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best friend...
ok I have/had a best friend for over 5 years all of a sudden when 8th grade cam she started to ignore me! well not exactly ignore but like she found a different best friend adn that person follows her around like a little dog! ok well this past week my "best friend" and the other person started to sit at another table and there was no room for the other girl to sit there so she sat with us. I asked her [in a calm voice] how come you guys didnt sit with us this week? and then she started SCREAMING at me and was like OK it was only a week get over it!!! Idk why you guys are soo pissed about it! and I said that we werent and then I said "when I sat with other people you guys got mad at me" and she said..SO THIS IS DIFFERENT! and stormed off and went to where my best friend was sitting. I asked someone later in the day who they were sitting with if they are mad at us(the table) and she said that my best friend said that we are all "joined at the hip, and she hated all of us in general"?!?!? and ya..I have been crying for the past 2 hours and I dont know what to say to my best friend becase I dont want her to hate me...
srry this was long and kind of complicated...
I will rate high if you help me!
*Andie*
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Sorry about your friend and i think that you should just leave her to be alone w/ her other friends for a while, I mean that you should hang w/ your other friends for a while and just give her time to chill and get over it. Try to avoid her for a week and then try again to be friends w/ her. If there are anymore rumors floating around about her saying bad stuff about you, then ask if they are true. If this continues, then sry but i think that u should just end the friendship because I don't want you to put yourself in this situation over and over again and i'm sure u don't want it either. (I don't want you to put yourself in the situation because no one wants that to happen and I have learned from my own mistake which was similar to yours )
Good luck and best of wishes
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IF she really was your best friend then she wouldnt hate you. She is acting like a bitch(sorry ^^;) But it is quite natural for a person to find another best friend whom she likes more than her former one but still she shouldnt act like this and say that she hates you. It seems as if she doesnt want to be really freinds with you anymore and is deliberately backbiting about you and your other friends, or she mgihtve become jealous of one of your other friends who you hang out with and started to ignore you cuz she was hurt. It could be for many other reasons too. DOnt talk about it to her new best freind as he might blow up like before. Talk about it with your BFF. Call her or meet her alone somewhere and ask her calmly why is she avoiding you. Express your feelings about the last week to her. Ask her if she still wants to be friends with or not. If she acts wierd or if she acts in a way which shows that she doesnt then you gotta move on and find new friends. You cant do anything about it. You will be hurt butin this way you might meet better new people and make freinds with them. :) Hope I helped :)
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maybe your friend wants time to herself my friends do that to me all the time but it doesn't they hate you hope this is good advice hoped i helped
Good Luck
~jennifer~
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well maybe your friends just need a little time for herself and someother ppl i no i got like that but i still love my bestfriend like a friend and she does bck at me but sometimes when your always together you just need a time to hang in a different crowd till you feel like your just yourself again and not that your all sharing a life so dont worry it will most likely be okay
kati marie
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