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sex with a guy
female
14
so ive never really been in a proper relationship and i would really like to be with a guy
im a little fat but i think i am pretty
i cant really find a guy that likes me
i also wish to have sex very soon
everybody else seems to in my year except me
i really want to have sex to see what its like
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trust me i had sex at 14 its def not worth it. all it does is give u a bad reputation and it ruins a relationship...when you have sex your childhood is gone..please wait until your like 17 to do it its not worth it ull be let down its not that great. just because everyones doing it doesnt mean you should. wait until you find someone you know loves you for you and even then ide wait 6 months into the realtionship so you know hes not using you
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you're FOURTEEN! you shouldnt be wishing to have sex anytime soon! and honestly, its pathetic that you want to have sex just cuz "everyone" in your grade has cuz pretty sure 75% are lying. at LEAST. so start high school with high values and a resistance to peer pressure or you'll end up being an alcoholic slut just like the rest of 'em.
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I completely agree with the first person who wrote on here. It is not all it's cracked up to be. Also, it is soo true that AT LEAST half of the people who said they have sex...haven't. They are just saying it so they "fit in". Very stupid, I know. I think you are too young also, though I know how much you don't like to hear it. Trust me...i've had enough problems with sex myself...and it wasn't pregnancy or an STD...I got a urinary tract infection (which is VERY common among women and girls who have sex). I waited too long to tell my mom (because I would have to tell her I was having sex) and it spread to my kidneys. I was hospitalized and in a LOT of pain. I had to tell my mom and it broke her heart because it broke her trust...
So its not just pregnancy and STDS that can scare people away from sex...it's everything...it's life changing...and at your age...it isn't worth the trouble. You have other things to worry about. Trust me.
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When i was your age i remeber wanting to have sex because everyone else was doing it but i think that you should wait until you get alittle older so u can have a better and more sensual time while having sex and then maybe you can have an actual relationship eith the person you choose to have sex with. But if you feel that you are truly ready for sex then i think that you should go for it and have fun with your life the choice is up to you its your life.
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