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ok i love to write poams and quotes do you know any good websites where i can write them down and read others ... ive already tried firehotquotes and i found most of it is just quotes ive heard before and them poams didnt really make sence
any help would be great
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I don't no, but do u have any quotes about hugs. I know this sounds crazy but if u do let me no... thanks... i'll try and find a website for you in the meantime


I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out! (link)
I think that he is just shy to tell you how he really feels... if he is joking than move on... but if ur pretty sure he's not ask your friend if you can see a different movie with her and than go out with this guy... i would take a risk and ask him out.


ok so i have this s.s. project and we have to be certain ppl and i am stuck w/ Vasco da Gama! I don't need to wear like an over the top costume just sumthin that shows a little bit of who he was. i know this is the gayest question but plz help!
I need help on what i should wear!
plus the kid i like is in this class
plz help me
thank you so much!
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I don't really no but... u can paint a white beard on your face or make it... and u can wear one of those sailing caps and bring in a compass and telescope... i dunno


What do you do when a person wants to hang out with you all the time? thanks (link)
A) talk to them
B) Hang out with different people
C) Go with the flow
D) tell her you need some space
E) Ignore her (i don't think this would be the right desicion though)


I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do? (link)
I think yyou should let her no ur still hurt.. if you don't want to bring it up than you can either:
a) go with the flow
b) Stop being her friend
c) ignore her and that will make her ask you why you are ignoring her and than just say that your still hurt about everything.

If i were you i would take a brake from being her friend because if she were my friend i would be pissed every minute of the day.


Well I got jelous of my boyfriend getting these girls numbers and he said it was stupid and that hes never got jelous and its a sign of low self esteem. So we got into a fight I was like so what if I was jelous its not like you would matter or care if I was. He thought i said he did'nt matter. I have tried telling him that I meant it for something else but he won't bother he's like its over its nothing. What do I do? I still really wanna be with him. (link)
This probably isn't the answer you want to hear... but...
if i were you... i would leave him be... get over him and find someone else... your boyfriend shouldn't be getting other numbers from girls... and he shouldn't deny how your feeling about that.. so move on.


Okay, a while back I liked this guy named Max. I talked to him, found out he was a jerk, and tried to move on. I couldn't! I still like him to this day even though he barely knows I'm alive! I want to like other guys and forget about him, but I just can't! The other day I found out he liked this really dumb girl who is so plain and boring! He told me the other day what type of girls he likes and from what he said...it sounded so much like me it was scary! I told him the type of guys I like and he was all "Kool, sounds pretty much like me"...did I mention hes conceded too! I'm worrying about the dumb girl saying yes 2 him and I'd be all depressed n stuff! WHY DO I EVEN STILL LIKE HIM?! Okay, Im done! Plllleeeeasssse help me!

~ Can't get him outta my head ~ (link)
WEll... you can't help who you like... tell him before it's too late... otherwise you will be depressed... and from what you said... i think that you should go out with him because your his type and he's your type so its a perfect match... if he says no don't be depressed because he isn't worth it.


If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn? (link)
Italian


I'm fourteen and I hang around in a group of five girls. Let's call them Sam, Lisa, Hannah and Natalie. Individually, they're all fine, but when we're in a group then Sam, Lisa and Hannah turn totally bitchy to Natalie and I.
Natalie agrees with me about this but she won't stop hanging around with them as she's scared of what they'd do.
I'm not strong enough to leave my group of friends completely and although I have told other people about this, none seem to offer useful advice.
I'm finding myself being jealous of everyone else because they have better friends than I do.
Please help.
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You shouldn't be jealous of everyone... if those people are being bithcy than talk to them... and if your scared than ur never gonna solve this... face your fears. Ditch them if worst come to worst.


I didnt add this in my other friends one{table and my best friend and ya..} OK so ya we were best friends for 5 years..in the past she has talked about me with her boyfriend about how I am soo fat and all this over mean stuff..I just ignored it and got on with life..SO now this year she isnt going out with anyone and she is still bitchy to me! all of these fights we have had in the past I just ignore and move on..was that the right thing to do>? and now I think she found a new best friend or at least blew me off and i can tell that she is pissed at me and i didnt do anything!! that is the thign that pisses me off! well I have nothign more to say otherwise it will get really confusing!

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You should of told her how u felt the first time around? She is obviously not a good friend to have. I would say talk to her about everything you've ever felt and if she denies it then find a new friend to hang out with who will be much nicer to you. MAybe there is a reason why you are pissing her off but you just don't know it... ask her.


My aqquaintance *Ashton used to be my best guy friend, we would talk to each other on the phone till 1:30. Sometimes for 1 or 2 hours. He started getting cocky and we starting distancing from each other. One day I just decided "THAT's ENOUGH!" Finally I got the guts to confront him. Except I didn't do it in such a nice way. "Yah your pissing me off. Excuse me but your being a cocky son of a bi*ch. and we are all getting effing tired of it. so give up your not hot sh*t like you think you are." OKay that was real rude of me but I mean't everything I said. I don't want to forgive him because I really want to let him know I mean what I say. Though it sucks because I sort of miss his friendship. HELP ME PLEASE!! IM me if you feel like it; pinkishmango24

P.S. I am in desperate need of advice.

* - Different name, this is satefy of embarassment of either of us. (link)
Talk to him... tell him that you were wrong for being so bitchy to him but thats how you really feel. Work it out and ask how he feels... then ask if you guys can be friends


I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else? (link)
Trust him, and if he blows you off this time then its not worth it... even though u've given him 2 chances... it can't hurt for another... then if he doesn't show up... ask him about it and get rid of him asap


Ok.. well me and my ex broke up about i say a month ago b.c of some rumors going around and so he said that we should break up for a lil bit to let it all pass by then try back again... and its been lke a month now, and I still love,care, and feel for him alot. i try to talk to him about it but i guess u could say hes not the type to express his ways but he did say he felt the same way, but i want to get back with him so bad.. I miss him so much and hes my first love... i guess what im askin is how do i tell him what im tellin you? he means alot to me and idk what to do... (link)
Ask him if it is the right time to try back again like he said you guys should... If he means a lot to you, you should have no trouble telling him. I know these kind of situations are nerve wreking but you have to stay strong and tell him because you'll regret it later in life that you didn't ask him


Omg, im stressing out seriously. Okay, well my boyfriend just broke up with me, my mom is always flipping out on me now, my best friend is mad at me for cutting. and nothing left of happiness is left in me. I dont know what i should i do. I just need help seriously. So please can someone help me?! Thanks so much. -- Colleen (link)
Everyone goes through a point in life where they feel like the whole world is against you... but things get better. Try and enjoy yourself and talk to someone... your boyfriend obviously isn't worth it so don't sweat it and get over him. First you have to think of why your moms flipping out on you... i don't no what your moms flipping out about but i think she is just looking out for you so you become a good person. Just think of the task at hand and maybe you can talk to your best friend about y ur cutting.


hey i have a problem well not really i wanna know how should i tell my ex b/f that i still love him lol i know this sounds crazy but its true!!! if anyone can help me thanx p.s i rate good!!!!! (link)
The only way to solve this problem is to just tell him. But sometimes if things didn't work out the first time around it wasn't meant to be. THe day you tell him wear your favorite outfit and look good... don't try too hard


hi...i'm a 16/f and i like a guy in my grade.. we always chat and hang out together but i never tell him that i like him. he has a traumatic experience in love,his exgf that he used to love with his whole heart dumped him and since then he wasn't able to accept any girls. we are like best friends since he really believes in me and he tells me all his problems that he won't tell others.i've tried to give him a few hints b4 and it ends up like he doesn't understand it.. recently,our schoolmates start to make some rumours that me and him are couple. when i asked his opinion bout it he jus smiled and say he dun mind.whenever i need him he will always be there for me.he always act like my bf but he din actually tell me b4 that he likes me.is there anymore hints that i could give him or should i just ask him straight to the point?? please give me some advice... (link)
For some reason... i am thinking that you two are just really good friends because ur always there for eachother... but now that you said he doesn't mind rumors that you and him are a couple then i would think he does have feelings for you... maybe you made him feel uncomfortable when you were dropping hints... One day just day to him i'm really sry about ur ex and all, and i know your probably having a hard time accepting girls, but i really like you and i won't break your heart like she did.


ill be flriting well start laughting then like the laugh will be over and theyll be and akward slince i always say this is akward i need somthing else to say
lost n life
13 female (link)
hmmm... just say anything that pops into your head... try and impress the guy or just say sooo anything new happen to you today? sumtimes i tell them my secrets cauz theres nothing interesting to say


ok 13/f i have a boyfriend but im falling for some one else who is very nice to me and hes soooooo sweEt * but i dont know what to do ? should i end our relationship and go for the other guy ? is that slutty or stupid ?
thankz ! (link)
follow your heart.. i had the same exact problem... and i dumped my boyfriend for this other kid who is a total hottie and the sweetest guy around, i listened to my heart and now i am soo happy. I didn't care if people thought i was slutty or stupid because i was happy and i was with who i wanted to be with. hope i helped


I just broke up with my boy friend and I feel miserable. I feel as if the world i going to end. I thought he was the one you knkow? But he did the same thing to me just like the others. No relationship has gone good for me. Every one was a jerk and used me, or just wanted to sleep with me. I don't think that I can get over this and feel as if the only way to stop the pain i to go in eternal sleep six feet under. Please someone help. And don't tell me to get over it b/c I've tried that to many and I'm afraid that's not going to work in this case. Please will someone HELP???!!!!! (link)
Try enjoying yourself and hanging out with friends. Take a break from dating and then you'll eventually find the man of your dreams who will treat you great. Its not worth worrying over a bunch of guys who used u... don't worry, things will get better


i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again? (link)
Talk to her about it... if she doesn't want to listen then leave it be. If she was a true friend she'd be happy for you. Encourage her and tell her that she's a great actress or whatever it is. But don't quit the part becuase this is a chance for you to shine




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