Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv!
DorkyJay27 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 12:05 pm: If she is as good as friend as you say, then she'll listen to what you have to say.Set her down tell her what you think about ya'll drifting apart,and this guy...maybe come up with some ways to make it all interesting again.Oh, and true friends never go away, lol they just sometimes "drift". [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
BrittanYmARIe answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 7:41 am: Just tell her that you feel like you are drifting away from eachother and you dont wanna lose your best friend...and talk to her about school and stuff..but i know its hard..so just tell her you care bout her and you dont wanna see her get hurt again [ BrittanYmARIe's advice column | Ask BrittanYmARIe A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:38 pm: well i think you should try catching him like cheating on her and show her and if you cant prove he is cheating maybe he is really the one for her but then again you siad he was being mean to her maybe you should point out all of the things he calls her thta is bad then try to like make her see she deserves better than someone who is going ot hurt her ( i had this problem before with my friend )
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