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addicted to....
15/f
well this summer i lost my virginity to my
ex boyfriend, who broke up w/ me a few weeks after we had sex the first time..... im single but im still cravy sex so im afraid to get closer to anyone cauz ill use my sexual impullses to chose you i'll date and who i wont...
i dont want to become like my ex cauz we were friends for about a year before he asked me out cauz he had already had a girlfriend who he also was screwin, so when he brok up w/ her he asked me out, he already knew i was soooo ready for sex i was just waitin for someone to ask me if it was ok. so to him i was like a easy to get chic......
pleaz hepl! how do i get control over my sexual impulses so i can have relasionships again?
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Maybe you could start by channeling your sexual impulses into something else. Like schoolwork, a job, or running. Running can be a good way to let out the sexual tension you are feeling. If I were you, I wouldn't start a relationship with someone new until you have your urges under control. If you do start a relationship with someone, go slowly, don't put too much pressure on yourself to not have sex, otherwise you'll wind up having sex. Besides it's normal to have these sexual impulses, you're 15 and your hormones are raging. So, just take things slow and I'm sure you'll figure things out. I hope this helps and good luck with everything.
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You need to just realise that you don't have to have sex ALL of the time.
Build up a relationship without ending up alone with him in the kinds of places you could have sex, go out and do stuff together so that you see more in him than just sex.
Have fun and good luck. xxx
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