Question Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 11:01 am
I'm fourteen and I hang around in a group of five girls. Let's call them Sam, Lisa, Hannah and Natalie. Individually, they're all fine, but when we're in a group then Sam, Lisa and Hannah turn totally bitchy to Natalie and I.
Natalie agrees with me about this but she won't stop hanging around with them as she's scared of what they'd do.
I'm not strong enough to leave my group of friends completely and although I have told other people about this, none seem to offer useful advice.
I'm finding myself being jealous of everyone else because they have better friends than I do.
Please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? p0is0nivy answered Sunday January 30 2005, 1:52 pm: ok.. so lissin you have got to stick up for your self ..dont be dependant on them if they reallyy are that bitchy go have got to leave this group totally... if they try humilieating you and natalie then actr as if u havent heard a thing be cool dont blow watevar you do.give them the "talk to the hand cuz the face aint lissining" attitude....eventually they will give up....
and about natalie talk to her and tell her its not rite to just stand their bitchiness tell her that she has a choice she jus has to stand sum humiliation and after that she never has to stand the bitchiness ever again .....
ask her which is bettter standing bitchinessfor like a life time or standing humiliation for a short perriod and be free from the bitchiness FOREVER??...........
and dont be jealouse its better having ONE good friend rather than having a thousand BITCHY freinds.....hope i cud help [ p0is0nivy's advice column | Ask p0is0nivy A Question ]
madcathat answered Saturday January 29 2005, 4:22 pm: get to know them and be nice to them , eventually they will return your respect if you make them think you are better than them or if you become one of there really good best friends , vhey it worked for me [ madcathat's advice column | Ask madcathat A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday January 29 2005, 12:32 pm: You shouldn't be jealous of everyone... if those people are being bithcy than talk to them... and if your scared than ur never gonna solve this... face your fears. Ditch them if worst come to worst. [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
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