what does it mean when your boyfriend acuses you of having sex with other g
Question Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 2:29 am
what does it mean when your boyfriend acuses you of having sex with other guys?
I haven't had sex with other guys! I just gave a few handjobs and some head but I am only going to have sex with my boyfriend. What is he so mad about? Oh i did have anal with a guy but i was at a party and a little drunk. I am still a virgin so what is my boyfriend upset over??!? I have had anal with him and head and handjobs just like all the other guys i have been with but i am saving my virginity for him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sobeg answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 2:46 pm: It all depends. did all of this happend recently or did this happened before you ever met your boyfriend? Also I dont mean to offend you but you are NOT a virgin...not analy and not orally you have had sex you might call it somethig else but you have performed SEXual acts you have done Oral Sex, Anal Sex and have given manual sex. You may not have had Vaginal Sex but if any guy went down on you or tasted you or fingered you...you have also received oral and manual sex. No offense but you havent even saved your virginity to him im not talking vaginal sex am talking about the sex you have had and like i said if you did all of this before you met him then he really needs you to leave him before you hurt him and he hurts you, this relationship is not going to end well if you did all of these actions while knowing him. being drunk is no reason to say it was ok. Sooner or later you are going to get very wet down there and you will have to decide to let someone penetrate you with a penis and then what will you have to say?...I know im going to get burned on this so in advance i will say this Im sorry for not saying something you wanted to hear. I really hope this helps in anyway [ sobeg's advice column | Ask sobeg A Question ]
Corez3r0 answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 4:19 am: Well I assume he entered into the relationship with the assumption that you were a "complete virgin". Its nothing to really worry about, I think the average man would be pretty jealous. Theres really nothing to worry about with that since theres no way you can change it. The past is the past. Anyway, you should just confront him and tell him you feel. Express your dislike for his current behaviour and explain that theres no way you can take back those things.
Anyway, on a later note.. I can understand his suspicions; and bare with me on this one.. Its not often that a vaginal virgin, (with an intact hymen) decides to try anal sex. I might find it hard to believe myself.
When you and he are ready to take the giant leap (vaginal penetration), there will be no accusations left to dispute.. When you're ready for it, your blood will reveal you as having told the truth. Good luck. [ Corez3r0's advice column | Ask Corez3r0 A Question ]
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