh strawberries, fresh bannanas, diet vanilla ice cream, ice, and skim milk. blend. YUMMY!!!! hehe thts normally my dessert!!

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okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!

Kati

its normal! ppl get theirs 2 all diff. times! i got mine wen i was 11, my mom got hers wen she was 14, n my friend whos 15 JUST got hers like a week ago! ur fine but if u dont have it by the time ur like 16-17 see a doc

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Hi. Im really skinny, im 5'5 and 96. EVERYONE calls me anerexic, een my best friends say r u anerexic and make sure that i alway eat...should i try to gain weight or just live with it? thankz i'll rate

do w.e ur comfy with! if u like ur weight, dont let it bother u. if u get bothered wen ppl make comments n u want 2 gain weight, try 2 gain some weight. but w.e u do, do it 4 urself..no1 else

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u know how pretty gurls are all like "no im not pretty,stop playin" well im not like that people r like ur pretty and only once and a while ill be modest and be like no im not but ...not 2 sound like im braggin' oa somethin but i think i am pretty but no guy i know a lot likes me....y is that?the guys who like me r the ones i just meet

mayb ur not their type. take more interest in a certain guy n let him kno ur interested!

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Hey, I was just ouside sitting in the rain and my brother saw me. He was yelling, "Get the fuck inside Jenny," and getting really mad at me. He thought I was going to kill my self and told everyone to lock the doors so I dont go back out. I feel VERY hurt because my family makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Do you think it is bad to go outside, and just sit in the rain??? Please somone awnser my question. My family makes me feel like I'm crazy, and I'm not sure if I'm not any more.

i think ur fine!! some ppl just love rain!! thehe

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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy

hun tht might be a medical problem, she could either be bi-polar or have terets syndrome..she might have 2 see a shrink! tlk 2 her mom or somethin about it! if u think she just gets bitchy, tell her 2 cut the shit haha..sike nah tlel her it bothers u n it makes it hard 4 yall to hang out

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I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?

throw a HUGE party, invite the whole town! have a garage sale, a back yard bbq, bowling, shopping, or have a girls day n go get ur nails done n stuff!! whatever u think of, do it!

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how can i get a guy to like me?

be urself n take interest in them! dont be afraid 2 let them kno ur interested ;)

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Lately ive felt really bad about myself im not sure why... like i feel bad about the whole guy/relationship thing and my looks and my friends and i just dont know anymore... help me!

p.s. im 13 and live in a pretty small town in PA...

signed, low self confidence

dont concentrate on wut u dont like! think about the good stuff about u! find ur good qualities..im sure theres TONS! n do stuff u like. go shopping or to an amusment park or somethin! hope i helped

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I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?

he prly feels liek he don needa say it bc u already kno!! either tht or jes just pre occupied! i think its fine as lnog as he sthe same in person! ask him about it..maybe he doesnt kno hes doin it! gl hun!

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I am 17, and I have had my period for about 4 years now. It had been pretty regular for quite awhile, but recently it has been getting very irregular. For Example, I got my period on July 15th, and it only lasted for 3 days which is highly unusal for me. Then today, I got my period again, and its only the 2nd, and it is much more heavy than it usally is.
Is this possibly a sign that there is something wrong with me, and if so, does anyone have any idea of what it is? I was thinking of going to the gynocologist, but my mom said its normal, but I dont think it is, because I know what is normal for me. Also, What should I expect at my first gyno visit?

i think its normal...every now n then ull run off track! but if ur rly worried then see a doc. id excpet 4 him 2 say everythings fine...i rly dont think theres a problem but you know ur body waaay better than anyone on here does so do wut u think is right ;) gl hun!!

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My uncle used to be a hair dresser. he said if i show him a picture of a nice haircut hell do it for me. Does anybody have good websites for haircuts?

PS. anyone got any good sites for hair styles?

if there good sites ill rate 5!!

xoxo italyz diamond xoxo

http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/ http://www.2coolhairstyles.com/#

for tht 2nd 1 type in if u wwant long medium or short hair in the search box. hope this helps!!!

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hey man, i just decided to make a new column because i think that people think im an adult or something because of my username, its just a joke. im 15 and i dont want to make a new column, is it possible to change your user name or do i have no choice

theyr thinkin bout makin it so u can change it but idk...but for ow u cant soud have 2 make a new column

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hey i first just wanna say that u r so pretty and i wish i looked like u but anyway i really like this guys from my camp but i am way inexperienced and he is experienced. he likes me two but i dont konw if i should tel him i am b4 we do anything bc i mean im not scared to do anything i just have never had the opportunity i mean i havent even kissed someone help!

haha who ya tlkn 2? but moving on haha...dont tell him..it jus comes naturally n he wont kno uv never done anything unless u tell him! wen u strt 2 get uncomfortable just pull away nicely! gl

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I met this guy last week at choir camp. i really like him alot. he gave me his phone number, but i dont know what to say to him when i call. i am mostly afraid of calling and having one of thosse uncomfortable silences. Can you help me? i have no idea what to say to him when i call! PLEASE HELP! i am a 16 year old female. i dont really know him all that well.

jus call n b like hey wasup wut ya been up to lately...n b like so do u got ne siblings or nethin? n ask wut he sinterested in n stuff n try 2 relate 2 him! if things go bad try 2 fin an excuse 2 get off!

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any suggestions on avoiding razor burn?

use shave gel or conditioner wen u shave n wen ur done put lotion or baby oil on ur legs

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Who thinks Hilary Duff is fat?

shes not skinny but shes not fat...

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my friend always tells me im her best friend, but she tells everyone else that too. im never in her info on AOL or nothing @ all! in her xanga its all about these other people like how much she misses them and stuff. what should i do about this problem??

ppl can have more than 1 best friend!! i do...al my friends are my best friends n on my profile i normally only putppl in there who either ask or who i actually have something 2 say 2!! haha. im sure she thinks ur a great best friend! ;)

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ok.. heres my question and im begging people to answerrrr. My sister gets highlights here and there at a place. Shes 2 years older than me, and sometimes has more privelages. But before school starts.. which is in september for me i wanted to get highlights. I dont even know what kind.. im not even worrying about that. But for some odd reason my mom just says no... idk why she says yes to my sister it must have something to do with the fact that shes older. How should i encounter my mom?? And also my hairs like a light brunette, and i have freckles and blue eyes, what kind of highlights would go ((i dont want to go to dark.. i dnt think i would like black unless you really explain it)) thx..

xoxo

ok tell ur mom tht its ur hair n u realize the responsitiblity of keepin it healty and everythig n u kno the damage it cuasesn ur still gunna take the risk n stuff. tell her its ur body n u shuld be able to make ur own decisios about it. but do it maturely n if she says no dont strt gettin mad. then she deff. wont change her mind! n if she says yes i think you should get little thin groups of a medium blonde around ur head..thd look cute n natural! good luck hun!

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does ne1 have ne ideas of how to dye my hair like wut products [home made stuff or store bought stuff] and wut color i shuld dye it i have dark dark brown hair close to black??!! soo if u have ne ideas of how to dye my hair and wut color is good for it help me plzz!

umm herbal essences makes good dye..i always dye my stepmoms hair w. it n it looks really nice!! not stringy or nethin! n if u have a light complexion id to a darkblonde/really light brown n if u have a darker complextion id say like an auburn color or a medium brown. i hope it turns out nice!! :D

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