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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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okay..I know that this is bad and stuff but I just really need advice--quick! On sunday night i drank about a quarter of a bottle of beer, a few sips of sangria and like a cup of vodka..I am going to the doctor for a check-up on thursday and i'll be getting blood taken, will any of the alcohol be in my body still, and if so will it be shown when my blood is taken? (i'm 5'0'' and 100 lbs)

Aw, don't worry about it at all hun. The alcohol will be all out of your system by then. Try calming down because theres nothing to worry about.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, there is this guy in my class. I really really like him, cuz hes a good guy and stuff. But each time I try to talk to him he just looks at me and turns red and acts like he doesnt even know me. Does he like me or does he just hate me?

This guy so likes you, actually he likes you a lot. He wouldn't be blushing for no reason. Guys don't do that unless their really crushing on the girl. The only reason he acts like he doesn't know you, is because he's nervous. He probably has no clue what to say to you. Maybe you could start talking to him one day. That way he'll get over the shyness and will begin to feel more comfortable with you.
♥ Krissy

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My sister is sooo annoying whenever i eat popcorn she goes "POPCORN HOGG!" I like popcorn but not THAT much. She is soo annoying. What should i do???

Simply ignore her. She probably only does this because she knows it makes you annoyed. Once you show her that what she says doesn't bother you, she'll stop.
♥ Krissy

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what does it mean to be "pushy"?

Being too pushy is when you try to boss everyone around, you always want things your way and your always in charge. You really don't wan't anyone doing things their way, it's all about how you do it and how you want it.
♥ Krissy

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I've just had my train track braces removed and been given a retainer. I didn't think to ask my orthodontist, but...if I wear my retainer more (like round the house after school as well instead of just at night), will it make my teeth more likely to stay in place or move quicker or whatever? Would wearing it more than just at night do more harm or good?
Thanks!

You can wear it all the time, it doesn't hurt to do that. It won't make your teeth move quicker, but it will actually keep your teeth lined up. But you have to keep wearing it, or your teeth will start shifting and you'll be back to wearing braces again; and I'm pretty sure you don't wan't that. Keep wearing it 24/7; unless your eating, brushing your teeth or your teeth are getting sore. Otherwise you should wear it all the time.
♥ Krissy

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Hiya,
I was just wondering...what's the point of a hidden track on a CD? I know they're there and how to get at them and all that, but WHY are they there?
Thanks!!

I always thought about that too. Maybe because it's such a good song, that they have to put it away from the others. Or the hidden track could be a sample song, from what their other songs on their next C.D might sound like. I really have no clue either, it's rather pointless. I guess we're in the same boat about the hidden track thing.
♥ Krissy

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I want to go over to this kids house over the weekend. The thing is, it's a party and i will be with my boyfriend. So since my parents wont let me...( I would be sleeping there too ) what can I say so that they dont know that I am sleeping there.. Besides saying I am sleeping over 'so n so`s' house and really not because my parents could find that out and stuff. Leave your AIM screen name is possible Thanks

Maybe you could come to a agreement with your parents, that you could go to the party but stay out till 12. I don't think lying is so great, because you might lose all trust your parents have in you. But hey, on the other hand, you only live once and you are a teenager. Your suppose to make mistakes in life, that's how you learn. The only thing I can think of is telling them your sleeping over at one of your friends houses. Tell your parents it's just a girl get together type of thing. And my AIM screen name is, xx0nfir3xx
♥ Krissy

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how do u give a hand job?

You just run your hand up and down the guys penis. Just like him jacking himself off, but it's you.
♥ Krissy

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wat does wtf mean?!?!??!?!

WTF = What the fuck.
♥ Krissy

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I'm in love with one of my old guy best friends. I don't really know what to do about it though. He's really shy and I got him something for Valentine's Day and he liked it. And I think he likes me, because he's always glancing over, coming over just because and always gets nervous around me, little things like that. Do you think he likes me and what should I do about it? I dont want to ruin the friendship, but the way things are right now is driving me nuts! Help!

Aw, that's so cute. You should try to start up something with him, something bigger and better, a relationship with eachother. It looks like he does have feelings for you, since he's always coming over for no reason and getting nervous around you. I'd say he's crushing! You should try to take things slow at first. Maybe tell him you are liking him and you were wondering how he felt about you. If he's feeling the same way (which I totally think he is), maybe ask him to a movie sometime. Then take everything from there. But you have to ask him/tell him you like him. You might be missing out on something really special!
♥ Krissy

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im 16 ...
i need a little help.. so their is this guy! ive liked for ever and i never thought he liked me so i thought i was over him but friday i went to his house to do some project an we ended up going in his room and hanging out and he went to kiss me and i pulled away because their was this guy i liked. an i told him why and he was liek im so proud of you an all this ( i kinda wonder why but w/e) well it ended up not working b/w me and the other guy and i really like the one i was with on friday. but i feel like i had my chance an that i prolly wont get it again. and i dont know what to do.

He probably said he was proud of you, because he really was. It just goes to show that someone can trust you. And your not going to kiss someone if you don't like them. As for this guy you were with on Friday just tell him that you really like him. You were just confused about both him and the other guy. But it turns out you like him more and you really did want to kiss him. Tell him that you know you had your chance, but you really want another one. Show him that you really do like him! Maybe he has feelings for you as well?
♥ Krissy

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when a guy is giving u a hickie, what should you do? just lay their? or do you kiss him or what im so confused?

Just enjoy it and move your hands over his back and hair.
♥ Krissy

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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them

You could try to get into this kind of situation many ways, here are some: You could be watching a movie and you could just lean over and kiss her. Do something flirty, example: tickeling her, then stop and kiss her. You could push away her hair and kiss her. Or, just go at it super cute and say "I always wanted to do this" and give her a kiss.
♥ Krissy

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I like this guy, but I don't now how to tell him I do! Can you help me?

You like him so why not trying to ask him to go see a movie. You could ask him by calling him, maybe using AOL or MSN or getting a friend to ask for you (if your too shy). But if you never ask him/tell him you like him, you'll be missing out. He could also have feelings for you too. So go for it and do something about it!
♥ Krissy

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my boyfriend always tells me that he feels lonely at times. and i don't know exactly what to tell him. i mean i'll say your not lonely you have me and you always will but he still does. i love him to death and i would do anything to make him happy. what exactly can i do that won't make him feel that way??
thanks a bunch

Maybe he feels like your not spending enough time with him. You can make him not so lonely but showing you care. Maybe taking him out for a movie, hangout at home, go to the mall or dinner, etc. Or you could always ask him why he keeps saying he's lonely. The reason probably is that he thinks you aren't together enough. And that can be fixed with a little more hanging out!
♥ Krissy

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ok i like this guy and i asked him out but he was like i like u alot but i rather jus be friends. but then like a week l8er he asked 1 of my friends where i was cause he needed to talk to me and it was a good thing, but i had left school, so he coundnt talk to me. what was he gonna say, it killing me and i cant wait till tuesday.
*comfused*

Well if it's a good thing, maybe he wants to tell you he had a change of heart. He could possibly want to be with you. Don't get your hopes up for nothing though. It could be something little, like he wants to be good friends and hangout and such. Just keep being yourself and maybe he will fall for you in a different way, (if he hasn't already).
♥ Krissy

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I have a boyfriend hes 15 and I'm 13. We love each other a lot. We've been togther for over 9 months. He always tells me how lucky he is to have me , how he can't sleep always thinking of me, hes even cried right in front of me because well I said something and it mad him cry, we can talk about anything, and he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. To everyone else in the world we probally seem like the greatest couple and we are. I'm completley in love with him. Do u think hes in love with me? Just wondering. But anyways he has a promblem. I love him and it scares me. I just want some advice. I want to help himb but I could never go to an adult for help because that would break his turst and I could never do that. My boyfriend cuts himself well he has about 3 times. The first time because his Father wouldn't let him call me and he said he couldn't take it. The second time he couldn't get me out of his head. The thrid well i'm pretty sure it was the same as the second reason. This scares me a lot and I feel resonsible. I would never break up with him because of this but i feel like this is my fault. He tells me its not and he recently promised that he will stop for me because he knows it scares me. I want to help but I don't know how. I love oh my gosh i love him more then anything. I'm so confussed and I need serious advice. He also just two nights ago admitied to takeing phills. I started to cry. What should I do? How can I help him without breaking his trust? Please give me some anwsers I don't know who else to turn to . Thanks you more then you'll ever know.

Aw, first hun you have to calm down and this isn't your fault at all. Him doing this has nothing to do with you. Don't blame this on yourself. If he promised you he's going to stop cutting and taking pills, he should. He'll stop if he really loves you. It looks like he cares about you so much, so I'm pretty sure he'll stop. Just always be there for him no matter what. Always talk about things so he doesn't have everything building up in him. The reason for him doing this is because he doesn't let his feelings out. Try to get him to talk to you. I'm sure it'll help him and he'll feel much better, talking to you about his problems. Maybe you could show him just how much you care about him. Give him 50 reasons why you love him or why he should stop cutting and taking pills. That way he'll realize that you are scared and you do really care about him and he'll stop. Just keep being a great girlfriend and always tell him just how much he means to you!
♥ Krissy

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What are some good aim sns that aren't already taken?? i am really bad at thinking up screen names. Does anyone have any suggestions??

http://www.sunkissed.cjb.net/ Go to this site, they have millions of names to choose from. Just go to the "Aim Screen Name" section. I'm sure there will be something in there for you!
♥ Krissy

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me and my bf had sex and after i was in pain down there and i realized i was bleeding and it wasnt from sex i than looked and it was a part of my vagina close to where the penis is inserted and a piece of skin was split in two i was wondering is that normal?

He probably just popped your cherry and ripped a bit of skin. (Which is normal). It will usually hurt since your "tight" down there. If your really scared about this not being normal and it still hurts after a week or so, you could go see the doctor.
♥ Krissy

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OK I see a lot of those "About me" things in people's profiles. I really want one in mine but don't know where to get one. I have seen many different ones, liek the one with the alphabet going down and you fill in [A]ge___ anyone heard of those? If anyoen has some or knows where to find one let me know!! Please and thanks.

A lot of people just come up with that stuff. You could put a survey of yourself on the "About Me" if you wanted. There's many to choose from at this site: http://www.sunkissed.cjb.net/
♥ Krissy

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