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hey! thanks for looking at my advice site! don't be afraid to ask me anything - worst comes to worse i'll just straight up tell you that i don't know the answer (but i'll try to give you advice neway haha)...remember: a different perspective is always helpful :~D !advice
okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies?
if everybody who has heard you sing agrees with you that you have talent, then share it with the world!!! like i learned in my morality class - God gives us gifts but we are the ones who have to act on them! lol just curious, what type of music do u sing?? gL
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okay i hang out with a group of about 8 girls...its kinda split up, its kinda like me and my 3 other best friends, then them tha 4 other girls. between tha 2 groups in one, weve had our fights and up and downs. but now one of tha girls in my group is moving away in 2 weeks to Hawaii..then another girl in my group is getting soooooo close to tha other group..now its just me and my best friend and we feel left out and everything. please dont say that i needa have a talk with tha other girls, cause we are sick of even bringing it up cause they never listen and dont really care...next yr at school me and my best friend are gunna feel like losers cause its just gunna be me and her!!! helppp
quality over quantity
hey.. im 12 and 5'0 and i weigh 102 im not sure if thats like fat but i mean im a 14 jeans (girls) and ihave very muscler legs.. sadly and its my stomach like i can suck it in and be fine but the sides like poke out! and all i want it to not have to suck it in! like just breathe out and still be thin! all my friends r! and its sooo not fair i think! plz help me lose my extra weight! ill rate!
i can't imagine by your description that you are newhere near fat, and by the way you describe your body it sounds like you just have love handles which is something that even some thin girls have ~ embrac your body shape! lol
well i have school in a few weeks and i dont know what to ware i am like sporty and girly girl and a tom boy?
my one brilliant suggestion: a cotton skirt cuz it's girl since it's a skirt but it's sport cuz you can move in it and it's tomboyish cuz it doesn't have to be ultra short to be cute
Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?
when i'm sad i find that writing in a journal or typing my thoughts up really helps me clear my mind and look at my situation in a different light...music always helps, too...and sometimes when i feel anti-social i like to read books in my own little comfy world lol feel better ;D
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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
compliment your friends back but still accept their compliments (because if you don't they might think you're fishing for compliments and that you're conceited) ~ everybody has things about them that make them stand out and apparently you were given good looks so be proud of them - heck, maybe you even have a future in modeling!
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are glasses a throw off to girls?
ever been to the eye doctor and seen those posters of the ppl wearing glasses on the wall??? THOSE GUYS ARE STILL WAY HOT lmao (of course, they're also models hehe)
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ive been goin out with a guy 4 about a month, and we are really boring lol... like the only staes weve ever been on have been 2 the movies.. one time we went out 4 ice cream, but it feels like its the same old same old.. any casual dates that most regular suburbs have that dont cost way 2 much? thx guys mE
bowling/ice skating/amusement park/beach/boardwalk
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my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?!
i think you should get him something meaningful but not expensive...like something about an inside joke you guys share or a sport that you know he's into
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Sorry this is so long, but u need the whole story to understand.
About a week ago, I had sex with my boyfriend. The next day, i told my best friend about it. Since im only 14, she flipped out on me. She told me I was WAY too young and I was stupid for doing that. She made me promise I wouldn't do it again until I was older.
She has always said she will respect what I do even if I do mess up. But she didn't understand that.
A few days ago, I had sex with him again, and didn't tell her. I talked to her on the phone last night, and I accidently told her I had sex again, and she flipped out. She asked me a bunch of stupid questions, but I answered them. I also let it slip that I gave my first blow job. She REALLY got mad about that, so I told her I was kidding about it and I had never done that.
I want to tell her I did all that stuff, but im afraid she won't understand. Is there any easy way to tell her? or is it best just left alone?
your friend is probably used to being able to predict your every move because you know each other so well and now your doing things that she doesn't understand why you'd do ... try explaining to her why you don't view sex the same way as she does and make sure to take the necessary precautions...also, don't put any pressure on her to become more sexually active and don't treat her as if you know more than she does just because you've already had sex because it will just end up in her viewing you as a completely different person
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For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??
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remember the point of dancing - to have fun, so having fun is the priority nomatter how dumb you look...some pointers tho : loosen up, move your feet , don't look like your concentrating, and if you know the words then make eye contact with someone and sing your heart out!
ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp
no, it's totally normal to recognize when people are attractive - even the guys i kno tell me they can tell when another guy is attractive...but please don't do nething sexual w/ him ~ that's incest! lol plus, ur kids could be deformed lol
The thing is, im a guy 15 and i really have a nak for getting gay guys to like me and having girls think im gay. im not gay and i dont come off as gay..i think, but i try to be a generaly nice guy is there any reason why a person would think another person is gay.
maybe u dress well...or maybe you're a metrosexual (a straight person w/ gayish habits)...or maybe you're just too nice for your own good - you're probably like a best friend kind of guy that girls feel comfortable around and don't make fun of gay people (something i for one totally respect) stay golden ;)
How come everytime your with a boy and a "sweet" car goes by.. they always know what it is.. how do they fucking know the year of a car and stuff.. i mean there always like oh, thats a 46 blue honda..or whatever i mean honestly how do they know thats the year it was made and ugh i break my cars down into like 3 groups.. bus..car..truck.. its that simple.. o yeah and i mean i know what toyota's and stuff are and like fords but other then that i dont know what a car is unless it states what it is on the back of the car.. wow i really wanna know why they always do this please tell me lolol..
i know what you mean, even my little brother (age 11) is always drooling at cars and planning on which one he's gonna save up his 5 dollar allowances for, and all my friends are amazed by cars cuz we're all turning 17 now and getting licenses...it can be annoying cuz i could care less but i just say things like i don't like that car - it's too squarish...hehe i kno that wasn't really advice, but at least u kno you're not alone!
My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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i think you should at least keep in touch with him - he's family 2! and if he doesn't get along with your parents, then you may be the only family he has!
ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that?
all girls have totally different ideas of what a hot guy is, you just have to hang in there for the girl that's attracted to you! and having red hair does NOT make you ugly
Hey what are some really great back-to-school must have for a girl plz help asap i rate really good
clothing wise, skirts are really popular this year
I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!
xO mE
i don't know what kind of reputation the public schools in your area have, but i know that a lot of the public schools where i live are full of crime and are run less smoothly than the private ones and when applying for college, i've been told that the fact that i go to a catholic school is definitely going to give me an advantage...if your more worried about how switching will affect your social life, then i can assure you that you will find a group to fit into at a public school so you shouldn't let that stop you
I know that i like guys, but iv always had a fascination with girls and have begun to wonder if i might be bisexual. If i was i wouldnt know how to come out and tell ppl because i would be to afraid of rejection. I hope that this fascination for girls goes away because i'm getting tired of wondering if i might actually be right! If you have any kind of advice for this difficult question please help!!!Thx
i used to know someone who was perfectly straight that used to tell me she liked my ass all the time hahaaha
omg!! i just contacts and i dont seem to know how to get them on or off* i have to like play around with it for 1 hour until it comes out* if ne advice plz answer me*
use a mirror and put your pointer finger and hold your eye open wide with your middle fingers...to get it out you have to pinch it a lil - it'll get easier!