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ok well u say to get to know him...i talked to him almost every nite on aim for 2 hours about random stuff and we laugh and watch tv together...hes like the best friend that is a guy ive ever had...he tends to like be "flirtatious" with girls alot even if hes just friends with him.....i cant tell if what he does with me is true or just him being himself(he puts his arm around me and talks, tells me all eve ngirls he likes or if he is weird, i played chiken with him and he asked me...he grabbed my feet in the pool and pulled me towards him and he was like walking on my feet afterschool--weird huh? i really like him and im afraid to break up with my bf because ive never done it before i dont kno what to do and im nto sure if i shud just say J things have been slightly weird do you like me...what to do??
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Exactly. Just come out and ask the guy if he likes you or not. As far as breaking up with your boyfriend, you gotta do it. It's not fair to him if you don't. You don't have to explain your self to him why. You just have to say you don't feel that connection anymore and you think you two should break up.
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hmm... very similar situation i had gone through!!!
I used to talk to him for hours on the phone, he was my best guy friend, i had a boyfriend, he was bit flirtatious person, etc..
Well what I did was, think about it really throughly. Am i going to regret what i've done by breaking up with my current bf to take a chance of being together with my best guy friend?
I mean lot of factors matter in a situation like this. Such as, it took me over 8 months to finally figure out I actually really like my best guy friend over all the other guys.
Also, we just had these events that brought us closer. Such as Prom, school club field trips, etc.
So one day I finally realized, there isn't any guy who can make me feel so comfortable being around with.
He made me just be comfortable being myself and he made me laugh and all that.
So take a step by step. Figure out what you are going to do about your current boyfriend. Then if you have a question let me know! Trust me, i went through a very similar situation!
P.S. here is to my ending. I broke up with my then bf to take a chance with my best guy friend. I am very glad I did because I am still going out with my best guy friend and I figured out there is no one else who is like him :D
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when my best friend liked me i just asked him who he liked the first time he said someone i have always know and you know very well then the next day i asked him again and he said me. then he asked me and i said him...but we never went out we didnt wana loose our friendship but we lost both. and he always flirted with most girls to. just say to him who do you like when your by yourselves orr with your friends NOT infront of everyone. just ask him. and who do you like more. and would you rather have him as a close friend or a bf. hope i helped
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I think you just casually ask him who he likes, if he's tight with you and its not you he'll tell you who it is. If he won't tell you, thats probably a sign that it might be you, or he just doesnt want to tell you. If it's not you, or he says he doesnt like you, you should stay with your boyfriend. If he does like you, and you like him more than your boyfriend, you should dump your boyfriend and go out with him. Always follow your heart :) hopefully you get this situation figured out.
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