Question Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 2:14 am
I don't understand what it is that if a guy is popular all my friends go crazy about him. He can be ugly as a stump but if he is "popular" then they say he is hott. If the same guy wasn't with the in crowd for some reason then they would be making fun of him.
Why are most girls like this? More importantly if that is how girls are supposed to be why am I not like that? So can anyone give a good answer: why do girls like popular guys?
littlemee answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 1:36 pm: most girls like them because if you're going out with a popular you become a popular, and others just like them because they have bad taste -or the guy might actually have a nice personality. the reason you - i didn't either - don't like them is because you aren't that sad. you obviously don't care about popularity which is a very good thing. also tell your friends to get a grip - thats just what i would say! =] x [ littlemee's advice column | Ask littlemee A Question ]
sia answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 4:14 am: so you in highschool and what everyone wants is to be popular is to be cool and to be loved by all.
one of the easiest ways to do this is by dating someone who is popular and to get into the 'in'croud.by this, people loose the ability to see what is truly there because they are soo lost in the idea of getting popular and only hanging out with popular people they stop noticing the bad things about that person until they loose interest in them.
your different i think the reason why you dont like guys like that is probibly because your more mature than your other friends. you not tricked by popularity and what it holds for people. you dont care about being popular so you dont care about being selfish enough to socialise with only those people who are popular to become in the 'in' crowd [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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