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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
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ok welll i really need some help. ok well i did something really bad and its not like me to do it.. ok i stole my friends cell.. at school.. and i lied and told them i didnt steal it.. and then i got caught bc my bff called her mom on it and i didnt think theyd track the number.. but yeah i got caught and now im suspended.. and the girl told everybody about what i did.. and now the whole school knows aboout it, and like everybody is mad at me..and i have like not many friends.. blahhh i just need some tips on what to do.. please help me =( thanks..
Start with saying your sorry. Explain why you did it and hope she forgives you. Make sure to point out that you'll make it up to her if she gives you a second chance, and she won't regret forgiving you. Promise to do better. After things are cleared with you and your friend, some people will probably start to follow in her footsteps. Hope this helps.
-cindy
well at my school there's going to be a dance. i have a dress already but not shoes. but anywayz i'm not sure if i should go. i mean like, i'm afraid it's going to be wack. and i KNOW no one is going to ask me, but should i go?
note- a semiformal i'm 13yrs.old and in eight grade
Yes, you should. Go out and have some fun. And if you don't get asked go with friends and you'll have an hell of a time. Dance your ass off and make the dance worth going too. If you need help picking shoes, you know where to find me. Hope this helps and have fun.
-cindy
what turns a guy on or makes them think your hot?...in a non slutty way. How can you get a guy to want you easily?
true experts needed!
One word. CONFIDENCE. There's nothing more that turns a guy on. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Ok so im 15 and i have this friend and she is amazing and we r great friends and she has a bf that she rarely sees or talks to..several times ive asked her to simply hang out and like watch a movie or play pool..and she says no cuz she has a bf..ive talked to 10 other girls including my 19 year old sister and every 1 sed that is really messed up...what should i do?
Talk to her about it. If she's your friend, she'll listen to you. Let her know how you feel and make sure she knows you have no intention of trying to ruin things with her boyfriend, you just want to hang out as friends. Hope this helps.
-cindy
hey everyone! :]
Im 14 years old and i wiegh 117 pounds : /
im not really fat but i have HUGE love handles how do i get rid of them and how long do u think it will take.
Ill rate 5's for anything!
thanks
If you want to loose weight, I would suggest some type of cardio. You could try running, dancing, or swimming. Also, if there is a sport you particularly like, play it. There's no reason you can't have fun while loosing wieght. Make sure you also eat healthy, and your love handles will be gone in no time. Hope this helps.
-cindy
you told me to add more healthy foods to my diet, but the thing is if i see unhealthy foods at my home, i'll eat them most likely. what else can i do?
I'm exactly the same way. My mom keeps so much unhealthy food in my house, we just have cabinets of cheetos, and chips, and pretzels, and cookies. It's absolutely ridiculous. Let's just say its VERY hard to keep a diet. However, thats where will power and self disipline comes in. I know its hard to keep away, but if you try I know you can do it. Also, you can ask your mom to stop buying the unhealthy foods, that way you won't be tempted to eat them. If other people in your house eat those foods, ask your mom to buy you healthier choices that would appeal to you more than those sweets. Then you'll have something healthier to satisfy your craving. Hope this helps.
-cindy
what are some ways that I can get better at eating healthy.
13 female. I'm not fat also.
If you want to start eating healthier, add lots of fruits and veggies into your diet. Minamize your sweet (cookies, brownies, ice cream ect.) and fat (butter, margerine, cream cheese, salad dressing ect.) intake. You also want to take in about four onces of protein a day (an once equals about the size of your palm) and about 7-8 carbohydrates. Instead of pigging out on fatty carbs, choose good carbs, like whole products. For example, if your going to have a sandwhich, have it on whole wheat bread instead of white. Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok well as you kno summers almost here and by maybe about the middle of the summer i wanna get a new 2 piece swim sute but i have to lose a little weght first.
what do i do? do i exercize go on a diet starve myself???and if you tell me to go on a diet or to exercise tell me how please.
thx in advance.
If you want to loose weight, my best advice is to take up cardio. You should try running, swimming, and dancing. If there's a sport you especially like, play it as much as you can. That way your having fun. If you want to tone muscle, lift weights and do some crunches on a stability ball. Now for the eating part, DON'T STARVE YOURSELF. Not only will you gain the weight back after, you'll ruin your metabolism and it is extrememly unhealthy for your body. Just eat healthy, which means lots of fruits and veggies, and less sweets and fats. Hope this helps.
-cindy
My period hasnt come yet. (I did not have sex) It was supposed to happen 2 weeks ago, and Im not sure if thats a natural thing to skip every once in a while, or if its a real problem. Is it abnormal or normal?
I'm pretty sure your fine. Periods aren't perfect, sometimes there irregular and there's nothing you can do about it. However if your period becomes extremely irregular, talk to a doctor and they can probably put you on birth control or something to control the hormones. Other than that you have nothing to worry about. Hope this helps.
-cindy
im really scared. i get my period regularly every month. exact time, exact day. i got it today a lot. you know when you start and it spots a bit?? no not at all. it was flowing really heavy & idk what it is. i have SOME cramps, barely anything. i'm scared because i don't know what it could be. you have to understand that my period is so regular. i'm 10 days early. any ideas??
thanks!!
You definately don't have anything to worry about. Periods aren't perfect, so they won't always come at the same exact time. Other girls can screw up your periods as well. If you've been spending a lot of time with someone, her hormones could be rubbing off on you. (I think its called phermones or something). For example, when people go to camp, usually their whole cabin will have their period at the same time, despite when there regular scheduale usually is. Therefore, you shouldn't worry. Hope this helps.
-cindy
This might sound a little conceited but I'm really not.
I've always gotten complements from guys, girls, family, and friends about my looks and them telling me that I'm pretty/hot/gorgeous/cute/etc.
And well, it seems like most guys just want to go out with me because of my looks. I'm going on a date with this guy I like this Friday and today I was talking to him when he said "I'm really excited about this weekend you're so hot and I finally have a chance with you"
That just kind of got me upset because what if my past dates/boyfriends only dated me because of looks?
Is it weird that sometimes I wish that I didn't look the way I do?
It's definately okay to wish you looked differently. Be happy, your pretty. I understand you want more than that too, which is good. It shows you care about more than just a pretty face. When you go out with guys, just make sure your personality shines through, and if you see them using you as just an object to show off, like some sort of model, they're not worth your time. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Ok so I have this splash party thing at the end of the year its on june 5th. But I get my period on the 2nd day of every month and lasts about a week. What should I do? I dont use tampons yet so how could I ever swim? What will I tell people if they don't see me swimming? Please help!
Try and use tampons. Trust me, they are the greatest invention ever made and they make life so much easier. If that still doesn't work, your period stops in the water, so you can still go swimming. Just make sure when you leave the water you put a pad on ASAP so you don't leak. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I have a new boyfriend. But I got hurt before so I don't let myself get too close to anyone. I have a fear I may check out other guys / think of kissing them or something. I feel really bad. I don't want that to happen and he doesn't ever want me to leave him. But a few minutes ago I had a dream of kissing an old crush and stuff, does that mean I like him? Or is my mind fooling around with me? :(
Thinking about other boys, even kissing them is natural, don't worry. As long as you aren't thinking about that certain person all the time, I think your fine. As for the dream, your mind's just fooling with you. After all you can't control your dreams and your just thinking about your past. No harm there, don't worry. Hope this helps.
-cindy
There is this end of the year graudation dance on June 9th. A lot of people have dates, and I really want one. Can you think of anyway that I could get a date? I talk to guys and stuff. But how do I put myself out there and show them that I wanna go with someone?
I will rate all 5s!
Thanks In Advance.
Being dateless is never fun, especially if you want a date. Do you think any one is cute? Do you like anyone? Ask one of them. Pick the lucky guy and go for it!! And if that doesn't work out, you could always go with friends, dance like crazyyy, and have a kick ass time. Hope this helps.
-cindy
well i really need help...
one night i was babysitting and i brought a friend cuz we had to do a project. Then i brought her back and we were all hanging out...
now she helps me watch them and one of them wants her only to babysit and the other wants just me or both...
I really need help on how to make the oldest one like me again...
i dont even know what i did!
PLEASE HELP
love heartbroken
Next time don't bring your friend with you to sit. Make sure you have a lot of fun with the kids, especially the oldest one. Let him/her stay up a little later or bring treats such as cookies. A little bribing always works. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I dont want to loose a lot, just like 5 or 6 LBs. anyone have any good tips on how to loose a few pounds fast?? tell me please!
Cardio is always the best way to get in shape and loose weight. I suggest running, swimming, or dancing. Good luck and hope this helps.
-cindy