In the beginning of 7th grade, i met this boy. I remembered him out of all the students in my classes combined becasue when we first met, he said, "I dont remeber your name, you're the only girl who i don't remeber."
ofcourse, it made me feel speical.
so i liked him for 2 long years and i still do now, since i lived away from the same high school as the one he goes to i had to go to another high school. he was a westmen i was an eastmen.(<--- think about it.)
we stopped talking until almost the end of this year, (freshmen year) last month we started txting again. for 4 days stright we talked like normal until i told him how i dont want to just be his friend, i wanted to be more than friends.
honestly, i'm not the kind that asks a guy to be my boyfriend..and i didnt ask him.
he told me to give him time..but how am i suppose to keep waiting for him when i already gave him 2 years? Yes, i confessed to him in my 8th grade year, again he told me to give him time.
so the question is, do i wait for him allthough i know he can't keep me waiting for long? or do i let him go?
So here's the thing. When a guy says "give me time" its almost certain that said guy is leading you on. That's just what guys say when they want to play mind games. Seriously after two years this guy is trying, and succeeding to get over on you. Move on. I guarantee you that if he truly like he you he wouldn't need "time". Because when men really want something or someone they'll make time. Don't waste another moment of your time with him. [ QueenofDiamonds's advice column | Ask QueenofDiamonds A Question ]
abstract_profanity answered Wednesday April 14 2010, 1:09 am: Honestly, If he doesnt know right away whether he'd go out with you or not, then he's not worth waiting for. You like him now but you will find better. Time will tell of course, or that's what they say, but he's taking too much time. You don't want to waste your time on something thats never going to happen. He's just playing with you. You dont want to be that "back burner girl", you want to be the girl. His first choice. So if your not a guys first choice, than don't waste your time. He's not worth it and he'll never know what he passed up. So dont let him waste your time. You're young still! You can have any guy right now! So go on the prowl and find yourself a man who knows they want to go out with you right away! :) [ abstract_profanity's advice column | Ask abstract_profanity A Question ]
Katlyn answered Wednesday April 14 2010, 12:18 am: You let him go because you cant keep waiting for something you dont even know will happen or work out besides you should move on because there are way more and better guys out there who you will be way happier with. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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