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Wow its been awhile since I have been on here. Well I'm always told I give great advice and it seems people flock to me for it. Ive experienced alot so I can relate to alot of people. Feel free to ask me anything :)
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umm where can you buy a ouija board..?!? and how much are they?! (link)
I got one from target for $10...so much fun l0l! have fun with it x0x ♥


ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
thanks!
i rate high for good answers! (link)
Just be outgoing aroundhim and don't feel nervous...guys liek it when you approach them and act all happy and vibrant...jst go up to him and be like heyyy wuts up...did you do mr. so nd so's hw...nd that'll get a convo started...you could then be liek hey me nd my friends r goin to a movie tonight do you wanna cum nd bring sum of your friends...guys don't usually pass it up when a girl asks them to come somewhere with them....but don't think its a date ya'll are juss hangin out at the movies!...hope i helped x0x ♥


ok i was wondering if there are any kind of craft or games i can do for my sweet 16 party. im planning on having a smaller party with just about 12 people or so and its prob going to be all girls. it can be anything outside because its going to be in winter/late fall. i wanted something to do that wasnt to juvenile to past time and stuff so we dont get bored or anything. it also cant be to girly either and can be done with a larger group. i was wondering if anyone could tell me some fun things to do at a party or what they did at theirs (link)
This might sound gay but twister is so fun but don't be like hey I have twister planned act as if you just were like hey lets play twister...you get into it with your friends and ya'll will be dying from laughing so hard l0l!! You could do a salon party where you get someone to come and do facials and massages or you can do it yourself and assign everyone a partner to do eachother's facials and massages...just go to wallmart and pick up the 80 cent packs of "face food" there individul facials and they're really cheap, nd just go into the lotion isle and pick up a massaging oil or lotion! hope i helped xox ♥


Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
ok well he obviously likes you so just tell him that you like him...guys like when girls are outgoing!! im sure it will work out, good luck!!


i know its short advice but im sure something will happen!! x0x ♥



OK my ex boyfriend calls me everyday to talk about his day. He slips in a sentence about me and him then he talks about his girlfriends. Yes that is plural. He has more than 1. He asks me to rate him on how hot he is on a scale from 1-10. I rate him a 7 and a half. He has a nice body but he's not niice to me when we date. This guy, does he still like me or not? I rate! Sorry so long. We had a relationship for 2 months before I found out he cheated on me. (link)
he probably doesn't have real feelings for you..he just wants to be a pimp...he thinks the more girls he has the better...stay away from ppl like that...you should let him know that after someone cheats on kme i normally wouldnt even talk to them on the phone..so he gets the hint you wont get back withi him!! you deserev better!! x0x *caitie*


wat is a ob-gyn doctor.. or w/e it is.. i know what they check.. but like wat do they actually do??????? because people say that is more gross than going to the doctor and them just looking...... so like please tell me


Rissa (link)
hey well they check to see if you have any problems or abnormalities down there....they check for infections or STDs that you dont even know you have sometimes...its nasty because you have someone digging around down there..it doesn't exactly hurt but its feels uncomfortable...dont be embarrased though..everyone has to go through it! hope i helped x0x ♥ caite ♥


I recently broke up with my bf. I did it in a wimpy way - Aim but i wasn't planning on it. That night when i went to bed i didn't cry. i havent cried and it's almost been a week. i dont feel the desire i use to feel to see him to have him hold me now. but im afraid once we're in school, and i see him (he's in all my classes) i'll want him back. also if we are there and i jsut wanna be good friends, what if he doesn't want to be friends with me? i was cruel and let him down in a big way. i feel terrible bout it but my feelings are changing n i dont understand it and i couldnt lie to him in a relationship. he asked for once last date. do u think i should? to talk things out?? im so confused...
IM me horsesare666es cause that was kinda fuzzy... (link)
Yes i definitly think you should go on thatg final date...because you fel so horible about it this woulod be a great oppertunity to redeem yourself by telloing him you feel bad about how you broke it off and let him know you're feelings changed but you would still love to be friends with him! x0x hope i helped ♥


ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not? (link)
Ya you are friend..i know alot of people like cindy..ya'll are friends but not true friends..if you get what I'm saying..you get along with eachother but around other people Cindy acts likek you don't exist...I'll just tell you this dont confide in her and dont completely trust her! x0x hope i helped ♥ caitie ♥


I need some four or five letter words to write on my binder for school. Please no fowl words. Thanks in advance I rate 5's no matter wat! (link)
Me and my firends came up with a pretty cool thing to put on your binder last year..with like marker or colored pencils or w/e write your name in big letters in the center of a piece of paper and around it write all the things that go through your mind..like your friends names..the foods you like...your favorite shows, your fav artists, the guys you like and so on...if you do it with different colors it turns out tobe really cute...hope i helped x0x ♥ caitie ♥


sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school (link)
You could pack a baggie with Olay face cleanser wipes in your purse/backpack and usen them to clean your face throughout the day..they remove your makeup though so it would be smart to go to the bathroom and do it so you can redo your makeup! hope i helped x0x ♥ caitie ♥


I know not to trust anyone on the internet. But what are ways to find out he is a normal, nice guy? I'm not giving out any information, i'm not that stupid. But how can I get proof from him? (link)
u get him to give his number to u after talkin to him 4 a while be like hey can i call u nd be like i feel more comfortable calling you than you calling me is that ok....he probly won't care..then you cxan talk to him nd see if he's who he sais he is!! hope i helped x0x!! ♥


can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100. (link)
OMG i luv this questin because i know of this really sexy cologne...Candies for men...its reasonably priced too...it smells so good you have no idea...its perfect!! you should definitly get it,....x0x *caitie*


does the mary kay hand lotion smell good? (link)
well there is different smells...but all the ones ive smelled smell good...mary kay also makes a line of teen products called velocity which smells really good...so i recommend that..i have it! hope i helped x0x ♥ caitie ♥


I'm not anorexic i just have a problem gaining weight. I'm 13/f and appx. 93 lbs. i have an extremely high metabolism and can actually loose weight in my sleep.i eat like a pig and i eat constantly. my doctor told me to eat five meals a day but it doesn't work. i've gone to a different doctor and he says i'm normal. i want to gain weight because i get picked on just as much as a heavy kid would and i don't want my bones sticing out. Does anybody with a heigh metabolism know how to gain a quick 10lbs.? (link)
Ok I dont have a fast metabolisn but i'd still like to help...are you really active like do you have a hobby where your always moving around because that could be a reason your not gaining weight..try being lazy and like eating fatty foods and not doing anything active....but don't over do it on the food liek after you gain the weight you want..eat alot but dont eat junk rfood belcause its just really bad for you!! i hope i helped x0x ♥ *caitie*


ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx (link)
Ok im not trying to be mean but I tkinda sounds slutty!....If you do thid stuff brcause your worried what the guy will say thatn just stop wo4rrying because people will respect you alot more if you refuse than just give in...guys see you as a piece of ass now not a girlfriend....you've dug yourselfn a deep hole but you can still get out if you just stop doing what you've been doing!...i know sex feels good nd all but you can live without it until you find a BOYFRIEND that you actually like alot and he likes you alot not for sex but for you!!! good luck nd i really hope i helped!! xoxo ♥
*caitie*


i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy (link)
hey sum of the answers you got were cute but honestly the cutest names are the most original...for ex. name your puppy after something she does alot like when i got a cat it always was shaking (dont ask l0l) so i named him shaker...original=cute hope i helped ♥ *caitie*


I've been home for the last week and it is so boring!! I'm home alone from when i wake up to 11:30. What can I do other than eat, go on the computer, read, and watch TV because that is what I've been doing. So bored! My summer is wasting away! (link)
Well I went through that stage this summer because all my friends were away, if your friends are there then you should definitly make plans with them if not you could work out or you could find a job or babysit for someone....there really isnt much to do...but i h0pe i helped anyway!! x0x *caitie* ♥


My boyfriend & I haven't really talked about the subject of "love". We've known eachother a while & we were friends prior to dating & I think I love him. I know 13 is young so I'm not sure. Is there anyway to bring it up to him? Will it just come up in a conversation one day? There have been certain things he's said that leads to me thinking that. For example, we got into this big fight (just a few weeks ago ... yes, we were dating) & I said "Do you hate me?" and he said "no, the exact opposite... do you feel the same way?" and I said "ya." Does that sound like he was talking about love or just the common liking we have for eachother? (link)
Ok everyone sais 13 is too young to know what love is but thats not true you can feel it at any age and you know because there's like a burning feeling in your heart when you think about them and you get butterflies in your stomache..if you feel this than you're probably in love! When your bf said the exact opposite i think he was reffering to love!! So you should bring it up by saying I know we're young but I think I love you! And hopefully he'll feel the same...if he doesn't he might just be confused right now and he might need time to think about what you said before he gets back to you! h0pe i helped x0x *caitie* ♥



heyy - ive lived in the house i live in now ALL my life, & i like it- but lately all my mom talks about is moving to a bigger one. [I'd rather just extend, b/c some of my neighbors have been doing that and it looks GREAT!]I dont want to move b/c my BEST BEST friend lives a few houses down. We hangout ALL the time & we talk to eachother about everything, and we help eachother through hard times. We know what goes on in eachother's lives and we tell eachother everything. I worried that if i do move we'll drift apart [thats what happened to our other friend who moved, we used to be BESt friends but she moved & we NEVER ever talk anymore..] I really dont want to see our friendship fade b/c weve gotten SOO close through all these years[ weve been best friends since kindergarten] im soo worried and i really dont want to move , whenever my mom talks about moving, i have to told back my tears b/c i thnk about how it'll be so different going from being able to walk to eachothers houses to not being able to at all. We are REAlLY close & im so scared that one day my mom will tell me that she bought a house. I really need help b/c i have no idea what to do. Ive tried telling my mom, but she just talks about it more & more - and its driving me crazy. I love this house & i love being so close to my best friend b.c if theyres a problem we can always run to eachothers houses & we are going through the same problems with parents & friends and stuff so we can relate a lot. We laugh together, we cry together, and i really dont want to lose that. Shes my BEST friend & im so afraid of what might happen! PLEASe help me! i dont know what else to do! Its getting me really upset ... =(

[sry this is long, but i really need help lol ]

thanks soooo much for taking the time 2 read this -- it really means a lot =)

love always,
♥nikki (link)
hey thx for asking me this question w0w this is so wierd you know the answer thats askmex3 gave you well the best friend she was talking about is me...so as you see we're still very close! as long as you always talk on the phone and try to plan visits you should stay close! me and my friend have known eacohter 4 evr nd you and ur friend sound very close so chemistry should keep you close!! h0pe i helped good luck x0x *caitie* ♥


Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:

*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*

i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...

hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!

sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice?

~D3vY (link)
Ok thx for asking me....you sound very sweet and your girlfreinds sounds like she has feelings for someone else! I know you care about her but the relationship will probably go downhill if you're in love with her but she's thinking of someone else...i know it's hard but try and fix things by sitting down and talking with her...tell her that you care very much for her but you feel as if she loves someone else...don't mention the hole advice thing because she'll probably use that against you...if talking doesn't help then i'd say it's time to break it off...you deserve better than someone lik her that plays games with your head! hope i helped..good luck...x0x *caitie*




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