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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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I am just wondering if anyone has used the Jergens lotion that has a hint of self tanner, so that over time you get a natural looking tan? If so, does it really work? Any tips? (link)
I havent tried that brand but heres a self tanning lotion that will definitly work and you will just fall in love with i have been using it forever and i absouloutly love it heres the link to the website

http://www.sunlabsonline.com/Scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=21

and heres a video review i found on youtube about it in this video this girl shows you how it works and how it looks when its done and also how to use it and all that stuff heres the link to the video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrq7-ChUMKI&playnext_from=TL&videos=ueFqrH2kESs

just try it once and i promise you wont want to try anything else :D


I was a new kid at school last year and I made a few friends, but only hung out with this one girl. She was kind of too stuck up for me, but we only knew eachother so we remained as friends. We were never really close, she wasnt the type that wanted to go and hang out, and I was. Now that she has graduated, I don't have any friends at school. For some reason, its just really hard for me. I just want a couple of friends i can hang out with all the time and who i can tell everything to, but im not very social. Help? (link)
Trust me i know how you feel i was a new kid at my school last year and it was terrible i hated going to school because i didnt really have anyone to hang out with but then i realized it was my fault because i wasnt talking or being social and as soon as i did people started talking to me more and asking me to hangout and go to parties and now i have tons of amazing friends it took awhile to get comfortable talking because im a very shy person but start of with one person in your class and just be friendly and once this person is your friend you will feel more confident and will be able to talk to others more freely trust me just take a deep breath and introduce yourself to someone in your class and in no time you will have a bunch of amazing friends. Good luck :D


Has anyone used a self tanner that they would recommend? If so, which ones and how much are they? (link)
i really recommend the sun lab lotion sun tanner location its amazing it looks as if you got a real tan but its just a lotion and you can get it from this website

http://www.sunlabsonline.com/Scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=21

and heres a video from someone who has used it and is showing how it look and telling a little bit more about it check it out its an amazing video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrq7-ChUMKI&playnext_from=TL&videos=ueFqrH2kESs


Okay so I don't wear bikinis, I wear tankinis so the only parts of my body that are tan at the moment are my legs, arms, and chest. What's the best way to tan my breasts and stomach/back area? Any really good self-tanners that don't smell awful or make me look orange? ALL help is much appreciated :) (link)
well i was on youtube searching for a good tanner for myself as well and i came across this video and i tried the product and amazing i havent tried anything as good as this just check the website for the product and the video the links are below good luck :D

video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrq7-ChUMKI&playnext_from=TL&videos=KO5V1_39_ec

website:

http://www.sunlabsonline.com/Scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=21


I am about to invest in getting a sewing machine. I am a beginner, BUT i plan on learning very well and eventually making clothing and cloth diapers, etc to sell. I was wondering if anyone had good advice on a sewing machine that is good for a beginner as well as a professional seamstress. Price is not too much of an issue. thanks (link)
There is a brand called brothers and they have the best sewing machines ever ive had mine for 3 or 4 years and it works great still and it has everything you need to make just about anything plus its not too big or too small and its not very heavy either im sure you can find it at your local department store but also any other brand will work great just dont get one that is lower than $100 because they wont work well or long. Good luck :D


I know the south beach diet is targeted for diabetics, but is it also healthy for nondiabetics? (I am a 5 ft 1, 155 lb female. I need to lose weight and this seems like the best diet.) (link)
Honestly this diet doesnt work i have tried all these celebrity inspired diets and nothing works its all just a big lie i mean you could drop like a pound or two but you will eventually gain it back plus a few extra pounds so i think the best way to lose weight is to exercise even if its for like 15 minutes everyday thats still a lot and just build up your time every week and then along side that just diet a little cut back on sugary foods and drinks and just have oily and fatty foods one or twice a week and you should start to lose weight but remember the exercise has to make you sweat for example get an elliptical bike and burn about 60-100 calories a day and at the end of the month with your diet you should lose about 5-10 pounds. Good luck :D


hello there wise friends.. i am 21 male and is facing a problem with my weight these days... according to my height and buid i like my weight to be 80 to 82 kgs max... but due to some bad routines and exams i have put on weight and am doing around 95 kgs which i am really hating a lot.... but the problem is that i don't get any time to workout at day time ..the only time i am free is after 9 pm that is before i sleep ..i usually sleep around 12 at night...so i was planning to do a 2 to 3 hours workout before i sleep but somebody told me that it is not effective,...the only way to loose weight is to workout in the morning..is it so...i have installed a tredmill ,a punching bag and an abs workout machine in my room..but before i really started kicking it thought it would be better to as for some wise advice...any additional advises for loosing weight would be greatly apprecieated...
p.s. my diet is kind of fine.not very loaded,just simple meals. (link)
You can work out whenever and still lose weight it doesnt matter when you do it you just need to do it. In my experience working out in the morning doesnt work because your going to be tired weak and just not really into it and you wont be able to keep up with it so i think mid day or at night before bed is a great time to do it plus after working out you will be so tired and will also get a good nights sleep which will also help with your weight loss because the more sleep you get the better your body will be so dont listen to whoever said working out at night before bed isnt effective infact i think its more effective. But besides exercising you going to have to keep a very easy diet which will help you lose that weight faster and this diet doesnt have to be extreme just limit yourself to a few good things and cut the rest out for example take out sugary food and drinks for a few weeks and just drink water trust me you will feel so much more energized and cut back on the oily fatty foods like burgers and pizza and just have it once a week and you will lose your weight in no time. Good luck :D


Hi there
My boyfriend and I have been having sex with condoms, but we'd like to try a different form of contraceptive.
I was thinking of getting the Nuvaring.
We are Canadian. Is it possible to just go to a Walk-in Clinic and get a prescription?
I'm pretty unclear on the whole getting a prescription/renewing it, since I wouldn't be doing it with my mom. She's aware and accepting that I am sexually active, but birth control (paying for it) is my respondsibility.
Thank you for the help :) (link)
Ya you can go to a walk in clinic and a if you ask for it the doctor will give you a prescription and you will be able to get your birth control so dw no need to stress about it just make an appointment and the doctor will give you it sometimes they might give you samples to see which one is best but if you say you just want the full size prescription they will give it. :D


hello there...
i already asked a question about working out at nite.. i would also like to ask if anybody can please tell me an effective way to loose fats from my love handles that is the side tyres... i really hate them...i dont have any sophisticated machines...just an electric tredmill,a punching bag and an abs workout machine.
and please also tell me that is doing the boxing thing on the puching bag a good workout???i want to loose like 15 kgs in least possible time..i am planning a 2 to 3 hours work out at night before going to sleep...
please help... (link)
I think the best way to lose love handles is running because when you run you start to tone up and all the fat starts to shrink so just run on your tredmill and go on a easy diet because you need to diet and exercise in order to lose weight doing either one on its own wont work by doing this you should lose them in no time. Good luck :D


hello i have a question...there is someone in my life that havent seen in awhile and we just started talking about 7 months ago and now we are going to see each other in about 3 days. what should i do to help from being nervous about seeing them? (link)
Dw im sure your meeting will go great and just think of it this way the person your meeting is probably just as nervous so you dont have to worry about it but if it really is bothering you that your really nervous just calm yourself and remind yourself that this could be a great start for you both and besides once you start talking you wont feel nervous anymore because things will start to go more smoothly so just dont think about it to much just flow with it and whatever happens happens if you stress to much you can mess up but if you dont think about it and keep yourself busy everything will go great. Good luck :D


I'm 14, my bf is 17. So, we were texting about computer games and he asked if i had played a certain game. I said no, and he said "ok, I'll bring you the game tomorrow at school, and you bring the thank u" so i asked him what kind of thank u he wants and he said "surprise me"> Please can u help me with some ways to thank him , but not giving him an object in return, some kind of romantic affectionate way,

Thanks (link)
Well theres lots of things you can do for him if you dont want to give him something like make him a special dinner that he will like or play a certain sport he likes or if he likes going to the arcade then take him there and just hang out there pretty much do things he likes for a whole day nothings more romantic then being sweet and kind all day im sure he will like whatever you do for him so just suprise him. I hope i helped good luck :D


I got some extensions in brightest blonde because I knew they would die easiest,
What is the best way to dye them a couple of tones darker, like a dirty blonde with chocolate streaks. (link)
I think you should go to the salon and ask them for advice on what to do because even though its not your hair you still want to take care of them and make sure you dont mess up. So ya just call a salon or take them in and ask them what you should do or search up some videos on youtube or search google for some ideas but i suggest you contact a salon before do anything to them i mean you can search the web and all first but before even touching them just contact an expert. Good luck :D


In the beginning of 7th grade, i met this boy. I remembered him out of all the students in my classes combined becasue when we first met, he said, "I dont remeber your name, you're the only girl who i don't remeber."
ofcourse, it made me feel speical.
so i liked him for 2 long years and i still do now, since i lived away from the same high school as the one he goes to i had to go to another high school. he was a westmen i was an eastmen.( (link)
You let him go because you cant keep waiting for something you dont even know will happen or work out besides you should move on because there are way more and better guys out there who you will be way happier with.


what would be good things for me and a guy im dating to go do?? were not official for a big reason, but weve kissed and said i love you. were total oppasites too. his parents are strict and he lives almost an hour away in the middle of nowhere, i live in the middle of everywhere haha. hes not old enough to drive and im banned from driving. any ideas? (link)
Well its hard to do things when there a distance between the both of you but i guess when you guys do hang out you can go watch a movie or hang out either one of your houses and watch movies there or go out to dinner and when you guys are apart talk on the phone and on msn and stuff and text eachother and just call eachother everyday and talk about your day so you still feel connected im sure things will work out if you just try at it.


My boyfriend and i broke up less than 3 weeks ago.He was my first bf,and i was his first REAL gf.We were great,had so much fun all the time and he randomly broke up with me because he was "getting sick of me","wanted to be free in highschool",etc.etc.but said he wanted to stay friends.We've basically been talking again,hanging out (less than we used to) and trying to be "friends". When we hungout yesterday, we were a little drunk and he came out to me and said he likes me still and thinks about me all the time and swore that im the most amazing girl ever,but he wants to experiment with other girls and crap..which ofcourse made me mad.He kissed me and all that and held my hand ,made sure i didnt get wet out in the rain,etc.etc. but ofcourse he was kind of "drunk". We made plans to hangout today too,and ofcourse he was sober this time.We got up early and me and him just went on a cute little adventure and went to all these places.He wanted to show me his old town so we visited there and he took me to this beach he used to go to and we chilled and ate and all that.And we had to sneak into one part of the beach and he held my hand and said "lets pretend like we're a couple so we don't get caught" blah blah but after a few seconds he stopped.Then we went back to my house and watched a movie,but didn't cuddle or kiss or anything..but still had a good time.I am trying to not talk about our relationship when im with him and just be happy and have fun and just see how things go.I didn't think he'd hangout with me all day today alone if he didn't like me...and same with yesterday and i felt as though the alcohol brought out his "true " feelings (as sad as that sounds).I just like him so much and I don't know how often i should hangout with him,or what i should and shouldn't say when im with him..or what!? help! (link)
I think you should sit him down and talk to him about both of you and what your relationship status is but if you dont want to then just hang out with him once or twice a week and just talk to him about things you both like or things he likes and just be friendly and do things together that both of you will enjoy and who knows maybe he might want to get back together. Good luck :D


Ok so I got my iPod last august and it's second generation, 8gb. Anyway, the safari thing is like messed up. When I go to safari it's all frozen and won't do anything. I can still
acess the Internet through the google app, but that is kind of annoying.

Also, I was thinking i'd reset it, but I'm also having trouble with iTunes. I got a new computer recently, and my brother put on his iPod first, and I bought some songs on my iPod touch and they won't transfer over to iTunes library. Along with some apps... So, what do I do?? (link)
Check out some videos on youtube to get some help or go to your local computer or electronic store and ask them what to do.


Has anyone ever worked at Blockbuster? Perhaps in NY? What's your opinion! (link)
I have worked at blockbuster but i dont live in NY but im guessing its the same everywhere since ya its the same buisness and all but ya i had fun working there and i met a few good friends as well so i think you will have fun plus depending on where you live you get some benefits as well and discounts which is always cool anyways you'll love it :D


20/F

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We have two very close friends who have been dating for a while. We go to parties at their house fairly often. When I get drunk, I'm very open, and I have showed my boobs a few times (I know it's bad). The thing is, I do these things because I was raped, and in a weird way it makes me feel like I have control again. It's hard to understand unless you've been through the same thing.

Anyway, my boyfriend was cool with that, but lately my male friend has been asking to see them A LOT. Him and his girlfriend are in a very open relationship, so she doesn't care. Lately, though, he'll walk up without asking in the middle of a room full of people at the party and pull my shirt and bra down. He always pulls me on his lap and says that if I wasn't with my boyfriend, him and his girl would have been all over me and that if me and my boyfriend break up I better come to them first. I know this is all my fault because I laugh when I'm nervous and I have a problem saying no, but it's starting to bother both me and my boyfriend. The last time we were at a party, I was so drunk I could barely walk and I was walking to the couch and he grabbed me, pushed my head down, and acted like he was having sex with me. I would try to talk to him about this, but he's a big guy, very short tempered, and has a house full of guns and weapons. The last time a girl told him she wasn't okay with the way he acts, he got really upset, so I'm really afraid to say anything. The thing is, he knows I was raped, so I don't understand why he acts like this sometimes.

I know it's my fault, you don't have to tell me that, but is there any way I can ask him to stop without him getting mad? He takes everything to heart, and if I said I'm uncomfortable with it, it would be pretty bad. (link)
well then you should talk to the police if it gets that bad because he needs to learn he cant do this to girls its wrong and this way he will learn the only way to change a person is to give them a life lesson and his would be getting involved with the law if he stops thats great and if he threatens to hurt you in anyway then tell the cops its the only way to get out of this.


I met this boy from another school a couple years ago, we talked alittle, asked to be friends on facebook (All that Jazz). Well, once a year our schools visit each other and stuff, well we talked like we usually do and then the next thing I know he's IMing me. He must have gotten it off my facebook or something but I said something like "Did you like today? Did I make it interesting?" and his reply was "Kinda... and yesss you did! =)" I took that as a little flirting so we've been flirting on AIM and I kinda want to see him again and hang out to get to know him a little better. Right now he's on a class trip til like Saturday or something. So what do you think? Do you think he likes me? Do you recommend us hanging out? How should I ask him??
Btw, I'm 17 almost 18. Same for him. (link)
I think you should ask him if he wants to go watch a movie or something thats kinda the only way you can find out if he really likes you and plus this way you guys will be able to get to know each other more as well.


I wanna model... and i'm kinda short but i'm just right for modeling.. i'm skinny, and i'm not ugly, well, that's what people tell me and i really don;t wanna sound concieted. but anyways i have a little extra fat on my inner thighs because of my carbohydrate intake. my matabolism or however you spell it slowed down this year and i didn't realize it. i ate food as if there was nothing wrong and that i would forever have a fast digestive system. but now i am a 14 year old girl who has dreamed about modeling forever and now that my mom has got an agency for me, i instantly get fat.. like seriously? anyways.. do you know any excersizes for the inner thigh? would runing help? what types of foods should i eat? help asap before i get fattter.. (link)
You just need to get toned there so i would suggest running,eliptical bike and squats will help too as for the diet portion try cutting out fatty food and sugary food for a month and that should do it but you dont need to go on a crazy diet because you just toning you can still eat what you want and tone up if you want it will just take longer then just taking out sugary and fatty food. Good luck :D




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