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love til you feel it
it's all that we need in our lives.
so stand on the edge with me,
hold back your fear and see
nothing is real til it's gone.
& hold on before it's too late,
well run til we leave this behind.
don't fall just be who you are,
it's all that we need in our lives.
♥ ♥ ♥
i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.
advice
me and my boyfriend had sex but it was my 1st time, and it was for like a min. but he didnt cum or have a condom on. i gave head to him before than about 30 mins ago. but even though he had a sex with me after, is there still any chance im pregant?
Yes. Precum can also get you pregnant.
hey, are there any legal sites that allow you to download music FREE OF CHARGE?
i dont want to keep using illegal sites due to the recent crackdown on some of them at the moment.
any suggestions would be greatly appriciated :)
thanks
there's something called truxshare. it's really good. go to download.com & type it in. :)
ok what does fingering mean??? I no its gross or sumthing I just see people using all the time on here!! so I need to no! Ive never done it EWWW but Im always curious about terms I don't no and I don't want to say sumthing about fingering to someone because that wud be really embarrassing!! (ive said stuff like that b4) I no its gross but please tell me!!
it's not like gross. it's when a guy takes his fingers and moves it in the girls vagina. it's supposed to feel really good.
what does bff mean? i hear it everywhere but what does it stand for.
i'm guessing best friend forever?
BEST FRIENDS FOREVER. :)
you were right.
can you tell me your first kiss story? Just what happened?
Mine was less than wonderful haha.
Just to see as a little comparison of things. thanks!
oh man. :) mine was quite a disaster. i was in 5th grade, and it was kinda sorta a dare with this kid named dale? i don't know we were like standing on the sidewalk, and it just happend and he bit my tounge and it bled for like an hour. HAHA! i don't speak of that story much. it was grose, and yeah. haha. :)
ok tell me if this is sluty:short shorts a grey cami with a black zip up sweatshirt and hoop earrings please help (and advice on changes are welcome)
It doesn't seem slutty at all. :] I don't really judge people on the way they dress it's pretty much what they do which makes them slutty. But yeah, it's perfect.
Hi.
I'm 14/F.
To start off, I hate my life.
My parents hate me and they say I should die.
I don't enjoy life. I cut myself all the time to take a way the pain. My mom won't take me to see a doctor since she hates me.
School is rough. I'm called names everywhere I walk. I'm made fun of for no reason. I feel hated.
I feel like I don't belong. I feel like if I committed suicide, I would definitely be happier. People would be happier.
I know you probably either want to say "Suicide Isn't the way out!" Or "Your parents really love you!"
They don't my parents don't. They told me they don't.
I feel like I don't belong. I've had so many breakdowns. I sit alone at lunch. I don't have any friends. What should I do? Whats a good way to commit suicide?
Please help.
I need it.
Please don't commit suicide. There are other ways out. You don't need a parent to go to a counslers. You can try that, maybe? See how things go. As for people at school, they're mean. I understand how hard it is to walk around and think "why does everyone hate me so badly?" it truly stinks. I'm sure someone likes you though! I guarentee, you might not think so but people will miss you alot if you're gone! Do you have anymore family you could possibly stay with? Maybe try that. At school, try communicating with people, I BET people will like you! Cutting yourself, that's just stupid. I did it before, and it does nothing for you. Talk to an adult, talk to your parents tell them how they're making you feel. I don't even understand why they'd say that to you. I hope you're alright. Things will turn around! Talk to someone, please.
i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you!
AW. THANKS. YOU'RE SO SWEET. :)
you're so wonderful.
i'm a girl who just turn 13 and i want to know what sex feels like,i've been fingered by my boyfriend and everything but i'm just wondering what sex actually feels like.
YOU'RE SO YOUNG. don't make the same mistake's as me and start doing that kind of stuff young. all it gets you is a bad rep. sex feels different for all kind of people i guess. the first time KILLS so bad. i'm going to be honest. the next couple are okay, and as you get more into it it's alot better. hope i helped.
I have not had sex but i have been fingered however ive never bled. If i went to the Gynecologist would they think that ive had sex?
they gyno wouldn't think you've had sex unless your cherry is popped. ;)
Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\
OMG. I was in the same situation as you. I'm fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. We think about how AMAZING having a child would be, and stuff, but really it isn't anything amazing at our age. Money, school, everything will change. Him and I even added everything we'd need (money wise.) and the cost is SO MUCH. I know you want one now, and I did before too, but believe me it's not something you're ready for yet. Imagine having a baby and it not being able to have a good life, because you don't have enough money. Yeah, that sucks. ]: I'm sorry though. But think twice.
okay so my boyfriend is coming over next weekend
and were gonna be in my room.. alone
any fun stuff we can do.. like not sex though
because im not ready to go that far yet
were gonna like watch a movie and stuff
but whats some stuff that guys like you to do?
like were probably gonna end up like on my bed or something
um. you can feel eachothers bodys? haha, or just talk..but that never works =)
does anyone know of any jobs that you can get at 14 years old ? or 15, cuz i`m turning 15 soon.
hm. i'm having the same problem as you. i'm 14 and it's pretty much impossible to find anything good! i can work at mcdonalds, but uh i really don't wanna work there. you can try maybe a pet groomer or something? when i'm 15, which is in june i'm going to try a grocery store + maybe like a ice cream store. idk. but keep trying? hopee i helped!
ive noticed a lot of people on myspace leave comments saying 'i'd tap that' can someone tell me what that means coz i feel so dumb not knowing!!
thanks :]
it means i'd had sex with that? hah. i hope i helped. [[:
well i have acne. like on myforehead. i was wondering what works? like any products that ACTUSLLY work. and i wash my face every night before i go to bed if tht helps.
well you could always try going to a dermatologist and getting this stuff called diferent? that stuff works for me. also, proactive really works too. [[:
I'm in 7th grade & I'm taking Algebra1. Do you think this is advanced?
well i'm in 8th grade hah and im just in pre-algerbra. there's like one class though of people in Geomatry in 8th so i guess like a class full of people did algerbra in 7th? your luckey your smart tho. =)
what does "(sp?)" means :S sorry i just don't seem to get it lol
sp means spelling. [[:
it's just a shorter abreveation.
i had sex for the first time today
it was hard for him to get it in for a while cause im pretty tight i guess
he got it in and it was okay
but we didnt do it for long
after i realised i bled all over my bed
more then i thought i would
it was horrible
but i covered it up well!
is this normal?
its like quite a few hours later and im still bleeding a little bit
is this okay?!?!?!!
aw yeah. [: your first time, i hope it was with someone special. hah. sorry. but it's deff. normal to bleed, believe me. if it continues for super long then it could possibly not be normal.
OK... so I just decided to be bi. And me and my best firend( who is straight) always make out. And i think i might have a crush on her but i dont know what to do because shes straight.
hm. you never know, she might be bi too if she makes out with you? or you just might not be bi, and might just like fooling around with girls? i don't know. talk to your friend. [:
okay, some of my friends shave the pussy and i want to know if this is normul, thts you ARE sapose to shave. becauce i donno if you are or not...
let's not say it's a HAVE TO kind of thing, but i know a lot of people that do. if you don't like hair down there or something then you can shave it, or if your comfortable with how it looks keep it? but it'ls completly normal. [: