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suspended, not many friends =(


Question Posted Tuesday May 16 2006, 9:07 pm

ok welll i really need some help. ok well i did something really bad and its not like me to do it.. ok i stole my friends cell.. at school.. and i lied and told them i didnt steal it.. and then i got caught bc my bff called her mom on it and i didnt think theyd track the number.. but yeah i got caught and now im suspended.. and the girl told everybody about what i did.. and now the whole school knows aboout it, and like everybody is mad at me..and i have like not many friends.. blahhh i just need some tips on what to do.. please help me =( thanks..

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CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 9:23 pm:
Start with saying your sorry. Explain why you did it and hope she forgives you. Make sure to point out that you'll make it up to her if she gives you a second chance, and she won't regret forgiving you. Promise to do better. After things are cleared with you and your friend, some people will probably start to follow in her footsteps. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3

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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 5:52 pm:
just apologize to the friend and want she start to be your friend again then everyone will follow. (hope it works) it should

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TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 12:03 am:
You probably won't ever get a clean slate with everyone in school, but you have to make things right.

For one thing, if you already havn't, you need to apologize to your friend about taking her cell phone. She may not accept your apology, but what's really important is that you say you're sorry and be able to feel good that you've said it. Don't expect to be her friend or for her to accept your apology either.

As for everything else, you have to accept what other people think about you, and if you don't like that they think that you are a theif or anything else, then change those bad things about you and make it right. And also remember that the next time you steal something, you hurt and damage people around you. People who steal don't realize how much money gets spent on certain objects that they steal.

But I'm glad that you got caught because you probably would have never confessed to it if you weren't caught, and that's a really stupid and harsh thing to do, especially to a friend.

-TheTeenGirl

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Devina answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 9:40 pm:
I'm sorry honey... But there is nothing you can do about it... I mean, you did it, you have to accept everything from what you've done. Every thing you do will cost you something... And punishment too... Just accept them... because that's what you'll always get... I'm terribly sorry... Just stay cool and you'll get through this... Try to make it up by doing something nice or apologize... I hope it's gonna work. Don't be sad, everyone is punished when they've done something wrong... It's not you only...
I hope I've helped. Hope you're gonna feel better... Wish you the best luck. Don't worry, everything will be alright...

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