about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Hey Teza... Okay i have this boyfriend that i love so much and everything.our relationship USED to be like soo wow and everything.. well right now it just seems like hes not even wanting to go out with me anymore. Its scarey..:( Its kinda like hes given up on me and him and i don't know i've just been really upset latley about it. I mean he never calls me anymore like he used to and hes not even that sweet like before. I talk to him about it and hes like Oh but thats all he has to say about it .. I don't know what to do teza.. ! I really am scared i'm gonna loose him && i don't want that to happen.. Please help.

X0 ME

:( Aw, I'm sorry. Look, I'm not trying to be mean or anything but when guys do that it means they loose interest in you. He may not, but you never know. There isn't much you can do since you already tried talking to him. If he says oh, he probablly doesn't care enough to try and fix things. This is all me being honest and I know how it is. I've went throught it for a week or 2. I don't know what else to tell you, so do whatever you think might be the right thing.

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on tuesday me and my bf were foolin around and he ended up giving em a hickey..normally its okay but this time its like really dark and noticeable..its one the side of my neck and kinda towards the back..like right under my ear and back like a cm.well i been wearing me hair down since so you cant see it at all. but if my hairs not down its veryy and i mean VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust em they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

Hickeys are normal & I don't think your squad would be like OH MY GOSH, EWW! Anyways, have you tried covering it up with make-up?? Like foundation, concealor or anything else? If that doesn't work, then try putting ice on it. If nothing works, then you can't make it go away. It will fade on its own. You can just say it's a bruze because that's how they look. Just say you hit your neck or something. Cover it up first. It should work. Sorry I didn't help much. ♥

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Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger?

Eyeliner and mascara work like magic !

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Hi. Lately i've seen people THAT i personally became fond of on here (as friends) that quit the site. I know that they have been busy. But i'm just scared that no one will become coloumists and eventually quit this site! I really like this site and i can't help but feel soo..bad, if this site just goes down. How will i know for sure that this site will NOT go down? And what can i do to keep it up? :) I will do anything to keep this site up. I LOVE IT!! (not to sound like a kiss-up!) :) Thank you.

This site won't shut down!! Do you know how many columnists we have??? Tons!!! So many people join a day, and just because a few quit doesn't mean few won't join. I ♥ this site as much as you, but don't worry. It will be up for a looong time.

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What's the difference between the original Xbox model and the new Xbox 360?

The XBox 360 has better graphics, you can listen to music, wireless controler. It's just better. My brother won it and he was so excited. I don't know why people love it so much.

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this may sound stupid but...how do u rephrase "PMS" like if u were to tell a guy its PMS... w.o wanting to say its PMS..and scaring the crap outta him? hah thanks

Just say you're in a bad mood. Most guys know that all girl's PMS so it's nothing they will be freaked out about.

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Im making a list for my boyfriend for christmas..


100 reasons why i love you

can you help me get a few?

I don't know why you love him but I know what I would say to the one I love.

-You make me happy.
-You're the most amazing person I've been with.
-You care about me.
-You don't try to hurt me.
-I love being with you.
-The thought of loosing you makes me love you even more.

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seriously!
this one annyoying guy who likes me..
keeps talking to this other guy i like!
its my life!
hes never going to have me.
hes a idiot.
iv'e been telling him to not talk to the other guy.
and he wont stop!
I HATE HIM!
and i already said yes to going to winter formal with him.
and OMG.
13female by the way.
PLEASE HELP ME.
how am i going to break up the date with the idiot.
and how am i going to let the other guy no im single and like him.
i seriously rate 5s.
i promise!
even if your advice sucks.
kthanks.

Wow, he would piss me off !!! If you seemed annoyed, he won't stop. Telling him to quit, he simply won't because he knows he can do whatever he wants. Just tell him you don't want to go to the winter formal with him. If he's mad, it's his fault and don't feel bad about it. Talk to the guy you like and just tell him to ignore the other guy. If you both ignore him, he will leave you alone. Just tell him to fuck off and get a life. ♥

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okay i realy love my boyfriend but..... i'm wanting a little bit of freedom. We have broken up about 4 or 5 times and the last time me and him were broken up i couldn't live without him. So were goin back out.But i also like this other boy and he likes me a whole lot and were like really close. And i promised him last year that me and him will go out but we haven't yet cuz i wana stay with my boyfriend. But something doesn't feel right about this. I go to buerkle and you know me... JUST PLEASE HELP ! i don't know what to do !

X0 CONFUSED ONE

Aww, I'm not sure who this is but I want to know. 4 or 5 times is a lot, but it's normal. If you're wanting freedom, have it. You should do whatever makes you happy and if this is what you want, you need to do it. :) If you really like this other guy, give him a chance. I mean you liked him for that long?? Wow, that's amazing! If you always feel like you need a break from your current boyfriend and that you guys fight and break up a lot, maybe it's really not meant to be. Have you thought about this other guy if you guys went out? Will you be happier, will you talk more and hang out more? When you said something doesn't feel right about this, I think what would be the best thing for you is to move on. I mean do what will make you happier. Maybe you could even start to love this other guy and be happier? If you give it a chance, it will feel right. Now, if you go back to your boyfriend.. then that might be rude because it might seem like you're going back and forth. That's just my opinion, you eather want to finish it of for GOOD, and start something better, or take chances. Good luck with everything. ♥

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Heyy everyone!

It's Lauren again. I just thought of one thing I want. Books. I love to read. I love books about real life situations. Does anyone know any good books (and authors too!) about teenagers (male or female) dealing with relashionships or teenagers dealing with being raped/sexually harrassed?

Thanks Again!
-Lauren =)

Chicken Soup, Tough Stuff. It's my favorite one! It's really awesome. Any of the Gossip Girl books are good. My other favorite would be Go Ask Alice. It's her diary and she just goes through a lot of stuff. She starts doing drugs, sex. ♥

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what are some stores that sell clothing that everyone wears? (list preferred)I rate high!

- Forever 21
- Charolette Russe
- American Eagle
- Hollister
- Abercrombie & Fitch
- Guess
- Rave?
- Wetseal
- Pacsun
- Chanel ( most people wear it since it's really expensive. )

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hey !! well on aim how can you make it long you no where people check your pro n stuff cuz like when i do it it wont let me barley put anithing i cant put my advice culm and stuff like that and i saw your profile on aim and its long so0o cna you help me and tell me ways i can make it long so it wont say that its too long and stuff like that !!

If you have a lot of colors and links it won't let you. I just typed some stuff and it was plain so that's why it let me. Have less colors and it should work.

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so my boyfreind and i have been together for about 3 months now. he is a very strong christain and i dont think believes in doing anything before marriage. but i feel like we should be doing a little more than just makeing out. so what are some things we can do that arnt too sexual but are still a little more intamate than just kissing. thanks sooo much

If he doesn't want to do anything before marrige, respect that. There isn't much you can do. Just cuddle, touch each other. It's not all that sexual but if he doesn't want to do it, don't make him.

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So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do?

When you are in love, you don't want anyone but that guy. Also, you would be sure. Since you're young, you should expirience more things and date other guys and see what is out there. If you feel like you truely love this guy, stay with him. There is nothing wrong with wanting to do and want other guys. If it's meant to be, you will end up together no matter how.

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i asked u a question about my bf and how he doesnt call ....and u said we should maybe consider takeing a break.. we already did for a month ... we met 2 years ago in the summer and he was my first love .. we went out for 4 months and then this guy got in between us and messed us up but later we seen each other again and we would still have the same feelings for each other.. but now that were going out again i dont feel like he likes me as much as he did before.. but he always says he loves me and when i talk to his little sister she would be like my brother told me you guys are gonna get married =] .. sry this is longg but i really need some advice .. people tell me that hes "THE ONE"and if he is then i dotn want to loose him ..

Wow.. 2 years !!! I never made it over 6 months. :/ Anyways, just because you guys don't talk as much, doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. He might be busy, tired, lazy, problems.. you never know. Talk to him and ask him what's up. Tell him you guys don't talk as much and you really wish you did. How old are you though? At younger age, you never know who you will end up with for the rest of your life. You guys seem to be really into each other and care about one another a lot. I think if everything works out and you guys talk and spend more time together, he might be the one. :) Good luck with everything!!!

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DEAR BEAUTYSCH00L-DR0P0UTx3,

So ive had a boyfriend for a long time. I love him a lot and he loves me but i also want to go a little farther than what we are already at. im only 15 but i think im ready. Do i tell him to do it with me or should i not or what should i do? im so confused.

Signed,
TR0UBLED-L0VE

If you feel like you are ready, talk to him about this. It's the best way to find out if he want's too and if he is ready. Just let him know you are ready to move on to the next step. Make sure you are 100% ready and that you will not have any regrets.

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

I think it's a unusual idea and I would never imagine someone thinking about that. I'm not saying it's a bad idea, but I mean, no one will see it because they will be in you and what's the point of them glowing in the dark if they are in your body? Keep thinking about new ideas though.

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do guys know when a girl is there first kiss?

*K

They don't. Even if the girl is completly bad at it, they won't be able to tell unless she tells them. ♥

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hey, is there any way of applying eye make-up that make the eyes look:

1.more oval
2.less droopy and more upward slating \ /
3.wider apart
4.longer in length / [] \

also could the way you shape your eyebrows affect this and if so please can i have some tips.
thanks a lot
luv rach xxx

Eyeliner, dark eyeshadow ( smokey eyes ) and mascara work the best for eyes!

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what does it mean to be a "loose girl" ?

It's when a girl's vagina is loose.

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