about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

IS THERE ANY GOOD CAMPS TO GO TO IN CALIFORNIA THAT DONT COST MUCH LIKE CAPS THAT YOU GET TO STAY FORA 2 WEEKS DOES ANYBODY KNOW ANY GOOD CAMPS???? IF OU DO PLEASE ANSWER THIS ASAP PLEASE I WANT TO GO TO A CAMP AND IN CALIFORNIA ONLY?? HLEP!

I heard a good one, Mountain Meadow Ranch or something. It is supposed to be really natural and stuff. Hope u find a good camp!
Lizzy

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should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?

well, no. Sex is a completely mutual thing that does not involve ur mother. If u feel u need to ask her some questions, do that, but don't ask her if you can or not, it's ur decision. make sure u make the right decision though, don't have sex unless ur ready. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I was in a relationship, and we were having difficulties, I called the police and charged him with assault. Now that i have to go to court he didnt commit assault, all i wanted to do was get my childern back. Can you give me some advice on what i should do

Make sure u tell your lawyer that he did not commit assult. Otherwise u could end up in jail. Be honest, cry a little bit, don't lie anymore. Let your lawyer figure out what to do about the lying because that is something that could bring u down few notches. i really hope that you get your children back because my mother lost five children out of seven through divorse, and that was worse then when both her parents died. I am rooting for you though. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I need help in finding a career that's risky, adventurous, enjoyable and never boring.
Any suggestions

well, how old are you? If you are like a teenager, try something like help setting up adventure races, if you are like twenty, try something like fashion or trying to get into the world like singing
Lizzy

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Theres this ugly boy that likes me and he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me on the phone but wants to talk to me in person. should i go out with him?

I don't think it matters whether or not he is ugly. If you like him, go out with him. If you don't, well that's self explanitory. Good luck hon. (Talk to him!)
Lizzy

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I wanna lose 25 poinds by draake relays. anyway i could do that?

Don't eat any fattening foods, but eat lots of white meat. Do as many crunches you can every other day, not every day because then it will not build stomach muscles. Gradually start running giving yourself goals (one mile first day, two miles three days later) Hope you get into the shape you want to,
Lizzy

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Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?


Love,
!!Plz Help!!

Well, if you really like him, then yes, go out with him, that would make the relationship seem less shallow then most. If you don't like him in person, just start msning still, that's all i have, sorry
Lizzy

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The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught!

Well, if it is a friend, chances are that she won't tell on you, but maybe you should stop, it's not as kewl as you may think, especially to those who are already adicted to it and know what it's like. It's kinda gross, i hope you make the right decision

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what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at?

Where tights. Colored tights are really popular this season and make your legs look great, Good luck
Lizzy

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What do you do when all you think about is dying?

Maybe you need to see a counsler, if you need to you can write to me whatever is going on wrong in your life, or ask anyone else, we'd be happy to help.
Lizzy

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Hey. I saw your answer to my toe problem. My dad said the exact opposite. He said put ice on it and don't put anything hot on it. Now I am confused.

ok, if you want it to look better, you put ice on it. If you want it to feel better dont. Your call
Good Luck

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life is lonleyness
death is happieness
for me this is what i feel
thoughts of suicide
day and night
should i make teh cut
or use those tylenol pills
rope sounds good
but the gun maybe faster
there are many more ways
that i could say
but the one for me is not today
for i will be strong
for who knows how much longer
many times i cant go on
so a cut here
a cut there
to help me on
now my wounds
will have some time to heal
though the thoughts are still
waking me up at night
i am strong
but for how long

This is a really good poem, but it sounds kinda depressing. correct me if i'm wrong, but it sounds like you are on the verge of suicide. If you are, ask me whatever you'd like, i'm good with that sort of thing.
Great Poem
Lizzy

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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do?

Just make the first move. Be strong. It'll turn out fine if you both feel the same way about the other. I hope it all is good.
Lizzy

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I havae never had a boyfriend. Every time i ask someone out they say no. Does God want me to have one. I don't know how to flirt? What am I doing wrong?

let a guy come to you. Guys don't always want a desperate girl looking to ask them out, make them beg, that's all your probably doing wrong. Don't seem so interested to make him go out with you though. Good luck
lizzy

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i have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and the sex has been normal, however recently for some reason i have gone off sex, i just dont feel like it as much as i used to, is that normal, cause my boyfriend doesnt think so and he's getting frustrated about it, we keep arguing all the time because off this, help.........

It is totally normal. Just keep the intimate stuff for special occasions, don't do it all the time. Try to seduce, then tease him. It'll make both of you want it a little more
Lizzy

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what are some intelligent, in depth questions i could ask a world war 2 veteran for an interveiw

Ask some personal questions, like how he felt during the war, Don't keep it all basic, Good luck
Lizzy

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I was at a friends house and I was playing on her brothers skateboard. Stupidly I was wearing sandals and I fell. I hurt my toe and it looks fine but it hurts when I walk and it looks a bit swollen. I'm not sure if I broke it, fractured it, or just stubbed it really bad but I would appreciate any suggestions that would make the healing process faster!

You probably need some sort of medicine like ICY HOT which will make the muscles feel better. Don't put ice on it otherwise it'll tighten and hurt more. Hope it gets better
Lizzy

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Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie

I have the same problem. Your true friends will know whether your life is perfect or not. Don't worry about what other people think, or that will give them more of a reason to say bad things about you
Good Luck Sweety

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Will ya'll let me know it this is a good idea for spicing up my relationship....Ok Here it is, After school tomorrow I'm going to the band room, and before i walk in the room my boyfriend will be at the time walking towards the room ,so i'm going to look at him and gesture him to come here..and i'm going to go in turn of the lights and i'm am going to go to an empty room and when he walks in i'm going to gesture him to come in there and when he walks in shut the door and push him up against something and startin kissing him and slowly move my hand slowly down and unzip his pants and then give him head... How does that sound???? please let me know before tomorrow!!!!

Not all good relationships need to have so much heat all of the time. Something for some guys in more on the sweet side, like bringing him to a romantic resturaunt, and no offense, but you don't know how to spell 'off' are you sure your ready? IF you are, do it. Sorry if it doens't help
Lizzy

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why do people say u r wut u eat?

They are saying that if you eat a lot of fattening foods, you will be fat. If you eat healthy foods, you will be skinny. It is a very basic sort of metaphor.
Lizzy

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