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Sometimes you'll have bad and good days but someitmes there will be a mixture, but as you grow up you'll have some unforgetable memories that will always be with you... The friendships you make come and go, but as you look at all the flash backs there's always something about eachone you can't forget... You'll move on in life, parents will seperate and you'll feel pain the you didnt know even existed... You'll leave old friends and make new, leave ur house you lived in yer childhood and become something you didnt imagine, but now that you can see what its like, just remember nothing last's FOREVER-- thank you for listening to me!


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One more question. What is the best way to heal a broken nose??? (link)
you cant really heal it.. it heals its self.. haha!! i broke my nose once... my dad told me to try to do a front flip into the pool (cuz i can do it on land and on the trampoline) and i pulled my knees up and i hit my nose on my knee while i was in the air.. and i broke it.. gave myself a huuugeee bloody nose.. haha.. it was sooo embarrassing!!


Brad: BETSY im talking about kaliey
Brad: hahahahah ok i dont.. okay i wont...
Me: ohh sry ...blonde remember ?! lol
Brad: obviously
Me: i get confused easily
Brad: AH HUH

Would this be considered flirting or not?? Can you tell by this conversation or not?? And if not flirting how can i flirt??
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Um.. looks just like a friendly convo to me... uhh.. besides.. u cant really tell its like 6 lines rong and barly full sentences...sry.. its real hard to understand it too


My parents gots divorced 2 years ago but they don't hate eachother or anything. Both of them are dating. My mom has been with this guy for about 6 months and my dad is kind of courting some lady. They were just talking of the phone and my mom called and asked for my dad so I told him she was on the phone. He said tell her I'll call her later. I told my mom he was busy and she said, 'no he just doesn't want to talk to me, thats alright' It makes me feel uneasy when they have a fight or disagreement. Any ideos on what it could be about? (link)
man.. that really sucks =( im sooo sry... try talking to them about how you feel.. or whne your mom calls.. go into another room.. and start opening up to her how you feel.. =( it could make a good difference.. i really hope.. everything works out okay


What do you technically need to do you get abs?? (im a girl) (link)
Well.. try goin to a gym.. and u have to loose the fat in order to see them =)


okay so last year a new gurl came to our school so being the nice person i am..lol.. i started to get to knoe her she look nice and she had good taste in clothes and was very pretty. so i got to knoe her. with in the first week of school she already had a bf. i was a lil jealous but not too much cuz last year ppl would call me a playa so i thought that in a matter of time i would get a bf sooner or later. so i didn't think much of it but twords the middle of the year i became sick o her cuz i would always get her leftover boy friends! i was getting soo mad but then i heard the breaking news thats she was moving. i was sad but deep down inside i was kinda hapy that i would have my spot back in the school but now i hear shes not moving. wut do i do? i knoe im jealouse but how can i make these feelings go away! i really do luv her and i really am always there for her but i just feel so bad when i think this kinda stuff! please help me asap! cuz the new yeaar is comin up and i wanna b ready
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Hey shes your best friend.. boys shouldnt come in the way! besides who wants to be a player?


When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:

*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true? (link)
idk.. i dont really get it in my underwear...


I'm really into writing Dark Poems, REALLY dark poems. But the weird thing is, I'm a REALLY happy person who leads a good life with a loving family and lots of friends. o.o; I don't have any depression or anything and I'm not going through Teen Angst. Is something wrong with me? o___O; (link)
Nope! i feel the same way sometimes! i find it really cool, on how other ppl could/can feel! its also a good way for it not to happen.. and if it does you can always look on your poems and see how u feel in the writing! =)


Well..I wanna ask someone to the movies and go on a triple date wit my two friends. Problem is..they are both pretty and im not so pretty..im afraid my date will end up flirting with them or concentrating on them. I know that my friends would never like my otential date..and im confident he`ll say yes when i ask him to come with us..is there anything i can do to build up my confidence and get the idea out of my head that my date will flirt with my friends or that he`ll think "wow they r hot..wish my date was prettier"
thanks (link)
Well, if he does, then hes a jerk =) just go for it!! i'm sure he wouldnt do that!!! i usually think the same thing.. but i get over it when we all meet up! =) because you gotta remember who has the best personality? who is more fun to be around? ;) dont worry bout it soo much =) it'll be fun! =)


I just started giving advice TODAY. And already I've given like tons of advice! Am I addicted? Lol! xDD (link)
No =) you just have a good heart


hey well @ my "BEST FRIENDS" house thers alot of drama with me and this one gurl bc her bf likes me so the gurl hates me!! shes HUGE and threatens to beat my ass if she sees me around ther nemore...my best friend was scared and told me not to come over anymore bc this gurl can fight and would prolly hurt me alot....so i was scared....and so my best friend is even intiminated by this gurl..so the gurl tells my best friend to call me and ask me tocome over so she kan beat tha shit outta me!! so my friend told me to make ^ an excuse that i cant come over...wel my best friend has been not talking to me or anything lately....on aol she doesnt IM me or nothin...but she kalls all the time n will b like O HEY WHEN R U COMING OVER?? but i no the drill and say o no im grounded!! i cant come over!! and shes like ooo ok bye!! she kalls bc the gurl tells her to call....but shes been doin it alot lately im feeling so down about this bc she only calls me for that reason..she doesnt ever wanna talk or nothing....everyone has been saying how she has changed lately...wat shoul.d i do? do i just let her go? or do i try to keep our friendship? (link)
Keep! your friendship! go over next time and bring a bigger guy!! intimdate her bak and tell her you DONT want her bf! and there is NO such feelin for him!! you need to tell her that and be the bigger person and dont fight her! she maybe big but hell! yer bigger inside then she is!!


i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do? (link)
Well.. talk to your ex.. and ask him if he feels nething still.. if he doesnt.. and if he says.. yes like a lot of the old feelings.. then go back with him.. but.. if u really like this other guy as much as your ex.. then maybe he will be just as good.. or even better.. but if not then ehh hes trash =) if your ex respects that you two are goin out then he is one GREAT guy!! and you need to probably give him another chance agian later on =) cuz thats one thing u need in a guy, respect and understanding.. whoops* thats two things.. try communication... or foolin around wit the other guy.. kissing.. flirting.. you kno the works ;) who has the best qualitys? whos a better kisser? whos hotter? who makes u smile 24/7? who would u rather be around? who do yer parents like more? think about it.. follow your


Ok...so i'm really popular and everyone thinks i'm hott and i really want a boyfriend...but none of the guys give me the time of day...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! PLZ HELP! (link)
Hmm... invite a lot of guys/girls to a party! and just flirt A LOT and sit on guys laps and stuff.. basically the one you have your eye on (hottest and the one that is single) just have fun =) maybe being wit someone isnt everything in the world! =)


i am currently addicted to crack, marijuana, coke, and X. I have been caught only once, and for marijuana. however im getting very worried about some things goin on with some dealers, i need to get out of it all. any one know how? who should i talk to about it? (link)
Your parents... im sorry! but you really need to talk to them.. get a counciler.. go into rehab for like weekends... and after school =) i heard you can actually meet some really nice cool ppl to hang out with! =) i also heard a lot of pretty girls and hot guys go there too ;) so.. i hope EVERYTHING works out for you! Just try to get help =)


ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing

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Well.. tell him how you feel!! dont bottle it up it could hurt ya both =( and if he breaks up wit her.. ask her.. or tell her if its alright if ya'll go at it.. be respectful so u dont get called a hoe.. or a man stealer! i hope everything works out for all three of you!


i'm 16 and a girl. i have never had a boyfriend and i'm tired of it. it's not like i can't get one i have boys ask me out and stuff it's just that i always say no. then they get mad at me and don't speak to me. i like them and stuff it's just that i always say no. wat should i do. (link)
say yes? go for it.. what you got to loose?


i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female ) (link)
naw your not obsessed your just in love.. dont go out wit him.. it could hurt your relationship (being best friends and all).. it hurt mine wit one of the guys.. maybe thats how he feels? just be friends wit bennifits ;) that always works!!


What is soo cool about Internet Dating? I mean, what if you dating like a Lesbo that SAYS their a boy but y'know...and what if you're like 11 and the person you're dating is like 43? o_O; Yeah, I just needed to ask what was soo cool about it. -.-;

What I think: If you online date, you're too ugly to get anything in real life. xD (link)
Hey! i've dated someone online before.. for like.. a week.. lol we both got webcams! so.. if ya'll get webcams i think its all cool =) cuz then i wouldnt trust ppl wit out them or wit pics and crap =)


okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

i rate good (link)
Just go up to her.. you dont have to like look at her.. pretend or actually be doing something and talk to her.. she'll be cool wit it cuz ya'll are really tight! =) i hope it works!!


good and cheap makeup....what kind of brands? (link)
NYC (new york color) very!! cheap!! you can get it basically ne where!! Walmart! Eckerd! try nething! hope i helped...!! the make up lasts all day too!!! you can go on the website 2!! www.newyorkcolor.com!


My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH! (link)
tell him how you feel.. and maybe he will understand.. and if he keeps doin it after it happens... maybe hes startin to like his ex again or the other girl.. so.. go on a break dont break up .. but see what happens from there.. just follow your heart




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