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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks (link)
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that calendar thing is an awesome idea!! that's so adorable! but for a scrapbook.. you just make a book.. put the pic in there.. write what the occasion was and memories of it, and decorate it nicely. that's basically it. i hope that helped u!
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Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
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i thought that about my ex-boyfriend. i went out with him for about 11 months.. we broke up in february, and i just got over him in july. it just takes time.. you gotta go out and look for someone else! and if he was nice and sweet, he wouldn't of done that to you.. i thought that about mine.. but he cheated on me with my best friend.. and he was always stoned. just go back out there and find someone else! i hope it all works out for you! if u need to talk, im me. shad 0 w x5.. hope ive helped :o)
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hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do? (link)
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yea.. that's high school babe. some schools are worse than others. mine would be one of the worst.. as with yours. you gotta toughen up. if people talk behind your back, or say something to you. be like "well you know what.. maybe u should ask me before you assume.." or "thanks for making me the center of your world"... something that'll make them mad. just defend yourself.. just don't get in trouble or anything.. good luck!
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Last January I told my best friend that I had made out with someone before. It wasnt true-at the TIME I thought I had made out with somebody, but then I asked my older sister and it turns out what I thought it was wasnt, and I hadnt made out with him, just kissed. I was so embaressed (I had told 2 friends and 2 guys it was a small get-together) I haven't told any of them it wasnt true. But my friends are still persisting to know who it was. I dont want to say I lied to them because thats embarressing, but its hard to keep this up cause I'm a bad liar! My best friend said she wasnt sure if she even believed me! I dont want to be like 'in 8th grade i didnt even know what making out was' not to mention the fact ive kept this up forever but its getting out of control! HELP! (link)
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mmkay.. i know this situation sucks but you have two options.. 1. you tell them exactly what your saying right now. you thought it was making out, but you were mistakened. if they laugh at you, then they are crappy friends, and they should understand.. or 2. you can find a guy and make out with them! and then you won't have to worry about lying to them. i'd suggest the first option though. good luck and i hope i helped :o)
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I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help (link)
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aright.. if this guy was a good boyfriend, he wouldn't leave you bc u don't want to have sex. my boyfriend was like that at first too. and i'm like you.. 15 and a virgin (and proud).. just tell him that you're not comfortable with that yet, and your afraid of the consequences that you'll get from having sex.. just talk to him seriously like he did for you. hope that helped :o)
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i have a play comming up an i'm scared.what should i do to get over my fear on the stage (link)
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ahh stage fright.. i get like that when i'm singing. there's no pressure on u so don't worry about it! don't let it show that your nervous, because then everyone will know! you just gotta pretend nobody is there.. act like your acting in the mirror.. i hope i helped !
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Hey guys!I don't really know how to explain this but I'll try!Ok..there's this guy that I like and I want to get to know him more and just have a real conversation instead of a few words once in a while..well it happens like everyday.I'm kinda shy so I don't know what to do to start a conversation!I know that kinda sounds stupid but I'm asking it anyway..thanks! (link)
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just go for it ! go up to him n ask him about homework.. or just go "hey whats up".. n if it goes well.. call him n talk to him or something! just go for it ! if you look stupid, just laugh it off! that's what i always do! lol. good luck and hope this helped :o)
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You see, the guys at my school are pretty hot but they have really bad personalities and that is why i do not wanna ask anyone of them out. And next year, i'm going 2 an all girls school so i wont meet any guys. I cant go 2 dances cus i 4got 2 turn in my permission slip and besides, my parents wont let me. And i also cannot meet anyone new on the internet. So how do i meet any new hot guys 2 go out with? (link)
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Go to the local places around town.. movies, mall, wherever! i'm sure ur bound to meet a good guy somewhere! :o) hope i've helped!
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ok I have this ex, and he has like 4 personalities, because one minuite he's really nice, next he's really horrible. So anyway I went out with him, it felt so good, but then he changed and started not to care then he was nice to me again, then he started calling me names and I really hate it. On thursday he said he's sick of all the argueing, but yesterday he started calling me a hoe, and a slag and like I don't know why,please help me I'm confused. (link)
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ha, my boyfriends like this. just tell him to *f* off.. he's a jerk, and he didn't deserve you. you don't deserve an asshole! if he starts to threaten you or anything.. you gotta do somethin' about it, bc i was threatened by a guy that he'd write sh!t in my yard like hoe n skank n stuff liek that! if u need more help - shad 0 w x5 is my aim sn.. hope ive helped :o)
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my boyfriend is my best friend. we were together for 4 months in the past and now weve been together for 3 months. we have so much fun together, when were not fighting. but were always fighting it seems. he says bad things about himself or how he doesnt think we will ever be fully open with eachother, even though were both trying to be. He gets jealous really easily and he thinks hes just another guy to me.... and hes not and I have told him that soooo many times. I dont know what to do but I want all the fighting to stop. Please help.... thanks! (link)
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me and my guy are the same way.. we fight non-stop about stuff like this, and we've been together for a lil over 4 months. tell him that ya'll gotta be honest with eachother. if your not gonna be honest, then there's no good point in dating eachother? hope that helped :o)
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my friend likes a guy that likes me and i don't like him. she will gladly step aside so that i can have him but i don't want him. he's perfect for HER. now she's saying she sucks because no one likes her and she's not pretty etc. but she IS pretty!! she is so awesome. what do i do to hint to the guy that my FRIEND is for him, not me? moreover, i want to remain friends with my friend. (link)
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just go out and tell him that you don't like him.. but mention how your friend is intrested.. the most important part is that you're not interested him.. try to get the two to hang out more.. usually it'll help! hope ive helped :o)
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
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there's not much u could really do.. you're just gonna have to be patient. i know it sucks but it's just a matter of time! last year i don't know what i was.. i was like.. a 36a? and i was ur age.. and now i'm a freshman in high school and i'm a 38b.. it's just a matter of time! good luck! :o)
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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
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i thought like that before i started using tampons.. i wore pads for 3 years before i wore tampons.. believe me! they make life a lot more easier! the first time it hurt me because i wasn't used to it.. after the first few times, you'll get used to it! if u need more help.. im me on aim.. shad 0 w x5.. hope that helps you! and good luck!
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hi im 14/f/ma im in 9th grade.... i have been cutting myself sine 8th grade.... and for a while i stopped for two months..... but i can anymore.... i do it often now and its becoming hard to hide it... and im just to the point where i dont care anymore.... and im sick of people telling me i do it for attention like they know or something... i do it becuase it hurts... because when im doing it thats all im focusing on is that it hurts and not the reasons why im doing it... i guess the reason i am is becuase i dont like myself very much i cant look at myself in the mirror anymore without seeing a buncha stuff wrong with me... my parents fight a lott too.... im just sick of this all and i really just wanna fall asleep at night and never wake up.... i dont know what to do anymore... someone please help me (link)
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i think you need to go to counseling.. my old best friend was just like that.. shes in counseling n shes doing great n she doesn't cut anymore! it's pry worth a shot! good luck :o)
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At the school dance the other night, i danced with one of my good friends who i found out liked me..and he's going to ask me out. I like him a lot as a friend and i think that I would like to give dating him a shot. Trouble is, my best friend really likes him. He doesn't like her in that way, and my best friend is a great friend to me and everybody else...now people are telling me that i shouldn't have danced with him because it was a mean thing to do to my best friend.What do i do about this whole situation? (link)
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i know you are willing to give it a try.. but it would kill your best friend. my best friend did that to me and i was crushed. i wouldn't take the risk.. im sure u don't wanna lose a best friend! :o) hope that helped!
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What do you do if you think someone is really annoying and she is at your house all the time..she thinks that i am her friend but im not..what should i do? (link)
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tell her that you need ur space and you have other friends.. and that u don't have to hang out w /her all the time :o) hope that helps
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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
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ur absourbency (sp) is prolly off... just buy a lower type.. or a different type of tampon! :o)
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I need help taking care of people. I am a tough chick but need to learn how to be more tougher, and to tell people off. So if anyone can help me here please answer. Thanks.
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mmmkay.. i'm not quite sure what you mean by that.. are people making fun of you or getting in your business? if they are.. tell them to *f* off.. it's not their business and they need to get a life. you just gotta have a lil confidence.. and u can't let anyones crap bring you down! hope that helps you :o)
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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much
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i think that is too young. i wish my school was like yours.. i might be the only virgin in my freshman class! just think of the consequences you'll have when u have sex and don't protect yourself. you could get a sexually transmitted disease or even pregnant. i don't think any girl that young is ready for that! you're lucky to live in such a great town. hope that helped ya! :o)
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Well I have this best friend thats a guy who has had this girl friend for 9 moths and now he wants to b me wit me but i dont know wether or not if its for sex or not. But at the same time he's still wit his gf and he wants to break up wit her but doesnt know how and he always says hes goin to but he never does. So I dont know what I should do and any advice would b soo great. Thanxs~Lauren (link)
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mmkay.. if hes in it for sex.. then leave him alone. any guy that's like that is no good! if he wants to break it to his girlfriend, he can't be a prick about it.. just tell her that it's been too long and your too young for long relationships. if he doesn't do it soon.. then leave him alone, because it sounds like he's gonna lead you on.. and it sucks! hope ive helped :o)
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