Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
AIM: laynemayhem15
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I like this guy and he kind of likes me.But all my friends say he likes anthor girl.I didnt believe him so i ask him out and he turned me down. So at one point i gave up on him then i started likin anthor guy.I'm afraid to ask him out because both guys are best friend. But this time this guy really makes me feels special. He is there for me sometimes more than my friends do. But i think the first guy i like is startin to like me now. So what do i do? (link)
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first guy sounds like a player to me, second guy is always there for you and acts like he really likes you. remember when you thought firstie liked you but he turned you down? well, maybe this time is like the first time. go ahead with number 2. sounds like a winner to me.
good luck
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i HATE alcohol but i love being drunk
is there any way to hide the taste?
chasers like soda and orange juice dont help
besides jello shots is there ANY way to get drunk without the taste of alchol? (link)
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what i do is mix everything i drink with sunny d. tastes good and gets me satisfied.
seriously, sunny d goes with anything. just be sure to mix enough of it in.
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Okay. There is a very odd thing that keeps crawling (looks like its swimming) around on my windowsill. It looks like... I cant even explain it. But it has a lot of legs, no, its not a centipede. I poured nail polish remover on it, and watched it die. I then examined it closely. It appears to have a pair of very small antennae on its head, and also two things (that look like antennae) on its... bottom side. It is not an earwig either, Im not sure what it is. It's little, and you can barely tell it has legs at all because they're so small. Any help? (link)
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it might be a silver fish. you can look it up to see if it looks like the one that you found. silver fish come in many sizes; i get them in my bathroom all the time and some are as much as 2 1/2 inches long, some as little as 2 centimeters. they're totally harmless but annoying as hell. anyways, like i said try and look up some pictures to see if thats what it was. if its not, sorry, then i have no idea.
take care.
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15/f
hi. so this my be a weird question. but hey, this is what this site is for right?
well i hate hair (besides on my head).
well i was wondering if girls (but mainly guys) thinks its weird to shave my arms
i have before, but my step sister thought it was kind of weird.
well i would like opinions of this.
please and thank you. (link)
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all of my girl friends shave their arms, so do i. in my opinion, its not really needed unless your arms almost look like guy's arms, which mine did -.-'' my boyfriend doesnt care either way, its just a whatever floats her boat kind of thing in their mind, like shaving pubic hair.
anyways, my opinion is it isn't weird. but if you're going to, you'll have to shave often to keep the hair from coming back thicker, blacker, and stubby.
take care
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Why do I always go for the guys who are going to hurt me??? My ex brutally broke and ripped apart my heart and yet now that I have this new caring, amazing boy, I just can't bring myself to... I don't know like him? I do like him but I still want my ex. I want this guy from another school that's a huge player... I want jerks! I don't understand why I'm attracted to jerks... I like the cocky arrogant sports stars and the smooth but cheating players. Why??? I want to give my heart to this new boy but I'm just not attracted to him like I am to the jerks and bad boys. I need help!! (I am fifteen, female) (link)
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its just a fact of life, every girl wants a badboy. lets face it, they're SO much funner than the kid that sits at home doing homework on a friday night. nice guys are great every now and again, but you wanna date someone whom you wouldnt dare bring home to show daddy. why is this? no one knows. maybe its cuz you feel safer with someone you know can kick the shit out of someone. maybe you're truly bad yourself. maybe your a good girl and have been your entire life and now you need to break out. i dunno your story.
but let me tell you this, badboys wont always be bad. once they go to jail for a few years, they come out changed men. i'd know. give this new guy a chance. he actually sounds like he deserves it. and of course you're always going to want your ex, when a guy breaks a girl's heart, shes always going to want him back. its just the way it is.
try to make the best of this new kid, maybe you could turn him bad ;)
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Im 13. I love guys, and couldnt date a girl (i need masculinity) but i have imagined being with girls, and i wouldn't mind kissing a girl (my bf thinks it'd be hot). I think some girls are hot and i think im slightly attracted to them. and les p*rn turns me on. I don't know if im bi, or if its normal for a straight female to feel this way. (link)
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i'm straight, and so are most of my girlfriends, but we're all pretty much the same way. the great thing about being a girl is that you can kiss a girl without being a lesbian. like that katy perry song. don't worry, you're a teenager and your hormones are going crazy, so yeah, its not weird.
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I went to the mall with a friend. I tried taking a small item in a store, but was caught. The worker just said, "Can you return the item to its place?" I handed it to him. He said nothing else. My friend and I looked in the store for a few minutes, then left.
After we left I looked back and saw him dialing a phone #. I'm paranoid that he was calling mall security/the police. Is this possible? He didn't ask me ANY information, no name/address/ss #/id.
After that we left the mall to my car. No one followed us, and I really didn't notice anyone taking my license plate #, but this is the part I feel most paranoid about. Is it possible he could have been calling security & they can review tapes and see my license plate # when I'm leaving? Like I said, NO one was watching as we left, in fact when we were leaving police were outside dealing with some handcuffed person and didn't even glance at us. Also, even if my license plate # was captured, how can they be sure it wasn't my friends car? Also, not sure if this matters, but my car was in a parking lot far away from the original store.
I'm just really paranoid, this happened 2 days ago, and I'm scared about getting that letter in the mail, but I'm just wondering if this is possible because they have none of my information. But, I do know the store had one camera, I'm unsure whether cameras were in the parking lot. Also, this is my first time trying to shoplift. Thanks. (link)
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i've been in this position before, except i got slapped with a citation. you don't need to worry about anything. if they were going to get the cops involved, they would have kept you in the store and held you until the cops showed up. when you take a small item, they don't write down your license plate. if anything, the guy would have asked you to leave immediately and not come back. since he only asked for the item and didnt ask for your name, number, address, etc, nothing is going to happen. you're fine. they're not going to throw you in jail for taking a small item.
chill.
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im 14 and my boobs aren't perky! i always wear a bra and don't do anything to make them saggy or whatever, atleast ot that i know of? im not sure if they're saggy? but they are when i sit down w/ out a bra. i guess they are sort of like torpedo boobs? like they look like > and i feel like i have old people boobs! ugh. mom says that everybody is built different yadayada blah but i've heard that a million times! is there something wrong with me? HELP! thanks :) (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you. A) your mom is right, everyone is built differently. B) that being said, people develope at different rates. C) you're young, so your breasts haven't fully developed yet. woman stop growing when they're in their early 20s. :) just keep doing what you're doing and eat healthy, and they'll develope just fine.
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Ok... so I have been with my fiance for almost 2 years and he is always wanting to have sex and I am just never in the mood... and when we do have sex it doesn't really do anything for me... We are getting married in a couple days and I want our wedding night to be perfect and if he wants to have sex I want to be able to make him happy. So please give advice.... SOOONNNN!!! (link)
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there is a certain pill you can take to make your sex drive kick in. i don't know what its called, sorry, but try talking to your doctor about it so that your wedding night will be perfect :)
good luck!
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So I am getting married in a couple days and I jut wanna know if anyone has any advice for meee...THANKSS (link)
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marriage is tough. i've never been married, but i've studied my parents' marriage and the relationships between husband and wife of my other friends. first of all, usually before you get married, you date this person for a while. now, i don't know how long you've been going out, if you guys have already moved in together, etc, but you have to get used to this person's flaws. if you've already done that, great! if not, get prepared.
stuff happens, you may find that marriage is hard because you're around this person 24/7. the first year or so is awesome because you're married, you're alone, and you have a lot of sex. or usually you do. :) later in the marriage is when things get tough. some men get put down because they feel like they'll get sick of the woman, men get bored easily. so be sure to spice things up in the bedroom once in awhile. foreplay is great, and some studies show that men really love roleplaying, like pretending to be someone else while having sex. or you could try something that you'd probably enjoy, like the whole fancy dinner, wine, rose petals, candles, etc.
money is also a huge issue. both men AND women find other funner things to spend money on besides food and bills. women usually resort to clothes, as i'm sure you know, (i'm assuming you're a woman. if you're not, i truly apologize) and men spend money in a lot of ways i'm not sure. sometimes they have gambling problems, maybe beer, cologne, shit for their cars, and other stuff that seems ridiculous to the wife. be sure to let him know that you'll save a certain amount of money for whatever you guys will like, but you'll also need to get those bills paid. otherwise, its just going to cause more stress.
men are also disgusting. they burp and fart and leave places an absolute mess. you'll probably be cleaning a lot with little help. if your man helps you with cleaning and cooking, good for you! you've found every housewife's dream. if not, well, you're not alone :)
my advice to you about all of this is to just stay strong and keep your head up. if you wish to avoid conflict, stay in communication. a marriage relys on three things; communication, trust, and sex. like i said, sex will most likely NOT be an issue for the first couple of years. after that, you'll probably slow off a little bit. also, if you have kids or plan to, make sure that both of you are spending enough time with the child(ren) and again, just stay strong. its tough, but its possible. :)
i wish you both the best of luck! and again, if you're not a woman, i'm really sorry.
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Hello 14 f
I was wondering if it was possible for me to learn piano on my own? I have one of those piano sets that the keys light up..well I really want to learn, I don't want to have to pay for lessons... would like to write a song for my bf and play it for him..Really I would like to know? is it really that hard? (link)
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i know many people that find it easy to learn piano by ear. this is just basically writing a song by playing random keys until you find the ones that sound good together and make for a good song. so yes, it is very possible. :) good luck
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Okay, So I have this friend who I've known since 7th grade. I'm now in 12th grade (and I'm a girl btw) and my friends and I seriously don't like her. We are constantly complaining about her "know-it-all" attitude and the fact that she tinks she is better than the rest of us. My friends and I have talked and we feel she is a toxic personality, and we don't wnat to be her friends anymore. The only problem is, she doesn't have many other friends and I'd feel extremely bad "getting rid of her". She was bullied all through elementary school so I feel like she doesn't have good personal skills, or maybe she is mirroring that bully mentality on us. I really am sick of her being so rude and childish. How can I get rid of her without feeling absolutely awful? (There's no way I can go another year with her. I might blow up at her which I don't want to happen.) (link)
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sit her down and have a heart-to-heart with her. tell her to either listen to what you have to say, or go away (the direct approach will get her attention). what i also recommend, is while talking to her, it'll soften it up a bit if you lie a little. say things like "you know i love you" or "you're a really good friend of mine" etc. those may not be totally true at this point, but it'll let her know that you care. tell her that you love her to death, or whichever softening phrase you wish, but her attitude has gotten to be very intolerable. explain to her your side. tell her how she's been acting and what toll its taken on your friendship. ask her to try and change the way she acts. and tell her that if something doesnt change soon, you don't think you'll be able to be friends with her anymore. this is being direct, but again, softening it up a bit. sugarcoating it, if you will. she'll realize, after having been told all this, that not only is she about to lose her only friends, but she's not a very enjoyable person. after talking to her, give it some time. see if she changes. give it a week, or give it three days. the time span is your choice, since this was your ultimatum. if she changes the way she acts, you'll most likely change your mind about wanting to dump her. but if she doesnt change, go with your original plans and just tell her that you gave her a chance to change, and she took it for granted. that way, you wont feel bad about it, since you gave her the heads up.
i hope this works for you :) take care.
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well me and my boyfriend tried having sex a few weeks ago but it hurt so he pulled out but then i had to leave. so we're gonna try again tomorrow but i want to get some questions answered just so i kinda know whats goin on haha
1. who usually cums first?
2.if the guy comes first is that when you stop? or do you wait till you both do?
3.what are some kinky things i can do that he will love?
thanks!! (link)
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1. it depends on the person, sometimes the girl does, sometimes the guy does, sometimes they do at the same time (but thats rare)
2. when the guy finishes is usually when you stop. if you keep going after he's done, he'll get soft or lose the erection completely, or it may even start to hurt him. hopefully, you're guy isn't one of those that finish in 5 minutes. i know a few of those people. -.-''
3. what my boyfriend likes is when i kiss/LIGHTLY bite his neck. if you're guy has an earring, put your teeth around it and breathe into his ear. but remember to do this lightly. if he seems to like it, go a little harder, but most of the time, try not to tear his ear off :) also blowing/kissing their ear feels good, too.
hope i helped.
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Can sperm travel? Like if my boyfriend came on my leg by my vaginal area can i get pregnant, can it travel towards it? We always have unprotected sex and i was just wondering because he has came in my stomach or once even right next to my vaginal area and i was scared but it was a moment of passion but none got in that area, but i was just wondering if it can? (link)
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if you wipe and wash immediately, it wont.
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i feel like my libido died
is it possible for erogenous zones to no longer work? (link)
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sometimes, but usually its just from those kinds of hormones not being as strong as they used to be. it happens to people all the time.
hope i helped
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i wanna have sex with my bf but im scared it will hurt like when the dick goes in meh (link)
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its different for every girl. for me, it hurt my first few times, for some of my friends, it didnt. just depends mostly on whether your hymen is already broken or not. this is a thin layer of skin behind the opening in your vagina. some girls are born without one, for others it breaks while exercising or running or even when they masturbate or use a tampon.
just breathe easy. no one knows for sure. just be sure and use a condom and make sure you're not tense. (tension will tighten you up, making it hurt worse) hope i helped. :)
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From the rich-red toenails and favourite shoes
A stunning dress and lovely red roses pinned to highlighted hair
To the cherry on top of a beautifully frosted princess,
A charming new necklace
That’s what I’ll look life, but not how I’ll feel.
I call myself so many ugly names,
The insecurity in not knowing where to go or what to do
And being stuck here without you
I don’t care about anything
I hate my life
I hate everything
I hate myself
And it pours out onto my made up face
And it’s ugly, I’m ugly
And the less I take care of myself, the uglier I get and the more I hate myself….
And on such days I’ll put on my necklace to make me feel pretty
But I still hate myself
I think I need help
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No Difference, My Princess:
For you are a fair beauty,
No different from any other.
Your twinkling eyes, your glowing skin,
But you aren't different.
Every girl is beautiful,
Her pretty face hides the truth,
She's ugly, her sins mask insecurity.
My beautiful princess,
There is nothing wrong with you.
Insecurity within shows in your eyes,
I can't see, but I do.
I understand, my dear.
Every female,
The big, the small, rich and poor,
All go through this.
All hide ugly scars from a broken past.
All fade away in their reflection.
To gain control,
We all mask our fear,
of inadequecy.
You will get better, dear.
You'll be fine.
As you age, you see clear.
As you grow, you won't feel different,
But you will be.
You are no different.
There is no difference.
take care, and if you need anything, don't hesitate to message me.
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what is a prep? (link)
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from my recent experiences, a "prep" is someone who is very perky, annoying, wears a lot of pink/bright colours, does their nails with those french tips, wears short skirts/skinny jeans, a lot of makeup, says "like" at least 5 times in a sentence, and is just obnoxious in every way possible. but thats just how they are in my recent encounters. they aren't obnoxious to everyone, thats only my opinion. :) hope i helped.
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So last night I smoked with my big brother for the first time. I started imagining the weirdest stuff. Like the stories he was telling me ... I can't remember if I was just making them sound super far fetched in my head, or if he was actually saying that stuff. Like ... he said my mom buys weed from him and stuff. I dunno.
Okay, and also... When I looked in a mirror I would laugh uncontrollably When the fan was on my whole body would feel like it was twitching when it really wasn't. Light made me feel like my voice was going in & out. Kind of like if I were to be talking into a fan.
Could weed do that to me? Cause I thought I was gonna have a heart attack last night. Haha.
Any ideas to what happened? & I woke up @ 8 this morning & was still high! I'm not high anymore though cause I went back to sleep. (link)
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yes, weed does all the above to a person. you're safe, but just remember, weed is illegal in most areas and you could get into real trouble for having it on you, so be careful.
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i was hooking up with this guy the other night and i felt him get hard. i felt like i was almost obligated to give him a handjob, so i did. Is it really bad to just leave it and not pleasure him if you feel a guy get hard? (link)
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sometimes, its fine to not do anything. but you said you were hooking up, so in those kinds of moments its best to do so, otherwise you might be known as a "tease". but don't you do all the work. he should pleasure you, too. :) take care, and stay safe. if you go passed 2nd base, use a condom.
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