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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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There is a guy who i really like and he is so cute. I talk to him a lot and he like me back but when i try to like hold his and and stuff. He also never makes any attempt to like hook up with me but i know he wants to becasue my friend found out. How should i deal with this? (f/15)

If you really feel towards him than make a move and be confident.. if not than you could get a freind to talk to him about it, or you will have to wait around for him to make a move!
hope i helped!

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how do u get a better voice?

ok i take singing lessons and it has really done a lot for my voice.. that helps a lot and do voice warmups b4 singing and all that stuff!
hope i helped!!!

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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend

in my opinion- you should ditch the guy and give your friend another chance... i dont know why but i feel friendships are more important than bf/gf relationships
hope i helped

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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
PLZ help

well it all depends.. if u are really and truely in love w/ your current bf you should probably stay w/ him.. it all depends on how you feel about your bf and the new guy you met..
hope i helped

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The worst thing in the WHOLE WORLD just happened to me! My dad said we are moving to Dallas, about 6 hours from where I live. If I didnt have the friends and BOYFRIEND I do now, then I would be fine but me and my boyfriend are VERY serious! I cant leave him, I would die, literally. I've cried so much already and I keep telling my boyfriend it's not for sure yet. If I do move, should I stay with my boyfriend, break up with him? I could still see him twice a month and on holidays.. is that enough? I am so in love with him and I cant even go 2 days without him... HELP ME PLEASE!!

okay if you really are in love w/ him then distance should not matter.. you can IM him ... phone ... email ... letters .. and you will occasionally see him.. if it ends up not working out its..okay i guess but in my opinion you should give it a try...
hope i helped

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My names not important, but i've been cutting myself alot lately. It's really hard to stop. It just seem's liek its there for me when I'm down or depressed. I really need help but I don't want to tell my family. My familys falling apart already as it is and I don't want to add stress to anyone. It's just hard to stop. It just feels like something to bounce back on. Anybody have advice on what I could do to stop cutting myself.. maybe something else to do instead of that.. I dont know. Thanks alot. (F/14)
-depressed

okay well a lot of ppl i know have been doing this too.. you need to tell your parents and see a counselor and ask yourself what cutting is doing for you..? nothing it does not resolve a thing!
hope i helped

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Hey ok so I have this really good friend lets say his name is (Shane). and Me and my friend like him and I kinda think he likes me,?, so when were alone we are really loveable , but when my other friend is around, we act like just friends to not let her know. What dod I do??

you cant in any circmstance go out w/ him if your friend likes him too, don't bother trying to get your friend to like someone else beacuse that is just rude.. you cant go out w/ him unless you want to lose a friend..
hope i helped

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is it bad if u dont know how to kiss???

its not bad but sometime in life you will most definitly need to know how to
hope i helped

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Okai will my friend she asked me about her clothes like she can NEVER find any store that has clothes that will fit her n shes skinney and around the world we have the same kinda stores so shes about 5'1 and she wears like size 0 in pants n like xs in shirts so if you can help me with that like if you knwo where she can get clothes that fit her! The other thing is her hair she has black hair n red streaks which are fading away now n her hairs medium length n if you know how she can cut her hair so it looks cute on her lol n plus she has a babi face n I was thinking like layer but would that look good?

okay well seriously like all my friends are size 0 and i go shopping w/ them all the time.. okay well jcpenneys has a really good selection of tops and bottoms, so does wet seal, aeropostale, delias, american eagle, abercrombie, and especially hollister!.. as for haircuts buy a magazine on hairstyles!

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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok?

yeah... it is a good thing because then when you hang oout w/ your bf you can also hang out w/ them or w/e... but don't begin flirting or w/e with your boyfriends friends bcuz i can guarentee he will bcome jealous...
hope i helped

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Do you know of any sites where I can post my pictures for free?

www.picturetrail.com

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my mother dyed several weeks ago and i am having trouble getting over it any tips?

Ok well my dad died a couple years ago so i know how it feels.. give it time.. it's not something you need to get over right away.. things to help you get over it is just remember all the good times you had with them.. you can also talk to your friends and family.. look at pictures of her.. and if your becoming depressed see your doctor and he can prescribe a anti-depressant.. (( i had one )) or if your really sad and don't know what to do you can call one of those helpline thingys or ask your mom to bring to to a counselor/ physcologist..
hope i helped!

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Hi i am 9 years old and still a virgin is that okay

yeah. your still very young nd its a good thing you are a virgin.. you should stay a virgin until well.. later in life
hope i helped

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ok well... my dad hits me and slaps me all the time.. and he cusses at me... what should i do? i don't want to tell my mom because then she will talk to him about it and i dont want him to get mad at me... i dont know what to do! :(

Thats a hard one... ok well i say you have a serious talk to your mom or another trusted family member and tell her what he's doing... and then don't stay in the house alone w/ him and try your best to not be alone w/ him... and if your mom says she has to go lets say shopping or something and is gonna leave you at home w/ your dad whisper in her ear sometime b4 she leaves about the fact that you don't feel safe staying alone w/ him...
i hope i helped...

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hi... umm... my friend is mad at me because i hung out w/ this girl she doesnt like too much... what do i do.. i want to be friends w/ both of them!!!

Omg! the same exact thing happened to me! ok well you need to talk in person, IM or call the friend that is mad at you... tell her that you really miss her friendship and that you don't understand why she is mad at you... And tell her that you really want to be friends w/ both her and the other friend.. and ask her why it matters who else you hang out w/ bcuz it doesnt effect her... well only say that if your quite daring bcuz it sounded kinda mean lol... well i dont make sense sooo back to topic... ok well yeah and if she doesnt want to be friends w/ you still.. you should give her time to *cool off* and try to talk to her again later.. do nice stuff like call her on her birthday, say bless-you when she sneezes... well it worked for me!
hope i helped!!

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