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Ughh what ta do?!?!?!


Question Posted Monday July 12 2004, 9:15 pm

(im 14 by tha way)Okay three years ago i met this guy..i went crazy for him..we went out for 3 months n i found out he had played me when i was on vaca. well i dumped him..then we went out fer another month or so n broke up again..because i had found out he had tried to play me with my friend hannah! well tha year after that i irnored him completly..i couldnt stand him afta everything he put me through..well he went to a different school tha rest of tha year. then just last school u he was back..at first i wouldnt talk to him then i cracked. we went out fer a week n broke up then went out fer 2 months n broke up again. After that we had gotten in fights didnt talk fer a few weeks started to talk again got REALLY close..that just kept happening tha last 4 months of school. Well then my dream came true he asked me to go with him to our 8th grade dance. I was sooo happy n excited! well a day b4 tha dance i asked him if we were still on fer tha dance n he said "sure...but..im guna hang out n dance with other girls!" i got so mad! so i decided last minute to tell him i was going with sum friends..at that dance he came up hugged me n said u look sooo good tonight! i think he was wanting me to say aww thanks dance with me!! but instead i said yeah i know! n just kinda pushed him away...i felt so great!!! him n my bff have been on n off fer tha past year and a half. Right now she is totally crazy for him. and i know he is just going to end up hurting her again but newayz they talk on ths phone all tha time n she was on tha phone with him tha other day when i was over n he was calling me a b*itch (dont know if we can swear on this website?ol) skut hoe n stuff...i got sooo mad..then every so often he would ask my bff "did she say nething bout me yet??!" he is sucha jerk..and i know hes just doing that becausee i dont like him..but he also left me to really nasty msg's on my cell phone. i want to say sumthing but im not sure because this fall he is going to tha same highschool as me and i dont want to have any trouble! what should i do?!!?!? plz help thanx! xo0ox!!

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KiSsEs answered Monday July 12 2004, 11:10 pm:
On and off relationships are common between alot of people... but You need to straighten things out with him and tell him to just leave you alone and let you move on! He played you and that wasn't rite, so he got what he deserved! Well tell your freind exactly what he did to you and that it could happen to her too! ONCE a player ALWAYS a player. Let him know that you want all the nasty name calling to stop, he obvioulsy wants you to fall for him again...but you gots to be strong and show him your NOT weak!
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united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:17 pm:
first i would talk to him and say i am tired of the messages and i dont want to get them anymore or you can get your number on your phone changed so he wont know the number to call ... and about the name callin i know it gets on everyones nerves but if you ignore him he wont do it anymore

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pArIs_mArIe answered Monday July 12 2004, 9:42 pm:
This guy is obviously not over you.. he wants your attention and you did the RIGHT thing by not taking up to his player habbits.. once a player.. ALWAYS a player.. You need to straighten things out with him though, make a truce and if hes gunna be a jerk about it an talk behind your back, then just ignore him.. i know you dont wanna start trouble.. i think it is very low of him to talk to your bff and i hope she stands up for you when he talks about u.. HE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION, do not give him any reason to believe your gunna give it back (thast exactly what he wants!) Talk to him tell him you want to keep things on the same page and if he gets dumb about it, he needs to grow up and move on with his life..Hope i helped.. Highschool is the best time! Good luck
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dancinchick answered Monday July 12 2004, 9:36 pm:
Tell him 2 stop sayin stuff bout u nd 2 stop leavin messages on ur phone. ask hime y he is sayin nasty stuff bout u. Also talk 2 ur friend about this guy. ask her 2 talk 2 him nd ask him if he can stop talkin trash bout ma friend. Hope i helped

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Roxybabii922 answered Monday July 12 2004, 9:27 pm:
Tell him he should stop, if he tries to ruin your reputation just ruin his right back.. Ask him why he has to be like that and tell him that he got what he deserved...

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