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motorbike accident
ok im 16 and a female
on saturday i had a ATV (motorbike) accident i ran straight into a tree and smashed the front end of my parents quad with my neighbour on the back now i feel useless and pathetic i had stitches in my nose and i still have 6 in my leg and i cant walk so im on crutches and i keep getting the impression that their absoloutly pissed about me not being able to help out even though i mostly still do my chores and i think their pised about the quad but they keep saying it doesnt matter that im lucky and they arent mad at all.. are they mad or what im so confused andi dont know what to think...Please help...
-sleepiesheep-
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As a member of a fire department Rescue Squad I can tell you that you and your friend are lucky to be alive.
Your parents are probably feeling a great deal of emotions. They are probably trying to get over the fear they had when they were called about the accident; the fear that your neighbor may sue them for their injuries. They are probably upset that you took the ATV out, possibly without their permission; their relief that your injuries are not serious.
As a 16 year old you may have a part-time job; if so you could offer to help pay for the repairs. If the ATV had some type of Insurance coverage you could offer to reimburse your parents the deductable they have to pay toward the repairs or replacement. This would be the adult thing to do. If you have not already done so an apology would probably go along way as well.
I have only one other suggestion for you before you get back on an ATV. That is that you take a safe operators course. If you do not know where one is offered ask the dealership you purchased it from, or any dealership that sells ATV’s for that matter, as they should know where the course is offered. One other thing always wear a safety helmet when riding an ATV.
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well maybe theyr not mad maybe theyr alittle disapointed.either way if you have a feeling they are then do something special for them when you get the chance.like cool them a really special meal or bug them flowers or something just to make up for it
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