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if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or not?
ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing
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It is pretty hard to choose. I have been through this.......god, I lost count. LoL. If I were you, I would wiat and see what happens. Talk to her about it. See what her opinion is. It may not seem like it will help, but if you sit her down and talk to her, it might. It is way better than just doing it....I hope I helped. Tell me how it goes! :)
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Hi. i understnad wut you mean...it hurts alot. have you talked to your friend about how you notice her like whoever you like? i kno it's tough since you guys are friends and everything if he really likes you i'm sure he can wait a while when he breaks up with her and then ask you out. so it hurts less yah kno? like just be like you kno after you break up with her can you wait a while or so before we go out because if you truely like me you can wait for little. and since she's my friend too i dont want her to hate me and get really really hurt. ohh yeah and the part tah she ignores her friends is not a good think...i mean i kno if you have a bf you should always stay froends with you gals because you always have ur friends but guys come and go. if you need anything else mail me im me inbox okay? Take Care..I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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Well after he breaks up with your friend, I would ask your friend if she would mind if you went out with him and if she says that she does care and doesnt want you to go out with him then you should tell him that she is your best friend and you dont want to do that to her but maybe once she is over him then you will...Hope I Helped*Haleigh Ann*
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ok i say u should go out with him i mean she doesnt really sound like a f friend if she never hangs out with you.U kno wut i mean?i was once in this positon b4 and i had to make a desision shoot i dotn kno how to spell tht lol sorry,but when i did i went out with the guy and i still had a friendship with my friend but it just took sum tyme to rebuild it where we were b4 this guy came into our lives.i hope my advice helped and thanks for asking me this question sweethart.<333 carmen
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Ok, this is definetly a sticky situation! You just have to weigh How important your friend is, compared to a boy! Now the boy, to me, doesnt seem like someoone you should be intrested in! He is already going behind his g/fs back for u, and who is to say IF you got with him he wouldnt do the SAME thing with another girl ya know... Iwould say that you shouldnt go out with him, because that would break your friends heart even more! Even though she hasnt been around lately maybe give her a second chance...its up to you because i dont know how much you value yours and this girls friendship, but if its important to you at all, i wouldnt go out with him because it could ruin you two! Good luck sweetie! And im sure youll make the right choice! xoxo
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Nah it wasn't confusing and it wasn't too long, I've had longer ones before and way confusing ones before HAH! But aaaaaanyways back to your question now. Well, this is a touch situation to be in. But, you two aren't really friends anymore and she did know that you liked him also. So, I wouldn't really see the big deal. BUT! Don't just go for him right away, because then he'll think he has you like "whooped" or something. You know how boys can be dumb sometimes lol. But, if I was you, I would talk to him first and just be like "Why are you going out with her if you are going to break up with her for me? I mean would you do that to another girl if me and you were going out? Because I really dont want to get hurt. But, I wont be like her and tell you, you can't hang out with other girls or anything." Just say something like that to him and see how he responses. But, I would wait maybe like a week to go out with him or something (if things turns out good). Hope this helps and if you still need help or just want to talk about it, just post a message in my inbox, I'll be glad to help you out!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well.. tell him how you feel!! dont bottle it up it could hurt ya both =( and if he breaks up wit her.. ask her.. or tell her if its alright if ya'll go at it.. be respectful so u dont get called a hoe.. or a man stealer! i hope everything works out for all three of you! <3
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