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Well I got jelous of my boyfriend getting these girls numbers and he said it was stupid and that hes never got jelous and its a sign of low self esteem. So we got into a fight I was like so what if I was jelous its not like you would matter or care if I was. He thought i said he did'nt matter. I have tried telling him that I meant it for something else but he won't bother he's like its over its nothing. What do I do? I still really wanna be with him.
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apologize and tell him that he's such a great guy how can you not be insecure..add in some "i'm just a casual girl and you're the perfect guy and i just don't want to lose you to some stupid girl" BUT admit it was wrong for you to get jealous like that. and then tell him you still want to be with him and that you're willing to wait until he's ok. dont be like all moody and always crying and seriously depressed or w/e at school. it's just retareded and makes him think you just want attention or want his sympathy. eventually he'll come around.
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Well I would personally just drop the subject and not bother with it and not bring it up. If he is says its over its nothing. He might have gotten hurt saying that you dont care about him. Thats what i got when i read it. You just got to show ways of you caring for him. Make him a card. I love you card or im sorry card. Something. Anything. But just dont bring it up all the time-trix
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This is kind of a hard question. If this is a relationship that was strong with love, than he shouldnt be getting others phone numbers. Maybe he was finished with the relationship and it was his way of getting it to end. Maybe he knew that you would get upset about it. Maybe he wnated to brake it off with you and just did not want to be the bad guy. So he did that knowing it would upset you so it would result in a big fight and you guys would brake up. I dont really know but thats what it seems like to me. Its seems like it just turned around to be your fault. I would just move on, there is somone special for everyone out there. Goodluck hun
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just tell him .. that your his girlfriend n if he goes and gets these girls numbers ur gunna be jealous i mean if my boyfriend did that when i was there actually even if i wasnt i would be mad jealous n tell him yeah dont tell me about you getitng their numbers or i just would tell him i was getting jealous soo just tell him it is a natural thing and tell him what you meant to say be like i never meant to make you feel like you didnt matter i was trying to say you didnt care n it didnt matter..
hope i helped hun..
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This probably isn't the answer you want to hear... but...
if i were you... i would leave him be... get over him and find someone else... your boyfriend shouldn't be getting other numbers from girls... and he shouldn't deny how your feeling about that.. so move on.
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I've been there and done that in a relationship. I loved the guy I really did but I was still jealous. I get the vibe that you'd like to call him all yours. And that is way understandable. You'll never solve anything if you two can't talk about this because it can be solved. Get him to put himself in the situation of you talking to all these guys. Would he be jealous? I'm sure he would be. They say you if your in love there is no jealousy but this isn't true. That's part of love. Staying true. I don't think he would hurt you, and I think he just wants to have his friends that are girls, but it's not fair to you. You need to get him to realize how you feel about this. Let him know that you respect that he has his friends that are girls, but your his girlfriend and he needs to respect that. Just calmly dicuss this and see if he is willing to still talk to his girl friends every once in a while but respect that you're his girlfriend. If he can't understand then he's a jackass anyways and must not want a girlfriend that bad. That's what happened with, the guy was a jackass. If it doesn't work out, don't be too bummed. You'll find better if he can't understand. Good luck and get back at me if you need anything else. <3
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Eww, obviously he is a jackass. He is a jerk what the fuck was he thinking getting girls telephone numbers? I think you should talk to him face to face not on the phone!
♥ Michelle
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