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Breaking up with my boyfriend
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ok, long story short, i want to break up with my boyfriend. We have had a horrible relationship-since february- and we barly talked to eachother.. I want to move on and become avaliable, so in order to do that, i need to talk to him to break up with him... but im not sure how to even talk to him, let alone break up with him face to face.. I'm kinda shy and so is he, but i really dont want to break up with him on the phone or on AIM because i think that is just rude. I dont think ill be able to call him because he doesnt have a cell phone, and i dont want him to get off the home phone and have to confront his mom- if she is home- so the only time i think i could break up w/ him would be during school, but i dont know when where or how to do it. I've herd from my friend who confirmed with him that HE wanted to break up with me. At first i wanted to just let him do it, but i would rather be the dumper rather than the dumpee.. i hope that made sence =]
Anything will help, and sorry if that didn't make very much sence..
Oh, and im 14/f by the way!
Thanks in advance for everything!!
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hmm. for the when, id do at the end of the day that way its not on his mind for the whole day and mess up his day. maybe even on friday, so he has the weekend to kind of cool down, even if he does wanna break up too, ya know? Where? doesnt really matter, probably in the hallway, and then you can just both go your seperate ways (emotionally and literally lol) And the how, if he wants it too, you shouldn't have too much explaining to do. Just tell him honestly how youre feeling, and only say you want to be friends if you do.
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write him a letter, sit with him while he reads it, dont appologize, your not in the wrong, just tell him youve both grown apart and its something you think will be good for both of you, make him feel like its a mutual decision, let him think its what he wants more than you, you have the power to control the situation USE It. talk him through it. when its over thank god for your freedom{until next time anyway} Lots of luck BRIE
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