So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?
imatreasure answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:56 am: First of all how old re ya? Ya might not be a lesbian but might be Bi Curious. Did ya ever do anything wit a girl and if ya did, what exactly happened? I dont think its wrong , just diffrent and dont go feeling bad about it. The only thing is, dont go around telling your friends just yet because alot of people get uptight about it. Do what makes you happy. Live your life for yourself not for other people.
I hope this helped. If ya want to, come back and we can talk about it more if it would make ya feel better. [ imatreasure's advice column | Ask imatreasure A Question ]
LoNeLyYxSOuL answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 5:21 pm: well i think you perfer girls over guys and theres nothing wrong with that. and dont let anyone tell you different because its your life and if dating girls makes you happy then i think you should do what makes you happy. [ LoNeLyYxSOuL's advice column | Ask LoNeLyYxSOuL A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:33 am: if you feel attracted to girls and you don't find guys attractive then the chances are you are a lesbian. personally, i don't think there's anything wrong with that althought other people might. how old are you? as you get older, sometimes people *do* find themselves attracted to members of the same sex but it doesn't mean anything. hope i helped, keep me posted, <33333333 :o) [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
ClurBur answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 10:58 am: It doesnt actually mean your lesbian, your probably just curious you'll find alot of girls go through that, its just discovering yourself! Dont make a rash decision like 'Oh yeah im a lesbian' because your feelings will change alot as you get older, so just see how you go and then you can make a decision whether you are or not! [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 12:50 am: No I dont think its wrong. You are who you are and you can't help who you think is attractive! So don't let anyone bring you down!
treesrule14 answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:59 pm: You only are if you act on your impulses acting on them is very wrong speak to your priest (or other spiritual leader) for guiadance through this problem. [ treesrule14's advice column | Ask treesrule14 A Question ]
Jane answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:18 pm: *It is totally not wrong to think something of the same sex. If you feel a physical/emotional attraction for a man and a woman you could be bisexual but if you do not feel any attraction for a man then you are homosexual or in other words lesbian.* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
Jessie1734 answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:17 pm: This might mean that your a lesbian but not exactly. You could be a bisexual or you could just like to experiment different things...
No... I don't think being gay is wrong. It's your decision and interest in what ever you want it to be. Don't think it's a bad thing... I have plenty of gay friends and they are still the same..
accolade answered Monday July 12 2004, 10:16 pm: it matters how old you are... if you're in high school, you probably are a lesbian, but if you're in middle school, then it's probably just a phase or something.
lots of people are against lesbianism. (mostly religious folks... nothing against religion, though) but unless you were born with this feeling, it was kind of your choice to be atttracted to girls. and if you don't have a problem with it, than don't let anyone tell you different. this is your life, and you only get to live it once.
so basically, homosexuality is wrong if you believe it's wrong. just be comfortable with the way you are.
~accolade~
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dancinchick answered Monday July 12 2004, 9:53 pm: U r lesbian if u r attracted 2 grls not guys but there is nutin wrong wit dat at all.
Roxybabii922 answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:48 pm: Well feelings change... You may be a "lesbian" now but who knows that might change... It's not anyones say in whether its right or wrong, you just do what makes you happy [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:47 pm: yes it means your a lesbian ... if thats the way you feel no it is not wrong but ... this might sound mean but in the bible it says a man must love a woman and a woman a man
GC_rox_my_sox answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:36 pm: If you don't like boys at all, but like girls in a romantic way, then you probably are a lesbian. I don't think it's wrong at all. It's your life, and you are allowed to like whoever you want to. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
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