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Love or Like?
My boyfriend & I haven't really talked about the subject of "love". We've known eachother a while & we were friends prior to dating & I think I love him. I know 13 is young so I'm not sure. Is there anyway to bring it up to him? Will it just come up in a conversation one day? There have been certain things he's said that leads to me thinking that. For example, we got into this big fight (just a few weeks ago ... yes, we were dating) & I said "Do you hate me?" and he said "no, the exact opposite... do you feel the same way?" and I said "ya." Does that sound like he was talking about love or just the common liking we have for eachother?
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It's love by judging about that fight. 13 isn't too young for love. I'm almost 14 but I've been in love since I was 12 with my boyfriend of 9 months but we recently broke up. We've moved on and I like a new guy. If you've known him for long then it just might be love.
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Well 13 is a young age for love but love is of the heart that doesn't know your age. Sounds to me that when he said ,"no, the exact opposite" that he was talking about love. If y'alls relationship is still going pretty good, i think you should bring it up. It can't hurt and if he says yes it will most likely bring y'all closer together. Just go for it and you'll be fine!!!
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Ok everyone sais 13 is too young to know what love is but thats not true you can feel it at any age and you know because there's like a burning feeling in your heart when you think about them and you get butterflies in your stomache..if you feel this than you're probably in love! When your bf said the exact opposite i think he was reffering to love!! So you should bring it up by saying I know we're young but I think I love you! And hopefully he'll feel the same...if he doesn't he might just be confused right now and he might need time to think about what you said before he gets back to you! h0pe i helped x0x *caitie* ♥
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I'd have to say that you're never too young to love, but to find True Love, possibly. It all depends...age to me means nothing.
He probably meant love. Why don't you ask if he loves you? Tell him to tell the truth and ask him, but assure him you have no doubts and you just wanted to know.
Either that, or wait for it to come up.
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yeah, it sounds to me like he meant "love". The first time i ever told my boyfriend that i loved him was right after we had a fight lol. He was bitching off to me about something that i did a LoNg time ago, before we were even together and yeah...lol. So i bet that your boyfriend feels the same way that you do. So tell him, he may be really relieved.
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If he said "the exact opposite", then it sounds to me like he was talking about love. I think he loves you.
Now, 13 IS awfully young. On the other hand, even very old people like me aren't entirely sure what love is, to tell you the truth. So if he says he loves you, I wouldn't worry about it.
After all, "love" is just a word. It's a label people use for a feeling. But those feelings are probably different for every single person in the world. Don't confuse the label for the reality, and don't let worrying about the meaning of "love" take ONE SECOND away from enjoying the real thing.
If you're happy with him, BE happy. Enjoy every minute of it that you can, because every minute of it is precious.
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When you are young and experianceing new feeling such as love they are very strong. So yes what your feeling could be love. And your boyfriend has expressed that he obviously has strong feelings for you as well. But just to warn you that love at your age is diffenent to what love is when you are older. Don't start thinking that this it the boy you are going to marry and start planning your future. For now just enjoy what you have today.
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to be honest you just hafta take it day by day . eventually that subject will come up. dont stress or pressure it. if he does in fact love you he will say it one day . but makes sure he says it first ... its always cuter that way .. hehe
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