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Hey, i'll give you a link to my advice collumn which has my pic on it.
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Lonely_girl
usually i don't care, but i've been having boy problems lately and i want to know if im having such problems because i'm not pretty. Please don't be mean, im not fishing for compliments, please honestly tell me what you think of me. (link)
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you need a better picture but from what i see you pretty.you should know that beauty comes from the inside.your boyfriend doesn just like your looks dont forget he likes your personality too otherwise he wouldnt be with you.if he doesnt like the way you look then he wouldnt of wanted to be your bf to start off with. if he doesnt like the way your look then hes not the guy you should be with even if you want to be with him.but you are pretty and that photo is cute azz
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I don't understand what it is that if a guy is popular all my friends go crazy about him. He can be ugly as a stump but if he is "popular" then they say he is hott. If the same guy wasn't with the in crowd for some reason then they would be making fun of him.
Why are most girls like this? More importantly if that is how girls are supposed to be why am I not like that? So can anyone give a good answer: why do girls like popular guys?
Thank you! (link)
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so you in highschool and what everyone wants is to be popular is to be cool and to be loved by all.
one of the easiest ways to do this is by dating someone who is popular and to get into the 'in'croud.by this, people loose the ability to see what is truly there because they are soo lost in the idea of getting popular and only hanging out with popular people they stop noticing the bad things about that person until they loose interest in them.
your different i think the reason why you dont like guys like that is probibly because your more mature than your other friends. you not tricked by popularity and what it holds for people. you dont care about being popular so you dont care about being selfish enough to socialise with only those people who are popular to become in the 'in' crowd
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In September my boyfrend and I had unprotected sex (i know that wasnt smart) anyways since then i hav had my period three times september, october,november. But for the past two mornings i have woken up feeling very nauseous could this be from my period or am i pregnant? (link)
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i dont see how you can be pregnant if youv had your period three time after you had sex.
maybe its not your period or pregnancy and you might be getting a bug,take a pregnancy test just to be careful.its probibly your period
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a teacher of mine in high school has been giving me numerous opportunities throughout those five years
and i want to do something very special for her.I want to be able to let her know how she impacted my life and how much i appreciate all her efforts.
she is in her mid thirties, is outgoing and fun.
she has a beautiful family of 2 kids who are 4 and 5 years old
i want to give her something personalized, but i have no idea just what to give her.
please, if you have ANY suggestions, i'm all ears.
thank you (link)
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maybe a photo album of the class?seems like shes really deticated to her job so i rekobn shed love a bunch of photos of her class.
maybe even a necklace? or a braclet that you can engrave something on the inside like,ill always remember you,or thank you forever,something like that
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my girlfriend told me that I make her feel like a part time girlfriend or shes a barbie on the shelf and when im done playing with her i put her back and th is isnt true! I have a stressful job and I work 10 hr days so on my 2 days off during the week i stay with her and i work every other weekend but on that sat i work i stay with her saturday night and the weekends im off i stay with her. she gets mad if i wanna leave at like 9pm to visit with my mom whom i still live with. how can i make her not feel like that and what am i doing wrong? (link)
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girls like attention from their boyfriends.im kinda in a relationship like that at the moment and he works all the time and when hes home he just goes to sleep because hes soo exausted.i can understand plus im not a hardout girly girl so i can take it but it does make me feel better when i get text messages from him on his lunch breaks saying sweet things to me.even txt her in another language saying how beautiful she is...like my bf just randomly txted me this.."oi te vez muti boneta" (hes learning spanish and he told me it mean "today you are beautiful"lol yes yes i did think "hang on dont you think im beautiful everyday??" but it was just really sweet. just give her attention in anyway possible not just neglect her till the weekend shell feel like shes unloved.like even go to her house and drop a rose on her car so in the morning when she drives soemwhere shell see it...little things do matter!
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my guy friend who ive dated a few times and broke up with long complicated stuff, but today he had to leave and he was like bye squid. what does that mean? lol please help=] (link)
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hahahaha thats sooo funny!squid how cute, im sure he was just saying it to make you laugh because its a funny word,its not like you look like a squid im sure he was just tryna flirt maybe next time you can call him a clown fish haha
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so i like a sophomore, i too am one as well. i am 80 percent sure he likes me but i want him to come to me. how do i do that? how do i make myself irresistable? he is usually the one to initiate contact but sometimes i do. should i just not talk to him or look at him, then he will come to me and talk? help, please. this guy is so great and i want to do this right! (link)
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the trick is to give him subtle hints but dont look so desperate. so like give him a sweet look and smile at him when he looks your way.maybe even give him abit of attention so like go up to him and talk to him,flirt alittle and treat him like hes the only guy in the room,make him feel special and even try to hang out with him more even if you initiate it first so like ask him to hang out with you or ask him if he wants to "study" with you.when you smile at him always smile from your lips as well as your eyes its got to do with chemistry.maybe even have an excuse to touch his arm.like for example ask how he is and touch his arm or even give him a hug or something like that.
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First off, I am a female and 17 years old and so are the boys I'm talking about...
Well, I was "together" with this guy, Bob for about 3 months and out of nowhere one night at a party he decided I was too much of a baby for not giving him head and he ended it, because he said I am perfect, but just not for him.. A few weeks later I began talking to one of his friends, Mike more. We had hung out before at parties and get togethers, but never really talked a lot. So, he texted me and asked to hang out and so we did and ended up hooking up and other stuff, but we didn't tell anyone. A week later we were all hanging out with all their friends and my friends and both Bob and Mike were there. Mike didn't talk to me all week, but I knew he liked me before because we hung out and he wanted to hang out again. Mike didn't sit next to me or talk to me all night. All he did was look at me and smile. I don't know why, because even after Bob left he was still acting the same. I'm not sure if it's because he doesn't want anyone finding out or if he is just not into it. I tried texting him and saying Hi but he never answered and instead told my friend to text him. I don't know what to do because I really like him. What do I do? Why isn't he talking to me anymore? (link)
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sounds like he does like you. i mean you two were smiling at eachother from accross the room so that tells you something.i think hes scared his whole group is going to disown him if they ever found out he was hooking up with his friends ex,thats usually a BIG no no in boy's cults.
he cant just ignore you like that because then that moves to using you and not talking to you again.
after all bob was the one that broke it off with you. next time you see him if you get the chance to be alone just ask him straight up and ask him what happened because hes either used you or is too scared to have you.if you dont think ull see him again then try the txting,call if you can,but i dont recomend that being your firsat option because he can have the choice of not txting back to you.
one trick to get a guy to txt you back is by saying something like "be a man and own up,stop hiding." or "i thought you were a man but i guess not" use the Man word it always works for me
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OKay, i'm 14 and the guy i like is 18. We started dating September 23 and we dated for about a month, and then i was like i honestly dont think i like him? and i really didnt think i did, i mean i wouldn't even act like his girlfriend? he got mad at me because i like wouldn't even touch him, & it was stupid. and i know i was wrong. and then like the week after i broke up with him, he came and talked to me and we had worked everything out, so we got back together.. and then then next day, he called and told me we shouldn't date, that i was wasting my time, and then like five minutes later i saw him with a girl in his truck! and it really hurt, and at this moment they're still dating, and i honestly dont know what to do. because i have finally realized that i was stupid and i really liked him but i think he likes her now, or hes just trying ot hurt my feelings or something? idunno. but what do i do? (link)
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i know that what im about to say will hurt you but i think you have to hear it. Sweety just move on you have plenty of boys out there that you can have that ARE single.dont chase a guy thats not chasing after you.dont break up a couple that are happy together.i mean i dont understand why he got back with you then less that 24hours later he breaks up with you just like that.he shouldnt be playing games like that.id saqy move on and if he really liked you then hell come back for you till now live your life because you do not need a man to make you happy!
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Me and my bf had gotten Chlamydia. We didnt know who had it first but we both got antibiotics and thought we were cool we waited 9 days to have sex again. We had unprotected a couple times after that. Then recently i found out i had it again. He hasn't got tested again yet. I'm wondering how did i get it again? When we both only been with each other? I took a different antibiotic this time but we had protected sex only a day after i got antibiotics. So could i have reinfected myself again? Even if we used condoms and had no oral sex? (link)
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im not a doctor but i herd it takes two weeks for an infection to completely die off. maybe he still had it and transmitted it back to you.i would wait for both of you to finish your antibiotics before having sex.if you really need to, have protected sex (but i can read that you know that already) and you should both go and get restested just incase the antibiotics that the doc gave you wasnt enough to make the infection go away.
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soooo I dont know what wrong with me but whenever I make out with my new boyfriend Im not turned on!!!that annoys me alot.Like I come ALOTTTT in my underwear but I dont feel like Im horny i dont know why!thats annoying because I really want to feel like Im horny when he kisses and touches me.So far we havent had sex but he sucks and touches my nipples all the time and he touches my...with his penis but I dont FEEL horny!!!:(:(.He even ate me out but NoThInG!!!:(
what do I have to do???is it because I dont have enough feelings for him??we've been dating for a month now..is it too soon to have strong feelings for someone??I really really care for him and i love spending quality time with him and I dont want to break up with him because hes so perfect ans he likes me alot..
PLEASE HELP!!!i really dont know what to do!!im desperate!! (link)
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nothing is wrong with your body.hes probibly not doing what he needs to do to turn you on...you know like some girls like guys being all soft and touyching them softly and some girls like to be treated roughly like pushed against the wall and having him kissing you hardly and touching you forcfully...i mean try different things like begin with doing the first steps first like push him against the wall or treat him abit roughly then hell do the same to you.it might not work but then again it could. i think its just trying different things to find what really turns you on,theres nothing wrong with you!
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ok im 16 and a female
on saturday i had a ATV (motorbike) accident i ran straight into a tree and smashed the front end of my parents quad with my neighbour on the back now i feel useless and pathetic i had stitches in my nose and i still have 6 in my leg and i cant walk so im on crutches and i keep getting the impression that their absoloutly pissed about me not being able to help out even though i mostly still do my chores and i think their pised about the quad but they keep saying it doesnt matter that im lucky and they arent mad at all.. are they mad or what im so confused andi dont know what to think...Please help...
-sleepiesheep- (link)
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well maybe theyr not mad maybe theyr alittle disapointed.either way if you have a feeling they are then do something special for them when you get the chance.like cool them a really special meal or bug them flowers or something just to make up for it
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I'm 18, and a girl and I'm always tired. It doesn't matter if I go to bed at 8 and wake up late, I'm always tired and falling asleep. I've asked the doctor before, and he thinks it was my diet. I eat good now, and it seems worse. Is there something I could take or something? I'm miserable! (link)
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go to your doctor and ask for a full blood test to test everything like your blood count, iron, cholestrol, liver and kidney function etc. tell him its gotten worse
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something is wrong with me i am secreting like clear fluids out of my vagina and my nipples are sensitive, my boyfriend said that my nipples are bigger. but i ended my period of this month so i don't know please help me./ (link)
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im not a doctor but sounds like you maybe pregnant.first signs of pregance is colour change of nipples as well as becoming sensitive. id take a pregnancy test
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I'm a journalism student trying to figure out what to write about. I've had writer's block for the past week and I need to produce something timely, possibly something to do with the holidays?? Or any interesting news. any ideas would be appriciated!! thankyou, -Jess (link)
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mmmm maybe you can write about holidays and how they make you spend more.
or how theres more crime when the holidays are on
or the real reason behind holidays because with uni students once we get a holiday we usually tend to go from study mode to work mode so is this really a holiday?
hope this helps
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I have 2 questions to ask you.
1.) I have 2 ulcers on the inside of my upper lip. My bf told me that they came out because of kissing, is it true that if you frenchkiss you can have ulcers? (he doesn't have ulcers in his mouth, so they couldn't be spread from his mouth).
2.) Yesterday my bf fingered me for the first time. He was with the clothes on and he didn't touch his penis, so he couldn't have sperm on his fingers right? His nails were a bit long and he hurt me and also he didn't wash his hands before!!
Next time i'll tell him to cut his nails and wash his hands. What do you think? He only did it once! (link)
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1)ulcers are soo freakn annoying!they usually apear if youv bit the inside of your lip and then played with it with your tongue then it will get infected and become an ulcer.thats the main reason for an ulcer to appear.if you put salt on the ulcers it will help it heal but might sting.there is also something called bonjella that you can buy that works a charm for ulcers.
2) yeah he wouldnt have sperm on his fingers and even if he did its most likely the sperm would of died before it got near you. yes he really should cut his nails because he could hurt you from inside.
hope this helps
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i'm in so much pain i don't know what to do.i just finished an anxiety disorder cause and for the first time in ages i felt like there was help.now i just feel myself going back to my lost self.i don't have any jobs or friends, and i don't have a reason to live.i've just got SO many problems.i just feel like giving up.
i'm sick of feeling this way, and i'm sick of feeling so crazy.i don't know if theres any hope for me.
some times i wonder if i'm a pedophile 2. i would NEVER act on these feelings, but their there all the same.i can't trust myself.
i have a partner i've been with for almost 5 years. i don't want to be with him but i feel trapped.i feel like hitting him soimetimes- he just dosn't get the message I DONT WQANT TO BE WITH HIM the relationships fucking killing me. but i've got noone else. (link)
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ok did you write this the same day you and your partner got into and arguement?sounds like your verrry angry at him.
1st step to do is get out of the relationship, hes holding you down and making you misrable. so i suggest move out and loose any contact with him then hell get the message. tell him its over and pack up.
get a new job, move somewhere where you know no one and can start fresh becqause to me it sounds like your in an environment thats holding you down making you feel misrable and depressed so now what you need to do is get yourself out of that environment and into a new, and better one
if you say you would never act on your feelings then your not actually a pedophile. once youve acted on hose feelings then you are one, until now stop making yourself believe you are because sweety your not, your just not thinking right, your not feeling right either so that can affect youyr thoughts
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19/female
urrrgh i'm in a bad bad situation :(
i've been at my current work for about a year now. me and this girl carissa who i work with got really close. she just turned 23. well she's always been trying to hook me up with her brother whose 20. he's not cute at all. not my type. we're into different things. she wont stop talking about him though and one day he came into our work and then later carissa told me that he asked who i was because he thought i was hot and wanted to talk to me and so on. well she wont quit on us 3 hanging out. i'm not that outgoing when i first meet people- especially a guy who i know thinks i'm hot. that just makes it more awkward. well i worked with her today and she was like lets all go shopping or to dinner. next tuesday is taco tuesday- lets plan on going then? and i was like uhm okay, i dont think i have anything going on. i feel really bad. she was like unless you and my brother just want to hangout but that might be awkward the first time. i'm thining HELLLO not interested in your brother like that. i can't tell her that though, i feel so rude. i'm a nice person so i'm trying to just go with the flow but i absolutely do NOT want to go to dinner with her and her brother next week. its going to be so dang awkward. and i cant just keep making up lies either on why i wouldnt be able to go. what do i do? she was like and even if you two don't hit it off you can still be friends. and yes that would be cool or whatever, but i don't even want to try to be in a relationship with him. he's just not my type, i know that. i'm stuck .. (link)
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wow dont you just hate that!well to be honest i wouldnt tell her that your not interested in her brother i would probibly tell the brother himself once you get a chance or even when you guys go out just show no interest in him.its not like youv been going out or anything so if you tell him from the start then hell understand but if you tell the sister shell get all ofended then tell the brother some over exaggerated story and then theyll both be angry at you.but if you tell the bro first and make him understand then hell talk to the sister and tell her not to fuss
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{A little lengthy but not a novel}
Okay so I have this friend who is a real pain in the butt! I know that has got to sound horrible but its the truth and I just don't know how to deal with it!
I am a sophmore and we have been friends since the begging of eighth grade.
She doesn't come from the best home life, parents were drop outs who got knocked up. She is a bit over weight.
She is nice, to me, and she is one of friends, we share locker together and everything.
What gets me though is she loves to make fun of others, especially people who are "bigger" then she is or who have disabilities. I hate that she feels so insecure and self consouse about herself she has to pick on others, but what should i say?
In first block she will even talk bad about someone who is siting next to me and I know they hear, and they think i am stuck up.
She also makes up stuff all the time to try to get attention. For example she'll say she didn't eat for 2 days and lost 20 lbs, and yet two seconds later she claims she went to McDonalds those same days! HELp
how do i deal with this without ditching her? She is my friend and i feel sorry for her, but i don't want to be pictured as the stuck up girl who talks about others with her. ANd I can't go one more day venting to my dog about all her lies.
WHEN WILL IT END. (link)
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oh man shes reallly mean thats one thing i would hate about someone is if they made fun of those ppl who can help the way they are.
next time she does soemthing like that do not encourage the situation by laughing of smiling or anything like that just look at here then look away shell then feel bad about what shes done. the next step is after shes done laughing be calm and just be like hey (name of the girl) thats not very nice. be like i dont mean to hurt you (watever her name is) but the things you say about people really hurt me and i dont feel comfortable with you saying those things. please dont be angry at me i just dont like it.then say...not everyone is perfect and we all hhave our flaws, ,me, you everyone not just them and it just makes it alot harder when people notice them and make fun of those flaws so please if your my friend youll stop, for me?
i mean either way she might get angry because as youv said she likes to be centre of attention so if she doesnt have it her way then shell get angry.just be calm about the situation and pull a sad puppy face too that helps
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So I'm dating this guy and when we're kissing he always tries to put way too much tongue in my mouth! I've tried to "teach" him by taking the lead, and he'll kinda follow and do what i do for a little bit..but then he'll go back to what he was doing before. I have also tried to like..put my tongue up to block him or something to show I dont like it, but I dont think he gets the hint. What can I do? (preferably not having to say it outright, but if i have to, whats the best way to do it?)
Also, do you have any different kissing ideas/maneuvers? When I try something a little different he seems to copy that rather than just french kissing with his whole tongue in my mouth. (link)
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lol beeen there!well what id do is stop kissing and give him a hug its another way of giving him the hint that you dont like it and after you do that a few times he should get the hint.you could do that or you could stop give him a kiss on the cheek or do both kiss on the cheek then hug him.
if you dont want to use tongue, because i myself hate frech kissing, you can give him little soft kisses or long hard kisses like pressing your lips really hard against his or like do tha playful lip action like while your kissing him you can suck on his bottom lip or softly bite his lip or lick his lip etc
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