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hey um u have a big problem because like um i like this guy and he is my neighbor and i think he likes me and knows that i like him and stuff and like he hasnt talked to me since i asked him if he wanted to go with my somewhere and he makes fun of me alot and is he just being like immature or does he like me?
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Dear confused , he probally is being mean to you because he likes you and has a crush on you but he dosent know how to approach you ( as in ask you out )
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What should i do to get MOnEY faSTt!! i need it by Aug 8th to go to the beach with my bestest friend =) .. Thanks.. o yea i cant baby sit lol* (link)
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you can mow grass or something like that and if your old enough you can get a job
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hey katy .. theres this guy i rele like but idk what he'll say if i tell him how i feel soo all we do is talk like friends talk .. :-/ idk if i should tell him how i feel or not .. we're REALLY good friends and i don't want to hurt our relationship :-/ help me please!! (link)
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Well i mean .. you should tell him that you like him and you want to know if he feels the same way about you and you'll.... you will go far maybe he will say yes .. who knows
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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You shouldn't care what ppl think . Your parents dont have to know anywayz so i mean just dont tell them if you really love her and that way nobody gets hurt
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i have been tryin my best to give you guys good advice and i hope im doing a good job..but no one seems to be answering me back...does this mean im no help??...could someone help me and tell me how im doin??
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no it just means ppl dont wanna give feed back thats why you have to ask for it like i do
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
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Dear Brother Hater , i have a older brother and he does the same stuff / one idea to help you .. you could get a lock on your door and change your password so he cant get on your screen name
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do? (link)
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try telling her you wanted her to go to church so you guys can have more time to hang out or you can call and leave a message on her answering machine or cell phone
be sure not to say your name till your done with what you have to say so she will listen
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...i play soccer a lot and im kinda busy...i realli wanna be able to do like back walkovers and stuff...without coaches...can u give me like TONS of tips that would help me learn how?? thanx (link)
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well i am a cheerleader ... and i know how to do that so i would say you have to really practice stuff like back bends and stuff like that
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do? (link)
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He will remember you ... school dosent get that much time in peoples life ... im sure he will remember you
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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf? (link)
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Tell him nobody deserves to be called names and im pretty sure your bf is not AS BIG AS SHREK ( that is really mean ) so dont feel bad when your dad says he is as big as shrek because i mean nobody deserves to be called names and stuff so i would try to tell your dad that you really like your boyfriend and you dont want to lose him for soemthing you didnt do ( he did )
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i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo (link)
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All i can say is be yourself and tell him you wanna know if he likes you back ( you'll never know till you try) and let me know if it helpz
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv! (link)
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well i think you should try catching him like cheating on her and show her and if you cant prove he is cheating maybe he is really the one for her but then again you siad he was being mean to her maybe you should point out all of the things he calls her thta is bad then try to like make her see she deserves better than someone who is going ot hurt her ( i had this problem before with my friend )
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Hey im 13, female. I Like this kid n he likes me 2.. im pretty sure?! Well i liked him last yr n he didnt like me.. but now he does, its a lil weird i kno?! But anyways we always talk n hes really nice and everything but it seems like if i went out with him he might use me kinda, n i brought it up to him b4, but he started laughing n was like noo i wud never, i luv u, n all that stuff thats most of tha time 'fake'. So i dunno if i should give him a chance or not? Because ive been single for a while now, cuz im pretty picky and sumtimes i shudnt be that way, but this time i think i like this kid. But wen schools back in we'll be in different schools once again, n i mean i duno if its gunna last that long. I wudnt mind it being jus a summer thing. N If not we can work it out for tha school yr or sumthin. But i just dont want 2 make another mistake. Wat shud i do? (link)
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you should give him a chance everyone deserves a chance ... and dont be afraid to make mistakes ppl make mistakes too. so i think you should give it a shot
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Im female and 14...Okay i like this boy Matt. I met him in a transition to highschool summer program..so i have knwon him for a few weeks but it feels like I've known him..for forever! Hes so awesome! Hes outgoing,easy to talk to,has goals in life and cute! Its soo nice to have a best guy friend..but...I have totally fallen for him. I like him..sooo much, and I know he thinks im hot/cute/pretty w/e n i know he likes me kinda but he doesnt wwant to go out. Which i kind of understand because we only have a month n 1/2 left of summer n then school will start. So yeah..but I like him so much! Im not sure what to do. All of tha girls in tha program keep telling him we should go out bc we flirt alot n we would make a cute couple. But I'm still not sure what to do. Should i say something or...what?! Please Help!
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you should tell him how you feel ... and how he can get to know u better if he wants and that everyone deserves a chance ( they really do ) and he should give you a chance
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(im 14 by tha way)Okay three years ago i met this guy..i went crazy for him..we went out for 3 months n i found out he had played me when i was on vaca. well i dumped him..then we went out fer another month or so n broke up again..because i had found out he had tried to play me with my friend hannah! well tha year after that i irnored him completly..i couldnt stand him afta everything he put me through..well he went to a different school tha rest of tha year. then just last school u he was back..at first i wouldnt talk to him then i cracked. we went out fer a week n broke up then went out fer 2 months n broke up again. After that we had gotten in fights didnt talk fer a few weeks started to talk again got REALLY close..that just kept happening tha last 4 months of school. Well then my dream came true he asked me to go with him to our 8th grade dance. I was sooo happy n excited! well a day b4 tha dance i asked him if we were still on fer tha dance n he said "sure...but..im guna hang out n dance with other girls!" i got so mad! so i decided last minute to tell him i was going with sum friends..at that dance he came up hugged me n said u look sooo good tonight! i think he was wanting me to say aww thanks dance with me!! but instead i said yeah i know! n just kinda pushed him away...i felt so great!!! him n my bff have been on n off fer tha past year and a half. Right now she is totally crazy for him. and i know he is just going to end up hurting her again but newayz they talk on ths phone all tha time n she was on tha phone with him tha other day when i was over n he was calling me a b*itch (dont know if we can swear on this website?ol) skut hoe n stuff...i got sooo mad..then every so often he would ask my bff "did she say nething bout me yet??!" he is sucha jerk..and i know hes just doing that becausee i dont like him..but he also left me to really nasty msg's on my cell phone. i want to say sumthing but im not sure because this fall he is going to tha same highschool as me and i dont want to have any trouble! what should i do?!!?!? plz help thanx! xo0ox!! (link)
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first i would talk to him and say i am tired of the messages and i dont want to get them anymore or you can get your number on your phone changed so he wont know the number to call ... and about the name callin i know it gets on everyones nerves but if you ignore him he wont do it anymore
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I am learning to play the drums... is there anyway i could play All my life by KC and JOJO on the drums? (link)
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yes , if you try
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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he is scared you will dump him again so thats probally why he dosent want to get serious with you i feel you should talk ot him about how YOU FEEL
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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx! (link)
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well it depends on what kind of stuff he did and no your not a cheater unless you went along with it then yes you are a cheater and yes you should tell the guy you are with about this
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So right now I don't have any friends at all.I used to but all of them moved or we just grew a part.I am getting homeschooled but I want to go to high school to be able to make some friends.Well the problem is transpartation.How can I make new friends? (link)
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Tell your parents you want to go to school to make friends because you are bored at home ( i wish i was home schooled) and see if they understand ... or find kidz in your neighborhood with the same intrest who can be your friend
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong? (link)
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yes it means your a lesbian ... if thats the way you feel no it is not wrong but ... this might sound mean but in the bible it says a man must love a woman and a woman a man
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