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E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think. (link)
Abortions are HORRIBLE unless under certain circumstances. I think that the ONLY valid reason to kill a growing baby is a rape case. If you voluntarily have sex, then its your fault your pregnant. There is no other excuse for having an abortion. To me, its murder. The child is a human whether its a few days along or a few months along. Abortion is just plain wrong!


My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! (link)
Well.. if you interefered in their relationship..then you ARE a bitch.. if they broke up on their own.. okay. fine. You were jealous either way.. so get over it!


the other day on the radio, i heard this song i really liked but i dont know who the band is or what the title of the song is. here's some lines i remember:
i almost wrote a song for you and i almost had you...

well thats all i can remember right now...please help! i really like this song! (link)
Almost --- Bowling for Soup


i wanna tip the ends of my hair with a wild color---like pink or blue. how do i go about doing this with an at home kit?? (link)
Hottopic has kits.. for red, green, pink, blue, and other odd colors.. Make sure you get the pre bleaching kit if you do.. its another $10 but.. if you dont then it doesnt show up very good... i did the red on my hair..and it was supposed to be BLOOD red, and it came out a light brown color. The kits say they have bleach in them and theres no need to pre-bleach.. but do it anyways.. it will come out MUCH better


my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?

any advice? (link)
Take her pills for her! HAHA!! They really work for gettin high for a lil while! Cept you can't sleep if you take them at night.. so i recommend takin them before skool.. then your high all day... and dont sleep through class!!

HAVE FUN


Does anybody have any cool, inexpensive ideas that i could do to my room? My comforter now is purple green and blue..im not getting a new comforter. Thanks (link)
Get construction paper.. Make lil designs.. get some scissors that cut lil zigzag lines and stuff.. make lil paper cutouts.. and put pictures on them.. like photos of your friends, pets, family, etc. It actually livens up a dull room.. alot! and its like.. 15 - 20 $ max.. to get the scissors and enough construction paper for like.. 300 pictures!!



1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!! (link)
Nothin wrong with it.. I am bi.. and its natural.. experiment around.. who cares.. my friends and i do it.. and only one of them is actually bi too.. so lotsa girls do it. its a phase..and if you keep likin it, your prolly bi,(and you should totally do a three sum) LOL


Where are some good stores to shop for clothes??
Lacey (link)
Well.. Baby Phat has EXPENSIVE clothes .. but they are soooo cute.. and Kohls.. wal*mart.. K*mart.. JC Penny...


Whats the best way to dump your boyfriend? thanx (link)
tell him.. just b like.. were over!


what are some good fonts for aim?? i have book antiqua now, but its getting boring (link)
I don't know what fonts your computer has.. but i like Century Gothic, Tahoma, or Matisse ITC.

They're all different from each other.. but they're all pretty neat


Last night my friends and I went to McDonald's and one of my friends got an oreo McFlurry... Well i was driving my dad's car and apparently she spilled it all over the backseat and now there is black oreo stuff all over and I have no idea how to get it out! My dad will be so mad if he sees it! So if you have any ideas about stuff i could use that i wouldp probably have sitting around the house i would really appreciate it! (link)
Try getting some carpet and upolstrey (sp?) cleaner. It usually does a good job gettin stuff like that out of furniture. Make sure you get the kind you DONT have to wash out. Cuz u really cant wash a car seat


yeah sometimes we do link arms and i mean together like the 5 of us, and we walk threw the mall and i always seem to be next to him or a person away. (link)
Try to get some time alone with him. Maybe you and him could shop together.


ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh (link)
1. Tell her.. just tell her you need to talk to her.. If shes your BFF.. then you should have no problem..She might be a little jealous or get a lil mad at you.. but she wont hate you or anything
2. Just keep talkin to him.. and hangin out with him as much as possible. Flirt with him a little bit. Give him a hug before you leave from hangin with him. Or maybe a slight kiss on the cheek.
3. There really isn't much of a way without words. SORRY
4. Hugs.. a slight kiss on the cheek.. stuff like that.. Or holding hands/linking arms. Stuff like that will let him know your interested.

Just remember though.. guys will come and go.. but your friends will always be there. So if your friend tells you she dont want you datin him cuz it would hurt her.. respect her. After all.. she is the reason you met him.

GOOD LUCK


hey yall
14/f
hey! so i've like this one guy for a long while now and like ican't stop thinking about him or anything ... if there was such thing as love this young age, then it'd be pretty damn close! well he knows i like him and all and sometimes talk.. you know. well he said my best friend is hott and all these other girls. like he was asked and that's what he said. but i know he's deep and all but my friends say im pretty and ofcourse my family but i dunno. i think i am but pretty, but not hot. i wish that he wouldnt just choose girls that he thinks are "hott" or w/e. i know i can get this guy (social status rank i mean) but i know he doedsnt like me. we'd be good friends im sure, if he gave it a chance, but i feel as if im not "pretty enough" for him. (link)
Well.. try your best to get over him. If you don't, your settin yourself up to be hurt again. I've been through this.. except in a more.. serious way.

Just do your best to move on... maybe yall can be friends


Hi, I'm not really sure what category to put this under so i'm going to go for this one!!

Well, first of all I have a really good friend that I've known since 1st grade! It is currently my senior year. We've continued to be best friends over the years, and we are talking about going to college together. Well my friend has cystic fibrosis. I've known this since as long as I can remember, but I've never actually taken the time to look into it. My friend seems to be really healthy, and you would never be able to tell she has this disease by looking at her. She stays really active (she plays volleyball and she is a cheerleader) and has dreams of becoming a singer. She has even started working on devoloping a record! :) I'm so proud of her strength and her drive. But I guess what I'm trying to get at is how will CF effect her future? I also heard that people with CF generally die at fairly young ages... this is something that really scares me. If anyone has any additional information I would REALLY appreciate it!

Lots of Love,
Ashley (link)
We just learned about CF in Biology. Usually kids with CF die by the time they are in their 30's. Sometimes they live till their late 40's or early 50's.


hi im about to peirce my cartilidge but im not sure exactly where to do it, i need someoen with expericne and or i need some websites with pictures (or not i dont care) because ive been searching and im not sure how to.. please help! last time i did it i messed up on my lobe cuz noone helped me! please help me! (link)
I've got my cartilage done near the top of my ear.. go to http://www.infinitebody.com/gallery/ear/earpic1.html for different kinds of ear piercings.. i will tell you though.. some of the pictures are kind of.. disturbing to me


OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?

thanx (link)
I have the same problem.. try Titanium.. and if not.. then dont wear earing for extended time periods.


is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
Well.. in a way yes.. but in a way no. I say its not though. If you think your old enough to deal with the concequences of sex.. then yes.. your old enough. But if you cant deal with emotional pain, then no. Sex comes with a lot of baggage. Just make sure your totally ready before you start.


ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



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You have to be 17 or 18 to get married without a parents concent.. Unless your in vegas.. and then i think you still have to be.. so dont worry bout it.. it prolly wont even work.. they'll break up before they get married


My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ?? (link)
Just accept it.. Theres nothing wrong with being gay/lesbian/bisexual Its totally natural




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