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recentally ive been hearing that there are a lot of people who like me, but i only see all of them as friends. i dont want to hurt them but at the same time i dont want to lead them on, ive tried to tell them that i dont like them that way but they never seemed to listen, and when i hang out with them they areaalways flirting with me, how should i fix this?

Don't talk about you and them together.

Don't EVER bring up how they feel about you.

They'll pour it out, and what can you say?

Not much.

I'm sorry _____, but I don't feel the same way about you as you feel about me. I'm sure we can still be friends though.

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My boyfriend acts like he*s two different people, When we're on the phone, he's funny and happy and lovable, then when we see each other he's moody and we get into arguements! I don't know whats wrong with him, he just acts so weird! Can you help me?? I'd really appreciate it! Thx! x0

He must be actin' bad to get your attention.

I've seen many guys act down, or angry to get their g/f to pay attention.

That or he really doesn't wanna be with you, but he doesn't know how to tell you that.

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im a sophmore in high school but i moved and im starting a new school and i dont know ANYONE!!!! im sooooooooo nervous....i was jw if anyone had 2 do this?!?!

It's not that bad.

I've changed quite a few schools.

Think of this as a chance to ditch the old image of you and a time to improve the old one.

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My boyfriends parents just said he could have the basement as a room to hang out in. He gets minor water leakage in one corner. We are going to move all the storage into the garage. the walls are already painted and in good condition. We are just going to use this room as a hang out. Any ideas or themes? Don't forget its all cement and has cement poles in there. Only 2 windows too.

Thanks!!!!!

Redecorate it 50's style.

My g/f was gonna do that to her room.

They have booths and stuff.

Yes, potterbarn teen, has a lot of stuff in there.

Some of the stuff is really cheesey, but on the whole they have lots of decorating ideas.

I wanna paint my room black and splatter pink all over it.

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i still am lyk totally in luv w/ my ex bf...we've been broken up fer lyk 2 wks...my friend just asked if he wanted to go out w/ me again. he said probly yeah. i wanna kno how i can turn him on wen i c him..helpp!!!

Low cut tank tops, booty shorts.

Flirt big time.

Not too much make up.

Lip gloss would probably do.

Keep your hair down.

Rub his body.

Squeeze his butt.

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im a huge snowboarder, but this season i took a lot of bad falls, and since my knee has locked in place and it popps easily. i really want to do other sports but with this injury i cant, it also cuts into my sicial life because i hurt it alot, when i was at a concert it popped out and we had to leave early. is ther anything i can do to help it?

You could amputate it.

See an orthopedist.

I'm sure he can help you out with your bones.

You could also drink heavily, and do drugs to numb the pain.

Yet, your best bet is seeing a doc.

You might need some reconstructive surgeory.

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okay..hey i already posted sumthing about my boyfriend and how he hardly ever call`s me but i talk to him online and i go places and stuff and he tells me he loves me a lot..but i don`t know..he doesn`t show it, like he sticks up for me but i don`t know he just doesn`t show that he rly likes me.. and it doesn`t help that i`m naturally shy when it comes to talking about stuff like that to him so i need help with that...thanks in advance*

Just grow some balls, and ask for him to show that he appreciates you.

If he can't do that, can him.

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I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss?

Use carmex.

Your lips are already pink so...

Yeah..

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can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something?

Masturbation will help you out.

It's extremely pleasurable to most people.

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what are some good concerts to go to. i'm into pop, emo, pop/rock, punk rock, and a lil of r&b and rap. let me know soon!!! summer's almost over :) i'll rate fast!!!

Jessica Simpson.

She just came to Portland, Or the other night.

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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?!

Grab his balls real tight.

I mean deathlock, tell him to mature or you're gonna bite of his nuts, and ruin his reputation with any other girl he ever talks.

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In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun

most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help.

I get called gay a lot as well.

Look at my column.

I just play the homo card to their faces, they get pissed, and walk off.

They'll talk that you're gay, but their friends will notice that you aren't quite gay.

They'll look like an ass, and then they'll be called gay.

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My moms over protective what should i do?

Get her some knee pads, elbow pads, and a helmet and send her grocery shoppin'.

She'll think you're a little extremem, but isn't she as well for not lettin' you stay out past ten.

Let her know how you feel.

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17-f

I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions?

Go for the ex.

At least you'll save gas money.

It takes time to love so give him another chance.

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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help

Heck no.

Just kiss the girl, and i'll bet she returns it.

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im really shy when im around people i dont know that well, its always been a problem for me, i always feel like im gonna make a fool of myself is there any way for me to get over this?

Make a fool of yourself a couple times.

Then you'll be experienced.

You won't wanna do it again.

Actually, makin' a fool of yourself wins people over.

I'm a complete clutz and moron but people like it, cause there are people who are afraid to be like that.

It's original and people like it too cause other people are pretentious about their image.

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Whenever i meet a new guy we always end up being pretty good friends. we get close and i feel so comfortable around them. this constantly happens and i can never get a boyfriend. what should i do?

Just ask.

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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this?

Take ritalin.

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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana

You'll forget the feeling of your first kiss in two days they're overrated.

Practice kissin' on an apple and call that good enough.

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ok..see, i put in sub posts about being through puberty and being called names and stuff and theres another thing bothering me! i dont really have guy friends..like i have friends that are guys that i say hi to like every 2 weeks. i really only have about 3-5 guy friends that i can actually talk to. all the rest are girls! i dont know why i dont have guy friends. maybe its because they all think im gay (im not though). (IM A GUY BY THE WAY)

I don't hang out with anyone but my friend Matt.

I'm a guy.

Every other damn friend of mine is a chick.

It's alright to have a lot of girl friends.

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