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I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)

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what's the right age to start masturbating? i know it all varies.. but an average age. (girls)thanks.

I'd say average age at starting is 14.
For girls anyway.
Boys probably a lot sooner haha.

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what are some cute friendship analoggies(sp?) like this one:

"friends are like the bacon bits in the salad bowl of life"

thankss xo

www.firehotquotes.com

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can you pop your cherry from masterbating ??

Yeap.

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hey im 15/m and i am trying to choose which girl i want to date.

1. this girl is a skateboarder just like me. She's kind of a hippie and she stands up for like animal right and stuff. shes not an outcast though, she wears abercrombie just like all the other girls. she is always helping people and giving money to charity and she plays guitar and is into the same music as me. shes friends with a lot of guys and shes into video games but she can also be girly. she laughs a lot and likes to party but she doesnt do anything too bad like drugs and heres her picture:

http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z34/jamesboy0123/milena.jpg




2. this girl is different by a lot. she dates a lot of guys and she likes rap and shes very girly. she knows more people than the first girl but ive heard a lot of rumors about her which i dont think are true. shes rich and hates the outdoors but she has a good sense of humor. she likes to party and she loves cuddling. she does gymnastics and shes very small heres her picture:

http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z34/jamesboy0123/jaci.jpg

i need advice i dont know who to pick!

Girl one.

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How can you tell by a hint, if guy wants to kiss you or not? Anything??? Any clues specifically, if you are a guy you may defintely answer this one:)

He gets a boner and asks you to suck on it


ily.

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ive been on accutane for almost seven years now and i still get bad acne is there any other things...creams,pills,at home rememides..any advice??

I've honestly had acne sence I was three and now I'm 16. My doctor put me on Accutane and it worked really great BUT he said it wasn't as good as it should be so he gave me another pill to go along w/ it. Talk to your dermatologist about another pill you could possibly take WITH the Accutane.

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I have a boyfriend that's 18 who turns 19 in August.And I'm 16 and I turn 17 in October.Would it work out if I was going in Highschool and he went to college in the area.Or do you think he would get tired of me and get someone better who's in college or whatever.Or even I would find someone in highschool.I just want some opinions if you don't mind.

It all depends on the relationship. I honestly don't think so because your asking...which mean you have some doubt too. Try it out. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work.

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19/F

I've been working at my new job for about 2 weeks now. It involves a lot of running around, and I'm working in the wilderness, so I get a lot of exercise in my spare time, hiking and canoeing. I'm also eating much higher quality food than I did at home, seeing as I was living on a student budget.

With all of this in mind, is it unhealthy for me to have lost 12 pounds in the last 2 weeks? I've heard that you're only supposed to lose one to two pounds a week, not a day!

If it helps, I started off weighing 224 pounds, and now I'm 212. A lot of it's muscle, though, so it's not like I was obese to start with.

It's perfectly normal :]
Just make sure your eating enough!

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I run about 2 miles everyday and after I run I'm pretty hungry but I don't want to put all the calories I lost right back in. What should I eat after running?

Fruits like an apple or grapes.
orrrr a low calorie bar :]

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okay , so i've been going out with this guy for almost 4 months now. i really like him a lot and he likes me too . he was my first kiss. and he doesnt know that. but i can tell that i wasnt his , and he is wayyy more experienced than i am. he's madeout with a bunch of girls and everything , and i'm going with him to sixflags on this weekend . and he was asking me all these things like "will you makeout or kiss me me on 'blahahah' ride ?? and i was like 'yeahhh ,,'
but the thing is , im ready to makeout , but i dont know how . will it just come naturally? or do i need to know how? i know im ready though . i really like him . i just dont know how to . advice please?

Yeh it's suppose to come naturally, but just like everything else, practice makes perfect. Sooo practice! Sure it sounds weird, and people will deny ever doing this, but just everyone practices on their pillow, mirror, ext. w/e works I guess haha.

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do guys like a girl shaved down below?
juuusst wondering..

Yes.

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I really want to know because everyone else has already lost it and I'm 14 and I havent!

woah. 14 is wayyyy to young to lose your virginity. And you might think everyone has, but trust me, there are more kids who han't than kids who have. I'm still a virgin and so are all of my friends and I'll be 16 next month. Just about every guy would prefer a girl who's a virgin too. DON'T go off having sex w/ some teenage punk who doesn't even know what he's doing. You want your first time to be memorable. Just trust me on this k :]

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ok well u say to get to know him...i talked to him almost every nite on aim for 2 hours about random stuff and we laugh and watch tv together...hes like the best friend that is a guy ive ever had...he tends to like be "flirtatious" with girls alot even if hes just friends with him.....i cant tell if what he does with me is true or just him being himself(he puts his arm around me and talks, tells me all eve ngirls he likes or if he is weird, i played chiken with him and he asked me...he grabbed my feet in the pool and pulled me towards him and he was like walking on my feet afterschool--weird huh? i really like him and im afraid to break up with my bf because ive never done it before i dont kno what to do and im nto sure if i shud just say J things have been slightly weird do you like me...what to do??

Exactly. Just come out and ask the guy if he likes you or not. As far as breaking up with your boyfriend, you gotta do it. It's not fair to him if you don't. You don't have to explain your self to him why. You just have to say you don't feel that connection anymore and you think you two should break up.

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Can you get AIDS from giving blow jobs?

And also, how can you practice giving one..

And how do you like.. ask a boy if you can give him a blow job?

Yes you can get AIDS from giving a guy a blow job. If he has AIDS/HIV and you have a cut on your lip, tongue, anywhere around the mouth area, then you can get affected that way.

Best way to practice is to practice on somebody.
...or a banana or something like a penis I suppose haha. Might sound weird, but if you really wanna be good at it, practice on something like that!

Just ask a guy. I'm pretty sure they won't turn ya down ;] lol

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ok i dont kno if i put it under the right category..sorry! lol..but anyways i have a problem with my nose..its peels ALL THE TIME..AND ON TOP OF THAT ITS SHINY..I DONT GET IT..PEELING USUALLY OCCURS BECAUSE THE SKIN IS DRY AND THEN AGAIN MY NOSE IS SHINY WHICH MEANS IT HAS MOISTURE..does anybody know how i could fix this...?

Put face lation on it.
Dove face lation works the best in my opinion.
You can get it at Wal-Mart :]

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ok so im with this guy that im pretty sure im gonna break up with beacause hes to prude and its not realy going anywhere and he doesnt even call me ....i semi like this guy J and i cant tell if he likes me or not...i dont wantto ask him rite of the blue and we were at a pool party and he was playn chiken with me what shud i do how can i tell if he likes me or not

Well you should definitely break up with your boyfriend. He has a lot to learn with relationships if he never calls his girlfriend or anything. Too immature to be in a relationship I think. As far as "J" goes. Call him up and ask him to do something. Like movies or waterpark. Maybe even ask a few friends to come a long. Hang out w/ him then maybe he'll act like he likes you enough where you can just come on out and ask him.

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My bofriend and I have been friends for about 7 months and dated for 2 of those months. We're pretty close but I'm wondering how far it is ok to go in our relationship physically. So far we haven't even kissed, but on IM we tell each other sexual things about how/where we want to touch each other. Nothing too bad and it's not anywhere close to having online sex, but it's still awkward. I don't want to rush into things because we both wanna be virgins til marriage. So how far is appropriate for us to go at this point, and how far is appropriate to go if we end up staying together another year or two? Christian opinions will be greatly appreciated, considering he & I are both Christians!!!

If you two are really strict on the whole Christian thing [ Which I am myself when it comes to this stuff :] The farthest I would go is just making out. I would save everything else till marriage.

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So I have a boyfriend whom I have been with for a lil over 2 months.We've been talking for months before we actually started going out.Or made it official.In between all that.I was talking to my ex.Really my ex was trying to get back with me.And I have feelings for him still and always will be.Not necessarily strong ones or whatever,But you get my drift.He always seem to come in mind.I try not to let it effect my relationship with my boyfriend,But I mean he sometimes ends up in the conversation.Not necessarily with my boyfriend, But with like friends and family.I feel guilty though.For even having any thoughts about him because my ex was a jerk,But I mean I can't help but think about him.I don't know how to get him out of my head.I'm running out of things to do.I don't want to think I'm dating my boyfriend because of my ex because i'd honestly feel ashamed.I just need some help with this.Usually I'm the one giving the advice.I just don't want to lose my boyfriend.He is just so amazing and sweet and what I want.He makes me happy.Soo... question is..what do I do?

There will be a lot of guys that are your "dream guy" out there. That doesn't mean he realy is "the one". If your having feelings for someone else, and really want your relationship with your boyfriend to work, the best thing to do is be honest with him. Maybe he'll try to fix the fact that you still have feelings for your ex by doing something special for you to get your mind completely off your ex. After all, that's what keeps a good relationship going. Communication, honesty, and trust. :]

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Does 93 pounds seem overwieght for a 12 year old female?

Nope. That's perfect :]

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has anyone ever had sex with out a condom for like 30 seconds, but was still okay after?

You can have sex w/ out a condom on for 2 seconds and still get pregnant.

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