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okay this is long and complicated, but if youre reading this. THANKS :)
its really really stupid, and youve probably read like a MILLION problems like this, but if you help me id be really grateful.
Okay so my best friend laura used to go out with this kid jake. jake and i would talk all the time on aim, and he'd tell me like "ohh i kissed laura todayy" and id be like "haha cute" or whatever. but he'd always say "i love you" to me. and i would never say it back, because then laura might take it seriously and hate me, or jake would use it against me. so then they broke up cause laura just didnt like him anymore, and i was still talking to jake. then he started becoming good friends with these two girls i really dont like, meg and michelle. they were really into him and stuff, and theyd talk ALLLLLL the time. i got so jealous. jake was giving them more attention than me. we didnt really talk as much. then one day he randomly imed me, and we were talked for a while. i really started liking him again, but i think he likes meg or michelle. jalksjdfsjld i DONT know what to do. im a shy person, you wouldnt think that cause im funny and pretty outgoing, but i could nver tell jake how i feel, its just not me. i dont know what i should do! i flirt with him a little, and he does back usually, but other than that, what can i do to get his attention?
sorry its really stupid, but thanks
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what are some really good tricks for giving head/blow jobs? im really good at givin deep throat so basically im up for anything.. i really wanna please my boyfriend more than i already am:] thanks
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ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt have proctection but we cant get it because none of our friends know and we arent going to go and buy them ourselves so he just takes it out before he feels like he is going to finnish, well today he said he didnt feel it until 10 seconds before he finnished and he pulled out and about 8 second after he finnished. i freaked out of course but he said he could feel when he pre cums so i dont know if i should believe him or what. ALso, what are the first signs of being pregnant ?
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my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i fell like i want to but im scared i will fall pregnant wat shold i do???
xx need advice girl xx
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But the guy i want to do it with is 10 years older than me what should i do
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M/13
Is it weird that when im around my freinds im really fun and wild but when im with like "popular kids" i am really shy i dont know why but ive been like that for a while and i really want to break out of my shell kinda when im around thoose type ok kids. I mean i have already gotten alot of crap about moving back and wearing "emo cloths" or whatever there stereotyping my clothing. Its not just like what people are sating gets said behind my back they come up to me and call me agothic emo cutter or whatever. Now i dont know what to do about it. i was thinking of just going up to the and telling them off but that might not be the greatest thing to do since its the begging of the year and all. Lately school hasn't been getting any easeir and with all the drama that goes aorund i dont know if i can take it any longer any advice helps =)
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I'm dating this guy,from what I know. And I was talking to him last night (since he lives in a another state) i guesss you can say his big on the drugs and stuff,and it really gets to me. So my friend that lives by him was telling me I should really do something about it,and I told her I couldn't because I don't want to loose him @ all. And I know he loves me because he tells me every single day,and he leaves me nice long sweet comments,and so he came on he was sweet and then he signed off and he came back on and he was high. And like he said some 'jackass' stuff to me. but i knew he was high because his brother wouldn't let him back on untill he wasn't high,so i talked to his brother and he told me he thinks its better for me and him to take a break because maybe it would help him with the drugs,so when my bf came on he prombly had a little buzz, and he told me maybe its a good idea but he doesnt want to. any help? because like i feel like soo horriable about it,last night i was in tears.
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female
14
so ive never really been in a proper relationship and i would really like to be with a guy
im a little fat but i think i am pretty
i cant really find a guy that likes me
i also wish to have sex very soon
everybody else seems to in my year except me
i really want to have sex to see what its like
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im 13
i feel like im in a rush to have sex
idk im always horny?
and i just wanna do it HAHA
should i do it yet?
is it too early?
am i weird? :|
and how am i supposted to do it when im pretty sure no one else my age is ready nor wants to.. and i dont have a boyfriend right now.
i've never even had a boyfriend before.. :(
i think guys my age are extremely immature
i've always wanted an older guy haha
and im pretty sure im ready too
i know all the risks and how to be protected and all..
what to do?
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Thanks in advance everyone :>)
Alright. First you should know that I'm the very romantic type and look forward to things like dressing up, going on dates, I want to go sit in a coffee shop with someone and have a nice conversation (too bad im only 14..haha)...and I just love the whole idea of being with someone and having them to talk to and lying under the stars together.... :>)... but I've never had a real boyfriend, almost all my friends are boys though.
alright enough about me. Here's my situation.
My friend, Jenna, has liked my friend Mike since 7th grade when she moved here. Now, Mike is my bestbestfriend. I am really fond of him, too, and was really hoping he'd ask me to homecoming...because it would be romantic/fun/etc. :>)
HOWEVER...Jenna and my friend Katrina are best friends, and Katrina said to me the other day, "you're close with mike, right?" and i said yes. Then she said "do you know who he likes/is planning to ask to homecoming?" and I said, "nope..." she said "I'm trying to help Jenna get him to ask her. We'll need your help too though, she reeeally wants to go with him."
but she barely talks to him and I almost am SURE he is going to ask me...but then if I said yes to him, Jenna would be mad at me, and if I said no, I would feel like I missed a great, fun chance. I know there will be more dances but you know, it's my first high school dance.....Im very excited. (remember, I said i over romanticize everything.. :-P)
So basically, I'm stuck. What should I do? I probably wouldn't have a hard time going with someone else cause someone's bound to ask me, like I said I have a lot of guy friends. but....what should I do? I really wanted to go with mike.
It almost feels like they're completely ignoring my feelings...but Katrina is very very nice, so I'm sure she's probably just oblivious...after all everyone does think of us as just friends so I wouldn't really expect them to think I wanted to go with him...I almost want to tell them but that would be really hard.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. Gosh, just writing that got me all excited. :>) but worried at the same time.
Thank you
:>)
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So I have an amazing boyfriend. I seriously think that I am in love with him. And this new kid came into my class and he is cute and funny and extremely nice. I am an all around flirty person, and I can't help but flirt with him naturally. We talked a lot today and I can't help but like him as more than a friend. I don't know whats wrong with me, I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!! I really want to stop liking the new kid because things between my boyfriend are great. What can I do. I feel like such a bad person for liking someone besides my boyfriend.
HELP PLEASE.
Love,
CONFUZZLED :/
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heyy!
ok, long story short, i want to break up with my boyfriend. We have had a horrible relationship-since february- and we barly talked to eachother.. I want to move on and become avaliable, so in order to do that, i need to talk to him to break up with him... but im not sure how to even talk to him, let alone break up with him face to face.. I'm kinda shy and so is he, but i really dont want to break up with him on the phone or on AIM because i think that is just rude. I dont think ill be able to call him because he doesnt have a cell phone, and i dont want him to get off the home phone and have to confront his mom- if she is home- so the only time i think i could break up w/ him would be during school, but i dont know when where or how to do it. I've herd from my friend who confirmed with him that HE wanted to break up with me. At first i wanted to just let him do it, but i would rather be the dumper rather than the dumpee.. i hope that made sence =]
Anything will help, and sorry if that didn't make very much sence..
Oh, and im 14/f by the way!
Thanks in advance for everything!!
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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.
My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?
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This new guy just started going to my school, and he's in a few of my friend's classes. from what they tell me, he's really cute, nice, and not arrogant like all the guys in my school. I really want to at least meet him, but i can't think of a way to start a conversation. I would have to go way out of my way to talk to him, so i don't want it to be obvious that i made it a point to meet him. help? And i'm not just gonna go up to him and say "hi, i'm so-and-so," so please don't say to. i won't rate you very high. sorry!
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15/f
my one friend is having a sweet 16 party, like in october. and i mean, i really wanna go, because me and her were really good friends. but like, i dont know any of her friends. and i feel weird. because i dont wanna like follow her around, yano? i guess its pretty big, and alot of people are gonna be there. but its no one i know.
what should i do?
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Now I know that I have nobody to blame but myself, but I have wrecked nearly every close friendship I have had in my life because I end up hooking up with my friends' boyfriends behind their back. Most of the time there is drinking involved, but I don't think that is the problem. I think the desire to do it is already in me before the drinks and it just ends up being easier to do once I am drunk. I do not know why I do this. I know that I just want to feel wanted and I like the attention that I get from men, I guess it is an ego thing. I really love my friends and don't want to hurt them but I can't seem to break this cycle. I don't want to have to avoid ever hanging out with a friend when their boyfriend is around, I need to find a way to just stop being such a horrible person. What can I do? Why do I keep ending up in this same situation when I conciously know that I don't want to do these things?
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okay so like my mom found out that my b./f and i had sex and like sh flipped ou and pressed charges on him in like a billion different wanys and like so we go to school together. im 15 hes 17.
and like hes scared to talk to me or look at me or interact with me and like the court papers are saying how he cant look at me and if he follows me or something to walk me to class they say its like stalking and this is tearing us apart so badly.
and like i love him so much and also...
he screwed another girl twice and is in love with like 2 other people yet! he said he'd wait for me when this court crap is over and he even wanted to marry me!
and its hard cause i feel that spark and we really had a thing going you know what i mean?
and i think this court thing is changing him into someone that like feels guilty about what he did and etc.
idk what to do.
please help i really need it
[its harder cause im bipolar and i have add so its harder to deal with all this and my mom is against anything i do and is dring me mad!]
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My bf and i started having sex were 16 our first time and he lost his erection almost straight away it happened twice more his penis goes soft hes really embarrassed about it i love him and i want to help him through this what can we do?
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i had this boyfriend and he wanted to take me to the movies and afterwards he was gonna eat me out in the car and it never happened because i was kinda afraid. im not sexually active and im a virgin. so i was wondering does it feel good to get eaten out and how long does it take for me to orgasm when hes eating me. and if i wanted to get eaten out should i tell him to do it slowly or fast please help
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Well Im going to start my last year of secondary, year 11 and we'll have o levels. the thing is... school is just SO depressing and sad. i have to get up at 7am and im NOT a morning person...the initials of my school are actually S.A.D. Its an all girls school! And the uniform is grey =/. And the rules are SO strict..we cant even choose what color bobble to wear in our hair...has to be wine coloured or black =/. My problem is that i dont know how im going to handle this year without getting depressed again =[ can someone plese help? whats worse is o levels are harder than gcses and school is so boring no boys... and what if im not even in my friends class which is likely?
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